I sweat easily. I take showers before school and once gym is over I'm sweaty and smelly. The locker rooms have no bathroom, I'm embarassed to walk around smelling like sweat. idk what to do?

July 19, 2013

I have this problem too. It is so shitty, and makes you uncomfortable and feel like you annoy everyone with your smell. But you can go to the bathroom and change there. Put on a lot of perfume from the way from locker room to the bathroom. Go there wearing your gym clothes, do not change to school clothes so that they do not catch the smell. Go to the bathroom and lock it, but make sure you are alone. Wash your armpits and clean them. Get with you scented soap or shower gel to school. Then change, and put on some perfume. Now, you can go on with the rest of the school day heads up and free with no embarrassment. If you need any more help, do not hesitate to hit me up. Wish you all the best. Much love. xoxo

I always try and make people happy but everyone just shoves it back in my face. i just want to die right now,no one cares about me so it doesn`t matter but every time i try and commit,someone has to get in my way. i just want to be happy but everyone always has to stop me :(

July 12, 2013

You do not have to live trying to make everyone happy. You should try and make yourself happy. First thing, you cannot please everyone. You cannot make everyone happy. And second thing, it is not your job to make everyone happy. Everyone needs to work for their own happiness. Try to forget about the people, and how will they judge you or dislike you when you do something that doesn't please them or make them happy. You should do what you want, and what makes you happy or better for you. Because at the end it is just you, you will end up with your own self with nobody with you. And then you are going to regret wasting your chances for making pleasing people who are not in your life anymore. You need to understand that people come and go. You should not forget about yourself for these people. And people do not like the people who try and please them. They end up using you because you were too kind. You can be kind, but not stupid. Be yourself, have a strong personality, do whatever pleases YOU, and see how people treat you after these changes. They will respect you more. Just think about it for a moment. Think about a friend you had before, how you tried to please him/her by blowing off your happiness and chances, and how this friend is not in your life anymore. Think how you wasted valuable chances over someone that is temporary and will leave after sometime. Learn from this mistake. Try doing what I told for sometime, and observe the changes in how people treat you. Hit me up anywhere if you need any more advice or help. Wish you all the best. Much love. xoxo

i have anxiety and panic attacks after this man threatened to come and find me and get me, ever since i have had nightmares and to take my mind off stuff i have started self harming, every day i tell myself to stop that i wont do anymore but i just cant i'm afraid that it will get worse and i could

July 04, 2013

Why would this guy threaten you like that? If you have done something wrong, I advice you to go forward and tell your parents everything, and that after all he threatened you, and how you are panicking, and they will provide you security. If you haven't done anything wrong, still go forward and tell your parents everything. They might tell the cops, and this guy can tracked, and the cops will deal with him. And after that, you will be safe, no panic attacks, no anything. And for cutting, why do you do this? Why are you ruining your body? You cut now to take your mind off the problem, but later on when you deal with it, it will come back to your mind every time you see the scars. Why would you want to remind yourself of this problem? Try and get rid of everything that is pointy and can be used to cut yourself, throw them out of the house. Do not think about self-harm, or scars, or blood, or cutting. Just take it of your mind. This is not the solution. If you want to take your mind off things, do something fun. Blow off steam in something you enjoy. Play a sport or something. Build something. Do art. Anything you enjoy. Listen to music. Do anything that will keep you busy. Go out on an adventure with your friends. Try doing something fun to forget. Cutting is not the solution to anything. It will just remind you of the problem forever, and ruin your body. Please deal with this problem, talk to someone that might help. And try to stop cutting. Take it step at a time. But most importantly do not overthink to put yourself in the compulsion to cut. Try, and please stop. If you need any other help, someone to talk to, anything, do not hesitate to hit me up. Will always be there. Wish you all the best. Stay strong. Much love. xoxo

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Hey , I'm the girl with the question below ... Umm ... It happened !!!!!!!! He raped me , this morning at 5:00 a.m I don't know what to do ?? I don't wanna tell my mom .. I wanna tell my aunt .. But I won't see her until Saturday . Help. Please , what's your Kik name ? I wanna tell you everything

July 02, 2013

Ok, leave your kik in a question, I won't answer it, and I'll hit you up. I don't want to leave my kik because pervs add me, sorry. Much love. xoxo

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my little 7 year old sister was raped by our 14 year old brother .. my sister isn't here right now so my brother is spending a night , I feel uncomfortable goin to sleep while he's around . But I'm so sleepy but don't be wanting to go to sleep because I think it will happen to me . What should I do?

