Teach yourself to expect nothing from the girl so that you cannot be disappointed. If she does fall in love with you, you'll be pleasantly surprised. Show her you respect her life outside of you; when you give a girl room to breathe, she will often come to love you on her own terms..
Things you don't want to happen..happens, hmm death of a closed one or anyone I know, arguments which should not happen but instead be resolved with peace & understanding. People should first hear me, then like or dislike it, so it just makes me sad about that. As i said I would like it to be solved with peace and understanding. I would never let ego or false sense of self-respect come in the way of normal discussion. "You don't like this" I said this" "Oh really, oh good there is no issue" it's futile. What makes me sad are people's view of Islam being a "violent" religion of some sort. If you and I have a problem on ideological or religious basis, before you pick on me or I pick on you, let me explain my religion to you, and you might i think 99% of the time say "oh thats what that means" oh ok i have no issue or I understand yours". So It is the duty of every person if your religion or belief is being questioned, explain it, don't be defensive and say "no we are good". No please explain it. So I think its a duty as a person, if you ask me something about Islam, as much as I know I would love to tell how Beautiful and tolerant this religion is.We musn't label people regardless what their creed is or nationality is. Lets have peace, lets be tolerant with each other and lets understand and forgive each other also.
Love, the person you love sends you something whether its a text/present/call out of the blue unexpectedly, spending quality time with family, seeing Shahrukh Khan movies, listening to Beautiful Bollywood songs like this one (Love Sonu Nigam's golden voice): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-WKNXpw642Q when things work out, and spreading smiles like they're herpes! haha :-D