If you had to, choose…. Burning alive or Freezing to death were we at?
burning alive. easily
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if someone says they have no friends, that's a big red flag. that is an indicator of their personality. they have no friends because they're a bad person lol.
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Is UK a terrible place to live in? I’d like answers from both born and bred in the UK and those who migrated there please.
As an immigrant: The upgrade in quality of life is so extreme that it's appalling and sometimes infuriating. And people here, living under the benefit of colonial profit, have no understanding of how good they have it.
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Would you wear a clothing that had information about your medical condition?
clothing? probably not.
a piece of jewelry or dog tag necklace? yes.
a piece of jewelry or dog tag necklace? yes.
have u ever stayed in a dodgey hotel ?
have done, yes
and much dodgier hostels.
and slept outdoors.
and much dodgier hostels.
and slept outdoors.
Ever used an Ouija board?
Yes
Would you ever consider travelling to another country on your own?
Have done
If you don't want kids but your new man asks you to remove the uterus, do you accept or do you really don't mean what you say?
removing one of my functioning organs at the request of a man is just not my style.
Surgery is a massive decision. Getting put to sleep and sliced open is terrifying.
Removing a major component of your hormonal cycle has lasting impact beyond not having children.
Allowing someone to think they can make such massive decisions for me about my body while being new in my life is probably much more dangerous than those prior two.
Surgery is a massive decision. Getting put to sleep and sliced open is terrifying.
Removing a major component of your hormonal cycle has lasting impact beyond not having children.
Allowing someone to think they can make such massive decisions for me about my body while being new in my life is probably much more dangerous than those prior two.
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have you ever had life-threatening illnesses?
yes. and I live with chronic illness that, unmedicated, is fatal
Have you ever done something foolish and why?
frequently. because often the weight of my emotions and my hope outweigh the presence of cynical sense or the potential consequences
Ever thought about running away?
yes. I did
Most hurtful thing someone has said to you?
That I should never be a parent.
Because I could never be a good parent.
That I and people like me didn't deserve the opportunity to raise and rear children because of what we are and who we love.
They said it to be nasty and hurtful and cruel in defending CFA. Supporting CFA's funding that helps to deny queer families access to adoption.
I don't think it was the homophobia that hurt me specifically
But rather the realisation that so many people believed that their sensory taste bud experience that lasts 30 minutes max, is worth more than a life time of fulfilment & joy.
That the pleasure they get from animal flesh brined in pickle juice, is more valuable than the life of a child in need of love.
I was tossed around a lot as a kid.
I was hurt. a lot. profoundly.
and I used to wish so much for someone to save me.
I have wanted, the majority of my life, to adopt a child.
To take them away from that. To tell them that it's not their fault and no matter what I will be there to help them heal.
But there are people on this planet who ardently believe that I would do more harm than good to any child that they would rather fund efforts refusing my access to saving my former self. That I don't deserve redemption. That my suffering was for nothing.
After that, I really struggled to make straight friends - especially Christian ones. I still do if I'm honest. I don't trust them fully, because when it comes down to it, they will do any and everything to maintain their level of comfort, no matter how small, before they ever actually see me as a complete human being.
I've never believed in hell, but since then I've hoped for it. Because if people with that level of hate and lack of reverence go to a 'Heaven' I want no parts of it.
Since then, I've been around many folks with different understandings of faith. But I am 34 and childless, and every time I see a newborn, or hear a child outdoors laughing, or if I'm lucky just once a month: that conversation echoes in my mind.
People have said and done a lot of horrible things to me. But I think this has been the most insidious and difficult to avoid.
I'm not sure I'll ever know how to fully forgive him. But I really need to - for myself. It is a heavy weight to carry,
Because I could never be a good parent.
That I and people like me didn't deserve the opportunity to raise and rear children because of what we are and who we love.
They said it to be nasty and hurtful and cruel in defending CFA. Supporting CFA's funding that helps to deny queer families access to adoption.
I don't think it was the homophobia that hurt me specifically
But rather the realisation that so many people believed that their sensory taste bud experience that lasts 30 minutes max, is worth more than a life time of fulfilment & joy.
That the pleasure they get from animal flesh brined in pickle juice, is more valuable than the life of a child in need of love.
I was tossed around a lot as a kid.
I was hurt. a lot. profoundly.
and I used to wish so much for someone to save me.
I have wanted, the majority of my life, to adopt a child.
To take them away from that. To tell them that it's not their fault and no matter what I will be there to help them heal.
But there are people on this planet who ardently believe that I would do more harm than good to any child that they would rather fund efforts refusing my access to saving my former self. That I don't deserve redemption. That my suffering was for nothing.
After that, I really struggled to make straight friends - especially Christian ones. I still do if I'm honest. I don't trust them fully, because when it comes down to it, they will do any and everything to maintain their level of comfort, no matter how small, before they ever actually see me as a complete human being.
I've never believed in hell, but since then I've hoped for it. Because if people with that level of hate and lack of reverence go to a 'Heaven' I want no parts of it.
Since then, I've been around many folks with different understandings of faith. But I am 34 and childless, and every time I see a newborn, or hear a child outdoors laughing, or if I'm lucky just once a month: that conversation echoes in my mind.
People have said and done a lot of horrible things to me. But I think this has been the most insidious and difficult to avoid.
I'm not sure I'll ever know how to fully forgive him. But I really need to - for myself. It is a heavy weight to carry,
How many close friends do you have?
4. Maybe 5. I think
I'm never quite sure unless people tell me
I used to believe I had more friends but I learned that many of them didn't care much for me at all or were just exhausted / drained by me.
For now I think 4 is probably accurate. But I learn something new about my poor social analysis every day. I'm working on it.
I'm never quite sure unless people tell me
I used to believe I had more friends but I learned that many of them didn't care much for me at all or were just exhausted / drained by me.
For now I think 4 is probably accurate. But I learn something new about my poor social analysis every day. I'm working on it.
Pickles 🥒 on a burger yes or no i say no
absolutely yes
Have you ever prayed?
constantly
Last thing you drank?
Today: Water
Alcohol?: White wine on 6 Feb.
Alcohol?: White wine on 6 Feb.
Why do celebs have to d*e
because they are human.
It is a biological imperative
It is a biological imperative
Has anyone ever dated you for your wealth and status?
no
Do you have roast on Sunday?
no
Do you eat meat?
no
Do you have crush on someone
yes
do you have a car?
yes
Are you fat?
yes
I can speak Arabic can you
shwa3a
Are you happy with the way things are now or do you want to change something in your life?.. mention it
I want to know this suffering hasn't been for nothing.
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