You say you hate anti-social virgin-types, but how is hating them productive? Most of these people become productive (even if they are still shy). Also, most of these people get married and have kids, unlike San Fran geek-types. So why are you dumb?
It's impossible not to hate your type, you're the most annoying mofos on the planet. Look at the questions you're asking and your desperation to elicit approval. Every single question you write is obnoxious. That is probably part of why you're a virgin; you have an obnoxious personality.