It is ironic that a movement called "feminism" has spent the lat century teaching women to hate themselves, but that is precisely what it has done. First, let us be honest about a few things:
1) Blank slate is nonsense; human nature actually exists.
2) The nesting/mothering instinct is part of the essential human nature of females; it is biologically programmed into them every bit as much as the sex drive (i.e. the desire to spread their DNA) is programmed into males.
3) A very small percentage of females will, for whatever reason, not have this natural drive, just as, for whatever reason, a small percentage of males are asexual. This means nothing. Exceptions are just that - exceptions. Their existence does not disprove a general rule.
4) Femininity is a reflection of, and an expression of, aspects of female biology (just as masculinity is of male biology). Yes, a very small percentage of females are not very naturally feminine. See point #3.
5) A series of related points: a) most work sucks, and there is nothing fulfilling or uplifting about being a cog in a corporate machine, b) most women are not geniuses, and their labor is not really necessary, and c) the idea that a boss will take care of you better than a husband who loves you and whose children you have borne is plain delusion.
Women in places where feminism has been a part of the dominant ideology (true everywhere in the West, but especially in America) have been taught to hate "traditional gender roles" i.e. to hate their own femininity and the very things that they are biologically programmed to want to do as a part of their basic human nature. If you hate your own nature, then you hate yourself - simple as that.
Women in those places have instead been taught an alien nature; and to want things that they really don't want because that's not what they're programmed to want. They have been taught to act like second-rate copies of men, and to want to be corporate cogs because that is the Whig definition of being a success in life. It makes them miserable. They hate their lives, and they don't know why. They have everything they're told should make them happy, but it doesn't. They hate themselves, and the people around them, and they hate you, too.
Stay far away. If you want to go searching for a wife, go someplace where femininity is still valued and where women do not hate themselves. Asia is a good bet. Good luck.