July 01, 2013

You can sleep in your room, and lock the door. Or go sleep at some friends house. You should also tell your mother about how uncomfortable you are being around your brother. Tell her how you always feel that when you guys are alone somewhere he might rape you too. Your brother needs to see therapy. It is so bad what he is in. I wish your family all the happiness and best in your lives. If you need someone to talk to, I am always here. Hit me up here or kik or anywhere. Wish you all best. Much love. xoxo

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I hav a belly button fetish

July 01, 2013

I would help you if I know what a belly button fetish is? xoxo

i feel so suicidal,i don`t want to do anything though because i know it will upset a lot of people,what do i do? :(

June 29, 2013

Do not do anything. Whatever is making you feel like there is no way out, and that their is no hope does not deserve you to kill yourself. Think about all the positive things you have in life that other people do not have. Thank God for all the blessings. Just sit for a moment and think about the blessings. Believe me it will make you feel a lot better. You have many things. You are able to eat, think about the homeless people who would do anything to get a small piece of bread. Think about the people in Africa who are nothing but skin and bones. You have a house, you go to school, and all these things. You are in a big blessings. Whatever is making you feel down is temporary. Problems come and go. If you want to talk about what is bothering you, I will always be here. Just hit me up on kik. Do not lose your life for some temporary problem. Think about the past problems you had, and how you got over it, and if you have had ended your life over it, you would miss on the good times you had after it. Think about your parents, and how would they continue their life knowing that their daughter/son had committed suicide. They will think it is their fault they weren't their for you. Do you want them to live in guilt and sadness? Believe me, it is not worth it. These problems are temporary, they will go. And do not overthink stuff. If you are feeling down, try to get yourself busy with something. Do not think about the thing that will put you down. Or you do not know what to do, just put on music and dance. Go wild. Believe you feel like life is good. And I am always here for you. Wish you all the best. Much love. xoxo

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Who is this

June 27, 2013

HelpAndAdvicexxo

so ive been speaking to this guy for a while now and weve said we have liked eachother but we had an argument over something small and he deleted me of black berry messenger, and he said i was too clingy, what should i do?

June 27, 2013

If it was your fault, after a while, call him and apologize. If it was his fault, then forget about him till he says sorry. And btw, take what he told you seriously. People say the truth about what they think about you when they are angry. So you should stop being clingy. Do not talk to him 24/7, or stick to him. Try to be on your own sometimes. You know. If need more help, hit me up here or on kik. It would be my pleasure to help. Much love. xoxo

I'm the person who said about liking the boy yesterday I just found out that he fancies my best friend like proper wants to fuck her what do I do my friend doesn't know I no tho

June 26, 2013

Oh shit, this used to always happen to me. Feels so bad. But is your friend the loyal type? If you told her would she go, and fuck him, or would she avoid him for you? I think you should tell her. And tell her how you feel about it. Tell her what you want her to do. You can get her to make him fall in love with you, that's if she is the loyal type. You know. She can get you to hang out with them, talk about you and all the good stuff about you. All these things. But if she is going to go to him, go ahead and tell her. She is going to go to him, so now you know what type of friend she is. You will know that she is not a good friend. It would hurt seeing them both together, but atleast you are not sticking around fake friends. Then you can look for new friends, and try to move on. I am suggesting you tell her because either way she is going to know. So she better know from you, and how you feel about it, and all. Hit me up on kik. Wish you all the best. Much love. xoxo

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I need help! I am 14 and have sex like 13-14 times a week and get payed around 60 dollars each time!I was sucking on this guys dick and then he wanted to stick his dick in my vagina so I said yh. Then he forgot his condom and now I'm pregnant at 14! I don't wanna b cos that means I hv to stop sex :(

June 25, 2013

Wow dude. This is really messed up. You really need to stop sleeping around. What are you doing? And you are sleeping around for money. Are you that desperate for it? You know what you are. A prostitute. Does that make you feel good? Does that make you proud of yourself? And you are still 14. You should be doing homework, and watching cartoon, not sucking dicks. And 13 to 14 times a week. Wow. Just wow. A professional prostitute does not even do that much. I am not trying to make you feel down, but what you are doing is just over the limits. Why are you even doing this? Where is your self-respect? My mom told me that a girl is like a diamond. It should be taken care of till it is given to its prince. Do you think a prince will come when you are this way? You really really should stop this shit, and start acting your age. But now you are pregnant, and all you are sad about is that it will stop you from having sex? Really? What about the baby? What will you tell your parents? First thing, you should not abort this baby. Have the baby. Do not abort him. Do you hear me? I know most of you people will refer to abortion, but this is not the solution. What gives you the right to kill an innocent creature? Have the baby, and if you are not ready to raise it, give to adoption. But you did something stupid, and you are suppose to take responsibility for your actions. I am sorry I am being harsh, but this is just way too messed up. Do not take decisions without adult help. You are still too young. And you need to change your messed up lifestyle. If need more advice, hit me up here or on kik. I will always be there. Wish you all best. Much love. xoxo

