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i feel like a rebound, like he's just using me..to make her jealous. i have high hopes that he does like me now, but im afraid i might end up getting hurt.

if you feel like you're being used then don't be with him. Don't let yourself be put into that position. you don't deserve to be used, that's if he is using you to make 'her' jealous. you shouldn't have such a low thought about yourself, if you think he likes you then just go for it. if it's not right it won't work but that's not your fault and you'll definitely get over it x-Y

me and my boyfriend just broke and i broke up with him and now he is going around spreading rumors about me and it is turning my friends against me. I am also a suicidal country girl. I mean i know ways that i could help myself cope with losing my friends but what are some other ways?

well anyone who believes the rumors isn't actually your friend so you don't have to worry about losing them! just stick to those who believe you and back you up, and try talking some sense into him and if he doesn't respond then you just have to ignore his words because they honestly don't matter and you're so much more important than what he's saying about you. people who believe rumors are stupid xx -Y

so me and my guy friend have this pet name for each other. i kinda like him. but i KNOW he likes someone else. one of his friends indirectly told me he likes me. i was like lol no. my friends knew about it and started teasing us. now he's been ignoring for a day and im a bit worriedforourfriendship?

don't bee. if he likes you then that's great! if he doesn't, then it doesn't mean your friendship is over.. you guys can get over it. even if it's awkward it'll be okayy after a while! -Y

What do I do? I don't want to live anymore, but I don't want to cause my family pain.

you need to talk to someone, you can't just give up. Don't only think of your family. think about yourself. ending your life won't make it any better. it will stop any chance of it actyally becoming better. so just stay strong and talkto someone about this. if you're depressed or if something is bothering you then you need someone to understand what you're feeling. if you don't trust a friend then get professional help. you're not alone so stay strong! x -Y

she also wishes I wasn't so quiet and she thinks that I'm very passive how do I become the opposite of that so that she is more attracted to me?

you can't change who you are so she can be more attracted to you. she should like you for you. you can always try to speak more and all but most imp she needs to try to just accept who you are. I think if she really likes you then she would look past your bad qualities x -Y

My best friend feels like I constantly address her as a friend, we're best friends but we're more than that and we both know it. But although we know how we feel about each other no one else does, how do I show her and reassure her that she's more than just a friend to me?

well actions speak louder than more but you're going to have to talk to her about it too.

Recently my good guy friend found out I liked him, funny thing is he has known for ages and he doesn't see me that way. he didn't have the guts to talk to me about it I had to find out from a friend. Our friendship was fine until "^^^^^" - I don't know if being friends will work anymore.

if you're friendship is important to either of you then this won't affect it. i think you should just talk it out and see were the convo leads. he may not like you back but that doesn't mean that he doesn't value you as a friend(or you him) x -Y

-cont- And although I'm not thinking about breaking up with him, I'm terrified that if I ever do...he'll do what he said. Or, he'll break up with me which will probably make me feel bad too. I don't know how to take this lighter, and I'm not sure if it counts as emotional blackmail either.

Okay first of all i don't think your relationship is healthy because thats not how relationships should be like. If you're scared that he'll go through with it (which should not be taken lightly) then get him some help. or sit down and have a talk with him, convince him to get help. Don't feel guilty for wanting to break up or if he breaks up with you just take care x -Y

I've been going out with my current boyfriend for almost a year now, but sometimes we have arguments. He said sometimes he can go psycho, but I brushed it off thinking it was a joke. We had pretty big argument two nights ago, and he said if I break up with him that he'll kill himself. -Cont-

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I went to a game with a friend and I got exited to go because the guy I like is a player on the team but my guy friend I went with bought me the ticket when we got there and then asked all these questions abt me. not sure what his deal is

maybe he's interested in you?

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