im at a new school and theres a party this weekend, and some girls have invited me to get ready at their house, but im kind of shy and stuff and im scared i wont fit in and they'll think im boring haha idk..how do i stop my awkwardness help
just go. trust me, feeling shy is shitty i know, but feeling left out is much worse
see it as a chance to make friends, contribute to the conversation whenever possible even if you dont give a shit about the conversation topic. talk and maybe get some pre-drinks flowing, it's bound to be awkward at first but once things pick up you'll wonder why you ever worried. i've been the new kid before and believe me, just talking about any random bullshit is better than saying nothing at all
see it as a chance to make friends, contribute to the conversation whenever possible even if you dont give a shit about the conversation topic. talk and maybe get some pre-drinks flowing, it's bound to be awkward at first but once things pick up you'll wonder why you ever worried. i've been the new kid before and believe me, just talking about any random bullshit is better than saying nothing at all
