You ok bro?
Nope 😂
Ask @ShootTheSmiley
I'm okay. Just read stuff like "If I could just have like one day when I don't feel like shit by the end of it that'd be great" and see retweets about self harming. Sending good vibes and hugs your way!
Thank you, but if you're ever concerned it'd be more genuine if you actually said something on Twitter rather than anonymous messages. Not to sound like a bitch or anything but I honestly am growing to hate ask.fm because regardless of whether I get nice messages or not, it's really starting to make me uncomfortable getting them from people when I have no idea who it is. Besides, I think you're about the only person who actually sends me stuff on here anymore 😂
You doing okay? In general I mean.
Yeah, you?
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Apology utterly accepted, but really not needed at all - as I failed to type coherently in the first place.
Ok
Okay, obviously I utterly failed to get across the point I was trying to make. And thus you've got the wrong end of the stick. I wasn't defending the guy - totally the opposite in fact. But it's clear that it didn't come across that way.
Ok yeah I kinda realised that's probably what you meant after I answered but yeah you did kinda word that poorly, sorry.
Yeah, I think so. We're classed as 'geeks' as it is. Now we're 'creeps' too. Here's a brush and a bucket of tar. Not you personally, obviously.
Wtf?! Are you fucking serious right now? Do you have any idea what that guy did? I'll tell you shall I? He followed me, and I followed him back because I saw that he liked Doctor Who etc LIKE I DO AS WELL, and then he messaged me asking if he could ask me a few questions, which I assumed would be perfectly innocent, getting-to-know-you questions. Instead, he jumps straight in with "are you a virgin?", and then starts asking what order I wash in the shower, and whether I shave and in what order, and was just asking generally invasive questions. It was creepy. There is no other word for it. And even when I told him it was creepy, he ignored me.
And then I see that all he does on his account is tweet other girls asking if he can message them too, and is now giving some bs story about how his DMs aren't working so he can get links to their more personal Facebook pages.
Jesus fucking Christ don't leap to bullshit conclusions. IM A GEEK. I've had my time of being obsessed with to shows. Being a geek is fine, being a creep is not.
And then I see that all he does on his account is tweet other girls asking if he can message them too, and is now giving some bs story about how his DMs aren't working so he can get links to their more personal Facebook pages.
Jesus fucking Christ don't leap to bullshit conclusions. IM A GEEK. I've had my time of being obsessed with to shows. Being a geek is fine, being a creep is not.
Saw your tweet about creepy people on twitter and then your two references to a pair of accounts. I see he like to repeatedly ask young women and girls for their FB detail. Gives Doctor Who fandom a bad name.
Yeah...?
Nope, not the lighting either, although I'm sure that probably helps.
It helps tremendously 😂
It's not a question. It's simply <3 That is all.
Aww thank you! <3
No, seriously. It's not just the photography. And anyway, beauty isn't just physical appearance.
Ok that's really sweet of you to say and thank you so much but honestly, it probably is just the lighting! If you saw me irl you probably wouldn't even recognise me 😂
Ella, you know you're earth shatteringly beautiful
Ahaha clearly this is someone who's never seen me irl 😂😂 thank you though ;P
Ouch thats bad news for the people
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How many people would you step on if you were a giant
ALL THE PEOPLE
Halloween costume even better with the makeup :D
Aww thank you! It probably looks better in the picture than it did irl though 😂
Love the Halloween costume <3
Aww thank you! x
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Ella, you have an identical twin who attempted to eat in a Cafe Rouge yesterday evening, with her family. Sadly the restaurant was busy and she departed to eat elsewhere.
Ok...greeeaaattt 😂😂
What do you wish you'd had time to do this summer?
Relax 😂
Ella we love you lots ok? I've followed you for ages now and your one of the best people on there hand on heart! You've helped so many of us and me so if you ever want to talk please do xxxxxx
Awww who is this?? Thank you so much for being so lovely, I really appreciate it - don't worry though, I'm fine, promise ;)
Is everything ok honey? You seem down :(
It's ok :)
confession in church - I always think it's a creepy thing to do, was asking your thoughts since you say you're Catholic
Urmm no I don't think it's creepy?? Why would it be? I think the concept of like 7 year olds having to "confess their sins" for Holy Communion is a bit weird but I wouldn't say confession is creepy. If you do it then you believe that the priest is mediating between you and God, so you wouldn't think it was strange I suppose...idk I've only done it twice and both times were because I had to, not out of choice, I don't really like doing it
Confession is creepy, yes or no?
...what??
