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something you have always wanted to do or say?

I've always wanted to just gather all the people going through a difficult time and remind them that they are beautiful and things eventually get better no matter what and I would stay with them and talk with them until they believed me or felt happier.

Wow I just think its so sweet that someone would make a page for people to come to and talk about their problems without you knowing who it is, you can get no personal benefit so you're obviously just doing it to help others and I think thats so kind, keep it up aw x

I haven't been able to get on here for so long for some reason but, wow, thank you so much! x

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iv got loads of spots what should i do? xxx

It really depends on what kind of skin you have and it is important that you wash you face daily to keep it clean.
Some people rub toothpaste on their spots but that doesn't always work.
Tea-tree oil is quite good to use.
I don't know that many ways but you can check online for more ideas.:)
If nothing seems to be working, get them checked out by a doctor and they will most likely give you a cream which is designed to prevent spots. I used it for about 4-5 weeks and my spots had completely gone. x

what should i do? my hair is sudenly really dry and i have sundden exma! im scared what does tis mean?>

I am unsure but you are able to get treatment for eczema which can help control it as it may be sore and itchy.
Your hair becoming dry may be caused by the eczema.
It shouldn't be anything to worry about but check online or see a doctor for treatment. x
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please follow and ask its bloody eminem <3

You didn't put the link and I'm sorry but I do not listen to that type of music.
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I didnt end up going, none of my girl friends went there so i didnt go, luckily we're not the kind of people to do anything wierd! thanks for the advice x

That's good then and you're welcome lovely x
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is it bad to have mixed sleepovers at 13? me and my friends are all really close and we're planning on having one this saturday, my mums ok with it i just dont know what to acpect

Not necessarily.
Ask the friend that you're closest to what will be happening.
Unless your friends have already lost their virginity or are really interesting in sex, nothing sexual will happen but even if they do start talking about that sort of things, remember that you are only 13 and you should have self respect. Don't do anything sexual as you are underage but it will probably just be a normal sleep over but with boys and girls instead of just girls. I have had quite a few sleep overs with boys before and nothing happened but I guess it depends on the sort of people you hang out with.
Have fun! x
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How do you start / tell someone you wanna do something sexual

If you have been dating for a long enough time and you truly love them is the best time to start.
It's best if the two of you can tell each other everything because it shouldn't make it too awkward.
What I think you should do is get onto the subject of sex and after you have been talking about it for a while, say something like "Maybe we could try it" but sometimes it does just come naturally and when you're least expecting it. x

I miss my ex and she says she misses me some times but she says she isnt ready for a relationship so idk what to do

You have two options for this:
1) Try and block her out of your mind and try to get over her.
or 2) Respect her choice and wait patiently until she's ready for another relationship and ask her out again. x

i used to go on facebook once a day, which is normal! there are two boys in my class that keep saying im adicted so i gave it up for lent. they still wont shut up and dont belive i really havent been on it! i just want them to relise that i can and will do it!

If you enjoy going on facebook, you shouldn't give it up just because two boys don't like you using it a lot but just tell them to check at random times to see if you are online and that will prove them wrong after they realize you're not on. x

how can you tell your ex fancies you even though he has another gf?xox

He may look at you a lot, talk to you more than other girls, smile at you, etc.
Study his body language too. If he is turned to you when you two are talking, he probably still likes you.
There are other signs but it really depends on the guy. x

even though i have only just discovered this page and i havent asked anything i thank you for helping these people im sure it means alot to them all and i hope you find atleast some joy in helping others and i hope you have a long and happy life :)

Aww thank you! And I do, I love helping others with their problems! If you ever do need some advice, i'm always here. x

I miss my ex and she kinda misses me what do i do ¿

Well if you both miss each other and both single, you could try and give it another go! X

I am in year 9 and my breasts are still only a 34A, is this normal? Will they get any bigger? There are girls who are almost flat chested in my year but I still don't know if my boobs will grow.

Some girls just have naturally small breasts, it's nothing to worry about.
You are still pretty young so they will grow larger as you grow up. x

I've just cut all over my legs, arms and chest. My bestfriend killed herself last night. I loved her so much and now I feel so empty. I feel like ending it all so I can be with her again. I miss her so much. I don't know why she did it. She was always so happy.

That almost made me cry, I can't imagine what pain you're going through right now. *hugs*
Think of your best friend. Would she really want you to do this? To harm yourself? No. Your best friend really does not want you to hurt yourself. Remember, she will always be watching over you;guiding you.
I want you to take a pen, preferably a sharpie (they last longer) and write your best friend's name all over your body as many times as you can. When. You feel like cutting you will pull up your sleeve or your trouser leg and see her name. It will remind you to stay strong for her. Every time you are pull down your sleeve/trouser leg and are able to stop yourself from cutting, you will make her happy; she will be proud of you and that's what you want, right?
If that's not enough, write all your memories together on paper and stick them where you will see them the most. It will put a smile on your face so you can start the day with positive thoughts.
I know that it will be incredibly hard to cope at the moment but you will be strong. You will be strong for not just your best friend, but for you too.
I really hope this has helped!
Stay strong, beautiful.<3

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My period comes every 21 days not 28 and this has went on for a year now, I never tell my mam when I am on because I am to scared. I am 13 but 14 in less than 2 weeks. Could you help me?

I'm pretty sure that that's normal. Periods come every 28 days on average but quite a lot or different. Mine sometimes come at random times. There's nothing to worry about.x

I started cutting yesterday after i hurt my ex girlfriend by sain i miss her then i thought she was saying what the fuck is up with you and then i said oh wasnt ment for u then i said it was for her she didnt beleve me and i dunno what to say now

Aww *hugs*
Tell her that you heard her wrong and didn't want to embarrass yourself so said that, you really miss her and wish you two never broke up, etc. Just try and be sweet and eventually she'll come to believe you. x

My period isnt normally regular, its always skipping around, how can i get it to be regular? Btw im 14

It's normal. When you start your periods, for the first year or so, they will come whenever they feel like it. Periods also usually happen every 28 days but it's different for most people. My period will come at the beginning of the month, one month and the next, in the middle or whatever. There's nothing to worry about. x

I am feeling extremely suicidal. Not because I'm sad or depressed, but because I don't see the point in life. We learn, we work, we die.

Hey, don't give up!
I know life might seem pointless but if you look at all the positive things: friends, family, music, good times, memories, you will realize that there is so much more to live for. You have to learn so you can get qualifications to get a decent job with good money that you will hopefully enjoy to feed your family. You will also make new friends in school/university/college/work and with your friends, you can go out partying, make memories, holidays. You will also one day find a husband/wife and start a family of your own who you can love and look after.
These things may seem pointless but you just have to look on the bright side of things! Don't end your life, it's too precious and some people have to fight to live. x

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