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Are you and your bf going to different schools?

Yes I changed my major and the school I went to with him didn't have it. But the school I'm going to is only about 15 minutes away

A guy your age came up to you randomly and asked you to hold something for him. You hold out your hand, and he revealed that there is nothing in his hand and it was just an excuse to hold your hand and walk with you. What's your reaction?

I guess it would be kinda cute unless he was being weird then it would kinda be a little weird

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so I couple weeks ago I read through my boyfriends texts and he told her that if he wasn't with me he'd have sex with her, I broke up with him & now he's trying to get back together. what should I do?

If he was saying he would have sex with another girl then he doesn't deserve to have you but if he has changed and isn't going to be texting other girls and really has changed then you should give him another chance

me and my boyfriend just started dating and there hasn't been a day where i haven't compered him to the guy i used to love. is that normal ?

You haven't compared him to your ex? Well I mean if your ex wasn't good to you then that's a good thing you can compare them. But if you are comparing them then that's normal.

so i was with my boyfriend and a couple friends last night and he got a text from this girl saying she just broke up and he ditched all of us to go "make her feel better" and he didn't text me after that. what should i do ?

Break up with him. That is crazy. He is putting another girl before you and that's not right. He doesn't deserve you.

So I've been with my new boyfriend for a week now and we're great. I really enjoy him and his company. He makes me happy, but I was with a guy before him. And me and this guy were together for almost a year, every once in awhile I think about him not too much but still. Is that okay, is it normal?

You dated him for a year. You're going to think about him or maybe even compare the two. It's normal. But if you start thinking about things more than what you are probably thinking about now it would be different.

He's lying about where he's been and who he's been with.. And he has a snapchat that he doesn't think I know about. And a tinder even though I don't really know what that is

Tinder is an app that people use to meet other people......so you should really think about that. If he's lying where he's been and stuff then he doesn't deserve you. Having another snapchat and tinder is not a good thing.

I am so in love with my bf of 2 years but he's started lying to me.. I don't think he's cheated or anything but I am starting to not trust him. What should I do? I am very in love with him but I want to be fair to myself

If he's lying about stupid things then I would look past it a little bit but if he's lying about where he's been and who he's been with then you should really think about it because it will only lead to more lying

How long were you and your bf dating before you had sex for the first time? Sorry if this is to personal

Like 6 months-a year I can't remember we've been together for almost 4 years.

What is your twitter? When you deleted it for awhile I never followed your personal or knew you got your anon back.

I haven't been on my anon in months. But you can follow me on my personal it's @kleighdakota :)

You are by far my favorite twitter account your so real and honest I love it :) and you've helped me so much on here! keep it up! I wanna meet you one day!

Aw that's sweet thank you :)

My ex is in the Air Force. We broke up cause we're just in 2 different places in our lives but I love him to death. He's all I think about, I feel like maybe when he gets home we might hit it off again but that won't be till September. We still talk as friends. What should I do? I want him back

If you both really love each other you will find a way back to each other. I know you probably didn't see yourself with someone in the military but the person you love is and you may have to go through that. Even though y'all are in two different places you may have to try and make that long distance work. You both will know if you are suppose to be together.

This guy I've been with for over 2 years has started cheating on me and lies about it he doesn't think I know. I know I deserve better but I love him so much and don't feel like I can live without him.. Can you help me?

I know you are hurt and you love him but you do not deserve that. There's no way it will ever work if he is cheating on you. You will never be able to trust him and you will never be happy. Don't stay with him if he just keeps lying about it. But if you aren't totally for sure that he is don't blame him. You deserve better.

I'm madly in love with and can't imagine my life with out my ex boyfriend. We still talk and hangout some and he says he wants my back but he never really shows me or acts like he truly does. Idk what to do cause I love him more than anything we were together for so long. Can you help at all?

If he's not showing you that he wants to be with you then you shouldn't get back with him. If nothing's changed then it's going to be the same thing again. You're always going to love him but you have to be sure you're in love with him

My boyfriend and I sometimes talk about our past relationships together and we're okay with it. and idk if that's good or bad?

If you're both ok with it then there's nothing wrong with it. It's only bad if one of y'all doesn't like hearing about it.

My ex and I "took a break" but we were still talking and basically still dating but he went to a party got wasted and kissed another girl. We broke up for a couple months and now were talking again. I love him with everything and want to date again but it's still hard to trust him. Any suggestions?

Paige
He should have never done that knowing you and him were still talking. You have to make sure he is for sure not going to do that again and that he has changed. Don't go running back to him make him chase you.

My friends hate my ex and were talking again.. I'm worried when were officially back together they'll be pissed. I'm gonna tell them this weekend. Any suggestions?

Paige
If they are your true friends they will only care about your happiness. They must have a reason why they don't like him. So make sure they know what has changed him and that he is for sure treating you right now

You always give really good advice. I'm sorry that people are ignorant and say some nasty stuff about you sometimes but I admire you for wanting to help people. Remember that you do all that you do for Christ's glory and He will help you through everything. If you ever need help, I got your back. ✌️

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I just found out that my guy got completely drunk and kissed another girl last night.. Should I be done for good?

Paige
Yes you shouldn't put up with that. It's not right. You need to tell him your done and if he actually cares he will try to get you back.

Have your parents or your boyfriends parents ever walked in on you and your bf kissing? Or more than just kissing? My bf's parents came home early one night and found us with no clothes on but we were under the covers. I'm freaking out!!

They've never walked in on us

How old do you want to be when you get engaged/married?

Around 22 getting engaged and wait a year or so to get married

He's also been partying and I haven't heard from him since this morning.. I love him but I don't know what to do

Paige
That's not right he should respect you and how you feel. If he doesn't have enough respect for you then he doesn't deserve you. I can't tell you to break up with him but you have to decide if it is worth fighting for.

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