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My ex boyfriend told me to wait for him until the right time comes that we are both ready again to be together. I don't have any news from him, he will just text or chat me if he needs something. We haven't seen each other for 7 months now. Do i have to move on or wait for him?

Well that's up to you. Only you know your feelings towards him, if you feel like he's worth waiting for and you really love him then of course you'd wait and wouldn't even think about it, but the fact that you've asked me this question makes me feel like you should move on. Of course that's a decision only you can make though. Your the one that knows the relationship best and no one can make that decision for you. Trust yourself that you'll make the right decision and give yourself time to think about it X

there's this guy I liked 4 years ago from school he knows I like him and I know he likes me but that was before he left school and went to another school that was 4 freakin years ago now I have moved on but he's coming back to my life like when I left I was hurt and now I've moved on he came back

It's your right to let him know if he makes a move on you that you've moved on. If he tries to ask you out or anything like that make it clear that you now don't share the same feelings. He had his chance and you shouldn't feel bad for saying no if he tries to make a move. Just say exactly how you feel in a polite way and the rest is up to him. X
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theres this guy i like, i told him i liked him, and he did that blush emoji. He now tells me everything thats happeniing to him, and he gives me advice. I also sometimes pretend to be my friend and ask for advice about boys and then i do that advice to him. Do you think he likes me?

Possibly! It seems he cares about you, but the only person that will ever know what he's truly feeling and thinking is him. You're not a mind reader so you can't be certain buy it you and him are meant to be together then you will be with time! X

then can you atleast help me be friends with him what should I do?

Just talk to him. By doing that you'll soon find if there's chemistry between you and I know it might be hard to talk to him because of nerves and things like that but remember he's a human just like you. Trust yourself and your conversational abilities and see what comes out of it X

hi, ive got 2 best friends, but both of them hate each other. Everyday they fight, and they argue and its so hard for me, because im in the middle of this. And both of them are awesome, and i dont want to choose between one of them. So what should i do?

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You don't need to choose between them. You just can't hang out with them at the same time, that's all.
In the end it's their issues they need to resolve. It's between them and you shouldn't resolve their issues for them. If say one of these friends are at your house just don't invite the other friend over while she's there.
You can spend quality time with both, just not both of them together which is s shame but they obviously just can't get along and that's not your fault or your problem to deal with. X

hey I have a crush on this guy but he's grade 9 and I'm grade 8 we talk sometimes but once in a blue moon what should I do like sometimes we talk like we're bffs but sometimes we just ignore each other :(

If it's meant to be then it will be. Just give it time and it will happen of its supposed to and of it doesn't then don't be disheartened, it wasn't meant to be. You're young and have the rest of your life for boys. Relationships are supposed to form naturally so don't force anything and just see what happens. A relationship with this boy may some out of it or it might not and you just keep on waiting X

hey strong soul. I hope that u've had a fulfilling saturday so far. remember that u can't change how ppl feel about u, so dont try. just live ur life & be happy. enjoy ur well-deserved weekend. trust, respect & love urself always, dear one. u'll always be amazing in my eyes. I'm grateful for u 😌🌷❤

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You're honesty awesome! X
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dear brave soul, u've made to friday. congratulations on surviving the weekdays. u deserve a good & productive weekend. the only expectations u should live up to are the ones u expect of urself. manage ur time well & be wise in your decisions, love. take care & rest well. I'm always here for u. 😌🌹

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I love these messages! Thank you x
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Many of my crush (guy) friends kept asking me if I liked him. Wat does it mean? Wat should I do?

They could just be curious or they might like you too and want to know you like them back for reassurance. What you do is completely up to you. Only you know the situation and therefore you know how to react the best. Trust yourself and know that you will make the right choice about what you do X
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hey u marvellous person: u have to do what is right for u. no one else is walking in ur shoes. being true to urself is the smartest thing u can ever do. dont let the words of others lead u down a road of confusion. ure incredible just the way u are. love urself always, & stay/think positively too 😉

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Aw you're too lovely thank you and those are some very true words X
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wat does it mean if a guy cares bout a girl who might like him?

Then maybe he likes her back! or he could just be a caring person. No one knows that for sure except him. If this girl who likes him and this guy are meant to be together then they will for sure. Just give it time and it will happen naturally if it supposed to X
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2) even though he says he loves me, and all his friends no about me and doesn't care what they say even though we do fight but we always turn out okay. I don't no what to do

Finding it very difficult to trust people is just a part of you. If your boyfriend loves you then he will just accept that. When you find yourself feeling like you can't trust someone or having trust issues then stop yourself and think hard about why and justify it to yourself. Ask others if they think it's necessary for you to be feeling like that. An outsiders view is always good. Being scared to trust people is ok! Lot's of people are like tat so don't ever feel like your on your own X

What to do when i do so much more than others yet get the same reward? It's unfair

Life isn't fair sometimes. It's just the way it happens. I can tell you now theres a lot worse, even more unfair things that have happened to me then not getting the reward I deserve. Look at the positives, you're getting some reward at least! If possible and you feel its necessary, talk to the people giving the reward about how you're feeling unfairly treated X

How does one get over a heartbreak from someone who cheated on him/her ??

You give it time. It can be really hard to get over someone who you once were so close to but you need to remember it will take time, probably a lot of time. Remember what you're worth, you deserve someone who truly loves you and clearly your partner didn't if they went and cheated on you. Remind yourself that missing someone as you are now is normal. Feel it, it's an emotion and it is natural. It's meant to be there and it will pass naturally to I'm sure X

hey there wonderful person. know that some things take time. stay patient & stay positive, things will get better. miracles start to happen when u give as much energy to ur dreams as u do to ur fears. so, be brave & have faith in urself! congratulations on making this far in the week. 👏

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Aw that's a lovely message thank you X
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I crush on him and I'm brave enough to told him that I crush on him. But the answer is no :(

That's ok! Remember that everything happens for a reason and if you and him are meant to be then you will with time. You're very brave for telling him so good on you! You can't force him to like you and I'm sure you're still young and you've got pleanty of time for boyfriends and relationships X
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How about I like someone, but he's officially taken

I think when someone is taken you just need to leave them be for that time. If you and this guy are meant to be then you will be, just give it time. You'll naturally just gravitate almost to eachother if it's supposed to happen and if it's not then thats ok, you're young and have the rest of your life for boyfriends and relationships. Right now he's in a relationship so I don't think it's your place to interfere X
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