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i really like this boy but him this girl say there bestfriends but they have done everything apart from sex, he flirts with loads of girls but when he does to me i feel special but then i think of the "bestfriend" and just give up again what should i do. i thought i was over him but then we kissed:0

June 25, 2013

From what you told me, I can tell that this guy is a player. And I know that players actually fall in love when they meet a girl that does not show them interest. They like a girl that is harder to get. And this guy over here seems to get all the girls. He kissed you, the bestfriend, and I bet a lot of other girls you do not know of. The best thing over here is got over him, and you won't be able to do that except if you totally avoid him, stop talking to him, try to not see him, and like get him completely out of your life. That way it will be easier to get over him. And do not talk about him even to your friends, because the more you talk about someone the more you fall in love. So try avoiding everything related to him. If you start thinking about him, just get yourself busy with something so that you take him out of your mind. And try to avoid spending time alone, because then you will think about him, and miss him. And try to meet other guys and flirt and all of that. But if you do not want to get over him, just do as I told you, be hard. Do not make him kiss you again. Be really hard. Do not ask about him. Show no interest, and all these stuff. Then you will get his attention. After that, be nice, then slowly slowly everything will happen. There are plenty of ''how to get a player to fall in love'' articles online. Read them. Even though it seems stupid, they actually help. But advice from me personally, you better get over him. Because you'll end up heartbroken, but if you want, take the risk. You can learn from this experience. Hope I helped you. If you need anymore help, hit me up here or on kik. Much love. xoxo

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I really need some help I've try to kill my self about 3 time and I'm curtly self hating and I don't know what to do I've just geven up on everything I never seem to do the right thing or be good enough for anyone please help:'(

June 24, 2013

No, you are good enough. You know, sometimes people get the message wrong. I am guessing someone hurt you or something. Sometimes the person may not the right one, sometimes you may have chosen the wrong one, or maybe they pretended to be something they are not. Or maybe you got the wrong message. Do not blame everything on you. Because if things did not work out, it is meant to be. I won't keep talking about people because that may not be the problem, but I do not think that any problem is worth you trying to take away your life 3 times. Why? You still have a life to live. And a good one. God will not give us hardships to face without giving us the strength to face them. But God gives us options. He puts us in hardships because he wants us to get back to him. To pray to him, and ask him for help, because he the one who can do anything. Believe me, nothing at all is worth taking away your life. Of course there are plenty of good things in your life. Sit for a moment, and list them down. Think about the people who have nothing, and how blessed you are, and thank God, and ask him to help you. And seek support in people you trust. Your family or friends or anyone. And if there no one you trust, you can come to me, I will be there. All the time. Hit me up here or on kik if you need anything. And please, please, please, stop harming yourself. You are beautiful, believe me, you are. Wish you all the best. Much love xoxo

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Thankyou sooo much

June 24, 2013

Do not mention it :'') Much love. xoxo

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Umm I need some help I'm 14 know and I've been self harming for two almost three year and I keep wanting to do it but I promised my boyfriend I would stop! Be he keep telling me that he know I can do it! But I don't think I can I just keep really wanting to do it!:'(

June 24, 2013

What makes you want to continue? Why would you want to harm your body? The beautiful blessing from God? Why would want to continue making scars all over your body? Why would you want that after you overcome the problems that make you cut, that you look at your body again later on and remember these days? Why do you want to harm yourself? Why would you want to watch yourself bleed? You are in a blessing! Believe me. Having blood is a blessing. There are a million of people in hospitals who are waiting for someone to donate their blood. Many people die because of shortage of blood. Ok, what makes you want to cut? The problems you have? Do you think these problems are worth you cutting yourself? Do you want these problems to leave a mark on your body that remind you of them? Or do you want to overcome the problem, forget about it, and continue you with an amazing life with nothing to remind you of it. You need to stop cutting for yourself, for your family, for your friends, for your boyfriend, for every single person that cares about you. Do not keep any sharp objects in your sight. Get rid of everything. Every single thing. When you get thoughts about cutting, just do something. Get yourself busy with something. Talk to your boyfriend/friends/family/or even me. Just get yourself busy with something. Go eat, take a shower, go out, anything. And one important thing, do not overthink. Believe me, nothing is worth you ruining that beautiful body of yours, and filling it with scars. Please, do not cut. And please do not hesitate to talk to me if you need anything else. Wish you all the best. Much love. xoxo
Stop cutting. Please

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This is not fake,they are trying to help people! And they have helped me!! So you can go away and leave them alone so they can help people :)

Beth✝

June 24, 2013

Thanks you so much! Hit me up. Much love. xoxo

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I need help, i always feel like im to blame for everything bad, i self harm and i sometimes try to kill myself, i need to stop, before Its too late:'(

