What makes you feel really uncomfortable?
Perfect question...
When there is tension between my dad and I, like what just happened in the past 60 minutes. Was fixing to leave for the library to get online and made the stupid mistake to check my phone. But also glad I did. I had to tell someone something. That's all I am saying on that. Then my parents and sister came home, my mom asked me if I was leaving and I said yes. My bike was out front ready to roll. She then told me my dad had to talk to me about me leaving my keys in the door from ..... yesterday. O.o
He ragged on me I needed to pick up my clothes in my room. Then proceeded to tell me that I leave my keys in the door, EVERY week and that it was a habit. I retorted, I do not do it every week and it is not even a habit. A habit is something you do more than every week. I have not. The habit I had was taking my keys in and setting them down inside somewhere then I forget to snatch up again then I want to leave again, I gotta look for them. That was a habit. He said it is dangerous I left them in the door cause someone didn't have to get in at the se4ond. They can take the keys and I would not have them anymore. I GET THAT.
My issue is; he thinks it is a habit. IT IS NOT. Him ragging on me is. Him aggravating me is a habit. Yes he loves me and sometimes he pushes tooo hard, tooo often. After him ragging on me, I immediately popped off my bed and quickly cleaned the clothes off my floor, put them all in the hamper except for the ones I wanted to wear, put the hamper in its spot and got dressed in a way I could without being indecent. Then finally was able to close my door and get my shorts on. He then left to go to the Miramar Air show. I asked my mom what about my keys and she got them for me and I left, slamming the door behind me PISSED off at my dad for unintentionally pissing me off.
So actually the fact that I stopped to take a look at my phone served a great purpose. I may not have left without my keys. Since I wouldn't be able to find them, maybe I wouldn't leave. But then again maybe I would have cause someone would be home when I got back but there wouldn't have a serious rift, not until later this evening.
When there is tension between my dad and I, like what just happened in the past 60 minutes. Was fixing to leave for the library to get online and made the stupid mistake to check my phone. But also glad I did. I had to tell someone something. That's all I am saying on that. Then my parents and sister came home, my mom asked me if I was leaving and I said yes. My bike was out front ready to roll. She then told me my dad had to talk to me about me leaving my keys in the door from ..... yesterday. O.o
He ragged on me I needed to pick up my clothes in my room. Then proceeded to tell me that I leave my keys in the door, EVERY week and that it was a habit. I retorted, I do not do it every week and it is not even a habit. A habit is something you do more than every week. I have not. The habit I had was taking my keys in and setting them down inside somewhere then I forget to snatch up again then I want to leave again, I gotta look for them. That was a habit. He said it is dangerous I left them in the door cause someone didn't have to get in at the se4ond. They can take the keys and I would not have them anymore. I GET THAT.
My issue is; he thinks it is a habit. IT IS NOT. Him ragging on me is. Him aggravating me is a habit. Yes he loves me and sometimes he pushes tooo hard, tooo often. After him ragging on me, I immediately popped off my bed and quickly cleaned the clothes off my floor, put them all in the hamper except for the ones I wanted to wear, put the hamper in its spot and got dressed in a way I could without being indecent. Then finally was able to close my door and get my shorts on. He then left to go to the Miramar Air show. I asked my mom what about my keys and she got them for me and I left, slamming the door behind me PISSED off at my dad for unintentionally pissing me off.
So actually the fact that I stopped to take a look at my phone served a great purpose. I may not have left without my keys. Since I wouldn't be able to find them, maybe I wouldn't leave. But then again maybe I would have cause someone would be home when I got back but there wouldn't have a serious rift, not until later this evening.
