I know a girl I like and we talk a little bit on Kik, but she is in a relationship now. It didn't last for too long before, so I hope it'll end soon so I can get a chance. However, one of my friends is also competing for her. I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. What should I do?
Consider this: do you like her because you feel like she is that right person for you or is it simply because you feel that she is capable of fulfilling any physical needs you have? Sometimes its hard to tell, but once you know what you really want, you can base your decisions from there.
If you really like her and feel quite emotionally invested, give her your support while she's in her relationship (not necessarily encourage) but give her the impression that you can always offer her the best by the time she's single. Also as soon as she's single, don't try to step right into the picture and usher her way into being in a relationship with you, especially if she's not 100% up for it. Patience is key, and let everything else follow through.
As for your friend, you need to try and weigh out your priorities. Who is more important? Of course in the end you should be doing what makes YOU happy, but if getting the girl would make your friend upset, how would that affect you? Just think about it. It's good to just have a one on one talk with him anyway and be honest about your feelings.
Hope I helped x
If you really like her and feel quite emotionally invested, give her your support while she's in her relationship (not necessarily encourage) but give her the impression that you can always offer her the best by the time she's single. Also as soon as she's single, don't try to step right into the picture and usher her way into being in a relationship with you, especially if she's not 100% up for it. Patience is key, and let everything else follow through.
As for your friend, you need to try and weigh out your priorities. Who is more important? Of course in the end you should be doing what makes YOU happy, but if getting the girl would make your friend upset, how would that affect you? Just think about it. It's good to just have a one on one talk with him anyway and be honest about your feelings.
Hope I helped x