School now has a woman's rights club
Aw cool! Tbh though if we only have to go in for lessons 1 and 2 tomorrow I'm probs not gonna bother! 😝
will you be attending woman's rights club on Monday ?
What?
I can't walk home after dark due to fear of being raped. I don't care if he is drunk or not
LISTEN TO MEEEE!!!
Oh my gosh anon I'm seriously not saying that him being drunk means it's not rape! If one party is drunk and not the other, it IS rape. We are literally agreeing here idk why you seem to think we don't!
What I'm saying is that if BOTH parties are drunk and neither has control of the situation, it is NOT rape. It looks like I'm gonna have to invent a hypothetical situation here bc I keep saying the same thing and it doesn't seem like anyone actually understands what I'm saying.
1. If party 1 is drunk and consenting, and party 2 is sober and has sex with party 1, that is RAPE.
2. If party 1 is sober and not consenting, and party 2 is drunk and tries to have sex with party 1, that is RAPE.
3. If party 1 and party 2 are equally drunk and both 'consenting' and have sex, it is NOT RAPE. If it was, who would be to blame? Who would you call the rapist? The answer is neither, because both parties are equal. It would be unfortunate if, the morning after, one party felt they had made a mistake and it had not been what hey wanted, but that would still not make it rape.
Oh my gosh anon I'm seriously not saying that him being drunk means it's not rape! If one party is drunk and not the other, it IS rape. We are literally agreeing here idk why you seem to think we don't!
What I'm saying is that if BOTH parties are drunk and neither has control of the situation, it is NOT rape. It looks like I'm gonna have to invent a hypothetical situation here bc I keep saying the same thing and it doesn't seem like anyone actually understands what I'm saying.
1. If party 1 is drunk and consenting, and party 2 is sober and has sex with party 1, that is RAPE.
2. If party 1 is sober and not consenting, and party 2 is drunk and tries to have sex with party 1, that is RAPE.
3. If party 1 and party 2 are equally drunk and both 'consenting' and have sex, it is NOT RAPE. If it was, who would be to blame? Who would you call the rapist? The answer is neither, because both parties are equal. It would be unfortunate if, the morning after, one party felt they had made a mistake and it had not been what hey wanted, but that would still not make it rape.
So you are saying that it's okay to have someone without consent of they are drunk ??? So drunk rape is okay
PLEASE listen to what I'm saying!!
If one party was drunk and consenting, but the other was sober, it would be rape if they had sex with the drunk party because YOU CANNOT PROPERLY CONSENT WHEN YOU ARE DRUNK. If you are sober and and have sex with someone who is drunk (whether they are consenting or not) THAT IS RAPE. I am NOT disagreeing with you on that point.
BUT
If BOTH people are drunk and have sex, that's drunk sex, not rape. I'm pretty sure THOUSANDS of people have sex when they and the person they are with are drunk, but it is not rape, it is simply an unfortunate mistake. How can it be rape if both people are drunk and consenting? Yes, drunk consent does not equal full consent, but if both parties are equally drunk and therefore equally not thinking straight enough to stop what they are doing, how is that rape? Who would be raping who? Both parties would be equally intoxicated and equally responsible for what happens.
I will say it again though, because clearly you aren't actually reading what I'm saying. I agree that it IS RAPE when someone takes advantage of a drunk man/woman and has sex with them, because if at least one party is sober enough to understand that the other is drunk, they should NOT have sex.
HOWEVER, if neither party is sober enough to understand that they may not have full consent from the other, I don't understand how that can be classed as rape.
If one party was drunk and consenting, but the other was sober, it would be rape if they had sex with the drunk party because YOU CANNOT PROPERLY CONSENT WHEN YOU ARE DRUNK. If you are sober and and have sex with someone who is drunk (whether they are consenting or not) THAT IS RAPE. I am NOT disagreeing with you on that point.
BUT
If BOTH people are drunk and have sex, that's drunk sex, not rape. I'm pretty sure THOUSANDS of people have sex when they and the person they are with are drunk, but it is not rape, it is simply an unfortunate mistake. How can it be rape if both people are drunk and consenting? Yes, drunk consent does not equal full consent, but if both parties are equally drunk and therefore equally not thinking straight enough to stop what they are doing, how is that rape? Who would be raping who? Both parties would be equally intoxicated and equally responsible for what happens.
I will say it again though, because clearly you aren't actually reading what I'm saying. I agree that it IS RAPE when someone takes advantage of a drunk man/woman and has sex with them, because if at least one party is sober enough to understand that the other is drunk, they should NOT have sex.
HOWEVER, if neither party is sober enough to understand that they may not have full consent from the other, I don't understand how that can be classed as rape.
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