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Then why her contact in his phone when his sim and mobile are brand new. He bought them after he broke up with her. I don't know what all of this is. I want to know what he does with me when we meet, is it out of lust or not. I want to know so many things. I'm so lost!- 6669

Okay, you are the judge of the situation.. To love and be loved is a blessing... If he cheated on her with you and cheated again.. What does that say about his interpretation of love and lust, are the two mixed up?? Hes warned you telling you that he doesn't believe in love.. You two both want different things... Its up to you to decide whether he genuinely is in love with you or whether he's too materialised...
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That's really good advice thank you. Im just nervous that what if it's awkward and he wonders how on earth I got his snaochat. :/ 044

Firstly, when in conversation, DO NOT overthink about the conversation and the things you will ask as well as talk about. Just simply enjoy and go with the flow. This isn't an exam and don't feel pressured you have to say something. Appreciate the moment. And ask the friend to ask permission first. If he says yes to his friend, that is a good start. I wouldn't put all my hope with that initial stage, talk to him first and play off the vibe.

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I like this guy,he is hot AF,and I wanna confess to him when I see him again.How should I confess to him?

Just simply confess .. Don't be afraid.

I met this guy last night and his friends with my friend. We go to completely different schools and I probs won't see him again but I have this feeling in my gut that I need to talk to him it's hard to explain :( I want to text him but I don't have his number. he has ask fm Insta + snapchat idk. 044

Snapchat him with "Hi" .. reintroduce yourself and start the conversation with last night. On snapchat, you also have the opportunity to personal message people as well, so that would be a great tool. Once you start the conversation, you will build up a little more confidence. Use that to just be upfront. Keep in mind through that it is better to confront your feeling earlier on than having to go through a period of time where the likelihood of getting into the friend zone increases.

#How does one avoid jealousy in a relationship? Is it easy to build trust... After it has once been broken by the same person bec (he) flirted w/ another girl? I really love him but sometimes I feel fucking stupid for fucking feeling this way and I feel so used and abused :( It hurts me so much :'(#

This isn't healthy for you at all. This is a time where you need to now get some space and regain that mental strength and see whether you really want to be in this relationship. Once you are mentally strong .. I would suggest to then talk to the person you are in a relationship with. To build that trust says you are willing to let that person grab hold part of yourself. You need to be prepared for that step .. again. If you feel sceptical as to whether to do that .. Do you not just want to be happy and be with someone that appreciate and just care about that happiness and that beauty of yours?

Will it be weird if I randomly start talking to a girl in year 11 over social media? Like there's 4 weeks left till exams and stuff but I really like her ;/ 376

I suggest you meet her in person .. But to answer your question, it will be weird if she doesn't know you. If she does, it will not be weird.

How do I get a girl that hates me to like me through Instagram?

You can't really make someone like you .. and doing it through Instagram is pretty pathetic. I suggest, you send her a personal picture on the private chat, via Instagram, and just try and get to know her. From then on, work with the vibe. So keep pushing forward if she gives dead responses.

Hi, we confessed in front of our friends that we like each other then we became too awkward at schl. he's not chatting, texting or any, so I told him again about liking him and he didn't responded after that day I saw his tweets saying "I like u is diff from I love u" so I'm confused rn. Pls help

It takes time for things to move forwards .. with some people it may be fast or it may be slow. But I suggest you ask him in person what the feelings really are, and see whether they are mutual. If he still carries on with dead responses, it is time to move on.

Is it normal that my boyfriend's reactions to my nude photos are just the same as he sees sexy photos of celebs? Also i am bothered by the number of women he follows on IG who regularly post revealing and nude photos. Sometimes he would even leave comments. Is this rly a guy thing or is he a perv

In all honestly, majority of the attention should be dedicated to you. He should only really just focus on your beauty. It is indeed a guy thing, it is natural but there has to be a limit. If you feel this is bothering you, talk to him. You need to build that trust and he needs to aware of the presence of the trust. Vice Versa.

Sometimes I tend to feel like he's just thinking of sex all the time. Ofcourse I dont wanna say that Im the only one who lost something between the 2 of us cos Im a girl blah blah.. *insert societal views abt virginity*.. But really, it makes me think twice sometimes.. Am I overreacting? :( #334

Of course you are not over-reacting. Truth being told, guys will always have the attractive 'celebrity' .. Its natural. However, having an obsession and a girlfriend, well thats a different matter. You need to find out how he feels towards you .. if he is genuine. Think about whether you actually trust him in the way he sees you compared to other girls. To be honest and in actual fact .. the only beauty he should really be admiring is yours.

I care so much about him and I want him to know that he should take care of himself (his health) even more. Please help me, I need some advice :'( thank you and I wish you all the best. [066]

I suggest you sit him down where it is just you two talking without any distraction. By this, he will most likely approach this convo more seriously. Yes, it will be difficult to tell him upfront but this is the best and most effective way. Explain your feelings and furthermore, explain how you'll help him. He may not realise, but he needs your support and for you to be at his side. Dont worry.
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Not sure. I don't think I can really feel anything. :( #21

You need to give yourself time to really decide how you feel (i.e avoid speaking to him for a week or 2). There is a great chance he might be a good guy for you .. so try and hang out with him and get to know him bit more. HOWEVER, if you do decide that you strongly have restricted feelings for him, you need to tell him in person about how you will feel. If he is genuine and a true gentlemen, he will back off and give you space as well as be understanding about the whole situation. Sometimes you need to shake the ground a little to wake someone up. #21
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He still texts me and flirts and all, I remember when I first rejected him he was so heartbroken. Problem is I don't think he suits me… idk how, but I just don't feel like he's the type he'd help me with a problem or stuff like that. He doesn't show how much he cares. He only shows me how he's #21

#21 .. How do you feel towards him at the moment?

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If a guy likes you .. He will dedicate his upmost attention to you and to you only. He seems to want just play around but I can't be sure of that. I think you should just ask him up front with what is going on .. This will not make things awkward but in a way it will also clear your mind as to where you stand as well as where he stands. Don't be afraid in being up front .. I must say though, it does seem like he enjoys speaking with you, weather the topic does touch on certain nature. But do be careful in making sure that he isn't just taking advantage of you.
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So this guy and I have known each other for awhile, we never really talked last year and he said he wouldn't date me or anything else and this year were in the same classes and he hits on me but sometimes seems only for sexual purposes. But we have had deep conversations on Facebook and

Did you finish your question 001?

Okay please answer what I should do! I need advice fast.

Please repeat question .. at the end of question add code 001 :)

I sorta have feelings for 3 guys. Two of them a lot and one a littler bit. I've heard that they like me. what do I do??

Give yourself space from all three and see which one comes after you.
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So you kind of suggested me to try and talk to him face to face. But I can't, he lives in another country. Although we are both from the same city. I get to meet him only twice when he gets back to my country

Aaah I see .. I then suggest you should skype him or speak to him on the phone. Something where you can really sense him presence.
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if he really love you , will we stop talking to his girl best friend

Answering with the assumption you said "will he" .. The answer is no. Here it is all about trust.
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How do you tell your parents you're gay...?

There isn't a set way, you should be honest, up front and just tell them. You are who you are .. And no one should take that away from you. I wish you all the best.

how do i begin talking to a girl in grade 11, im in grade 10 and i think she would like me if we started talking 055

Just start simple - avoid closed ended questions and try and get to know her. The only thing you have to keep in mind is .. enjoy the interaction. Do NOT go into having a conversation with a set of questions in your head. Just relax and stay cool.

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