@abelleinbk

demetria lucas d'oyley

I recently lost a lot of weight, 75lbs. Guys approach me all the time now, it's awkward, sometimes all the attention I get from men now is overwhelming. How am I supposed to act, what am I supposed to say and do?

It's like you're going through puberty all over again, right?
Entertain the ones who are attractive and nice WITH PERSONALITY (hard to come by.) Tell everyone else you have a bf so they leave you alone.
Go slow with everyone.
You're supposed to act like yourself.
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Will you completely shut down this site.? Still playing catchup reading prior questions. Don't delete.! I need my fix Bel. :)

yup. Read "Don't Waste Your Pretty". The highlights are there. :-)

A group of couples all friends one of the couples is getting divorced. The wife sends photos of recent vacation to all of us via email including our spouses emails they are nothing but skimpy bikini pics. I think it's inappropriae and should've sent to only the ladies thoughts?

yeah. inappropriate. i get if it's mostly scenery/food/drinks/events and such and there's a couple bikini pics thrown in, but it's all or mostly bikini pics, then yeah, #teamtoomuch
I've had a few friends get divorced. in all fairness to the wife, she's in a bad place and not always thinking clearly.

Bride'smaids daughter was single when she RSVP. 2 wks b4 wedding she asks to bring new dude(destinationwedd).We had paid catering/open bar bill. I told her no extra room. She was no show. Her mom told other Bridesmaids thats why & she was in support. I am pissed my friend condoned this. Am I wrong?

Nope.
But what can be done about it? The wedding is over. You're mad about something that can't be fixed.
Your friend can't be held responsible for how her grown daughter moves. Whether she agrees or not is irrelevant.

Why are u switxhing platforms??

Because getting hits/$$ for someone else doesn't make sense.
Black people should own more, consume less. :-/

My husband doesn't make plans with me and won't tell me when he has meetings wtc after work or plans with friends -he just goes about his business or will ask me to do something the day of-is this inappropriate?

Yes.

What does the 12k person get?

Um. A note to go visit abelleinbk.com/askbelle.
I'm not running a contest. I'm switching platforms. Lol.
7 more to go.

B no it's HER neighbor not my neighbor I don't know dude other than seeing him in the bundling when I go visit her. But now I'm wondering of they had eyes for each other this whole time. She mad foul for this. Broke up with me but we kept Having sex and she was seeing him too

You weren't in a relationship with her. She was single. You have no claims on who she dates when you're not with her.
Sir. Please leave this woman alone. You don't want her. You don't think highly of her. Your ego is just bruised now.

Asked a question on the new site almost 10 hours ago. Realized that the activity is on this site still. Kinda confused but still a fan :-)

This site shuts down when I hit 12k. Im transitioning. Thank you for your patience during this time.
I am currently answering questions on both sites. Even on the new site, I still won't be able to answer every question.

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