June 24, 2013

Awh sweetie, why do you blame yourself? You need to stop thinking that you are the reason for every problem. You are not. Sometimes you may be the reason, but it is alright, everyone makes mistakes. Not everyone is perfect. But for not every problem you are reason. This is so wrong. Plus, everything happens for a reason. God makes specific things happen for a reason, so even if it turned out bad, I bet you learned something from it. Stop making all the bad things revolve around you. I bet you are an angel. Do not put all the responsibilities on you. Just take life as a simple thing. Get closer to God. Pray to him. Everything leaves, except a prayer it goes with please and comes back with blessings. Coming back to your problem, do not overthink stuff, because I bet that is what makes you end up thinking you are the reason. Do not put yourself in everything saying it is all my fault. Do not blame yourself, you are beautiful, believe me. And please, pretty please, do not cut yourself. It won't solve anything. You are just ruining your body. Your beautiful body. And when you overthink something, just get it out of your mind and try to get yourself busy with something. And if you are feeling down again, talk to your friends, if they are not available, I am always available. Hit me up here or on kik. Wish you all the best. Much love. xoxo

P.S. Read this, about self-harming
http://ask.fm/HelpAndAdvicexxo/answer/48357840987

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Oh fuck off fake girlie

June 24, 2013

You know what dude? People like you are the reason that people actually self-harm. You are the reason that these kind of pages are here. I am here trying to help people, and give them hope, trying to tell them that life is good, trying to make them enjoy life, because everyone deserves a happy life. Then people like you come, and call me fake? How am I fake? I am just trying to get the life back into people. Why do you guys do this? Why do you go around calling people names, bullying them, when they did not do anything to you? People's lives are lost because of this. Why don't you guys wake up?

Shout out to all the beautiful people out there who have been bullied/called names/self-harmed/lost self-confidence/etc, you guys are the best, do not let anyone put you down. Much love. xoxo

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This is fake, you asked yourself questions about cuttting, which is out of order to people who do cut

June 24, 2013

No I didn't. I am here to help. Hit me up if you need something. Much love. Xoxo

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thankyou for the advice on self harming,i really needed it as i am at my lowest point of life now,thankyou <3 much love <3

June 24, 2013

There's no need I swear :''') I just hope you overcome these hardships, and be fine. Much love. Xoxo

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That advice about the boy really helped,Thank you!xox

June 24, 2013

My pleasure. :'') If you need anything more, hit me up. Much love. xoxo

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I really like this boy but i don't know if he likes me back? i don't know what to do, my friends say ask him out but i don't know cause i don't like getting regected :(

June 24, 2013

Don't ask him out till he gives you the chance, and it is better if he asks you out. If you do not talk to this guy, then start talking him, get close to him. You can tell whether he likes you or not by comparing the way he treats you and other girls. Get a friend of yours to watch, or get a friend to get close to him too then she would know, and if he liked you, he would tell her. Anyways, get really close to him, be there for him all the time, joke around with him, make him have fun being with you, make him enjoy being with you, make him trust you, ask about him and how he is doing, if he is down, talk to him and figure out why. Like, be really close to him, but do not give him the hint that you like him. Make it normal, a normal friend, but include some flirtation, but do not make it obvious. Then hangout, hangout a lot. Become so close. Let your friends talk to him about you, and the crazy stuff you did, and all that. They say the more you talk about someone the more you fall in love. Then yeah, hopefully, he will like you by then, and allow him to make a move. Wish you all the best. If you want more advice, hit me up here or on kik. Good luck with him. Much love. xoxo

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can you give me some advice? I've been self harming for a long time now, and I'm honestly trying to stop but I don't think I want to. I have really bad urges, and I just cut over 100 times today. I don't know what to do anymore, I want to do this for my friends, help me, please

June 24, 2013

No, stop cutting. Stop ruining that beautiful body of yours. Do you think anything is worth you ruining yourself? God has blessed you with a beautiful amazing body, and that is how you thank him for it? By cutting it? Please stop. If you do not care about yourself, think about your family. Your family who has been working hard for you their entire life. Their future is you. Their hope is you. You are their only hope. You are their everything. Is that what they deserve? Even if they have made a few mistakes, believe me, you are their everything. Think about your friends. Please stop this. When you feel the urge to do it, just stop, and think for a minute. Think is this worth it? Is it worth ruining your body, and have permanent scars on your body that will remind you of these bad times every time you shower or look at your body. Just sit a moment and think for yourself. Get rid of all the sharp stuff, because having them near you will give you thoughts of doing it. And try avoiding stay by yourself. Keep yourself busy, and look at the positive things in life. You have many blessings, other people in this world wish to have. Look down at these people, and be thankful for what you have. Do not cut. Please do not. And plus, if you feel lonely, I am there for you, hit me up here on kik. Please do not cut you beautiful. Much love. xoxo

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