I always get taken granted when im being nice to the girl i like. How do i be nice without being taken for granted? :(
being nice is all you can do. taking advantage is what the other person does. you can't control it, you just need to keep a look out for terrible people like that. (and stay away, duh)
Any tips on how do i go about holding someone's hand for the first time?
HAHA THIS IS SO CUTE. just be this adorbs, breathe in, stretch your hand out and just hold. if you're mega scared, this is one of those situations you don't think, just do. good luck!
Im stuck with four people overseas and one of them played victim to bring all three of them to hate me, one of which is(was) a pretty close friend of mine. I've two weeks left living with this bunch, what do i do.
am I still in time! just do your own thing fuck them. if the other two can hate you without clarifying or anything then fuck them you're better off without them. THEY DONT DESERVE YOU
How long was the longest u took to get over someone?
403 days
PAP with your sister hehe
What is your favorite flower?
none in particular but starting to fall in love with perfectly arranged bouquets. look at this
Do you like modern art?
I'm okay. no strong feelings for or against it
Salted or sweet popcorn?
sweet
How will you celebrate your next birthday?
not sure tho, just maybe hang out with a couple of close friends, spend the night with my girl. sounds about perfect :)
Wow congrats!! Wasn't it expensive?
Thanks! Yeaaa, guess we'll manage!
Did you and Corinne get a place together!
Yes! Kinda! I'll post another picture when it's finally fully furnished ok?
Do you still keep in contact with your pri, sec and jc friends? Do you have a lot of close friends?
yes I do. or I try to as much as possible! I wouldn say alot but yes I have enough to tide me through life
Have you met your secondary school teacher coincidentally? If yes, do you greet him/her and strike a conversation?
yes, and yes! but as you grow older, you realize to start meeting them at weddings, or funerals... still always heartwarming to catch up and relive the monster rebel that I'd like to believe I wasn't HAHA
have you ever been in a situation where you were wearing thick clothing thinking it was ok but it ended up being really hot?
everyday.... I like wearing clothes not meant for our weather, unfortunately
why is it so hard for someone to be completely sure of you?
completely sure of me? you talking bout me or just in general
Would you play mind games in order to get someone?
huh no la if someone is PLANNING to play mind games with you, fuck that shit. this ain't no westeros you have no Kingdom to run, no wars to fight, the lannisters arent after your ass
how do u go about asking if someone likes you! is "what do you think of me?" or "how do you feel for me" a better question?
be cute and go 'I like you!' and then pause and wait for answer.
Are you someone who is able to give up completely when you decide to?
Yes. the first time I did it, I surprised myself as to how much I actl want nothing to do with it anymore.
i'm actually just afraid of karma HAHAHAH. but i like what you just said char. i'd love to adopt that thinking cos what i've realised is that conscience really doesn't get you anywhere in this world sigh
your conscience serves you, and no one else. it's just good to keep a good view of things you need to be tough (or heartless) about, so you knw where to draw the line from not being taken for granted. I'm not asking you to be selfish, but to find that balance. karma is a bitch, but there are good ones and there are bad. just make the best decision you deem fit, and voila, no regrets.
but how do you get over the ethical barrier of going after someone who's attached? coz for me i think its quite unethical so i'd tend to hold back abit omg
oh it is SO unethical lolol but the world is cruel isn't it. if you can't keep what's yours, or don't make the effort to, someone else is going to take it away from you. so you either kill, or get killed. if you can't get over that barrier, then don't do it, the guilt will eat you up.
so if its you, you'd go for it. but if it doesnt work out / she still chooses the girlfriend over you, you'd give up?
I'll stay until I wear out and feelings fade.
yes.... and i don't know how to proceed. i don't know if i should take the risk and go after her or i should back off or what should i do i am so confused :(
you know very well the outcome can rly go either way. I can't tell you what you should do, but make sure you consider both outcomes and know what you can/cannot handle as a person. like for me, I'm an all for it person, but at the same time, if it doesn work out for me I know that I have to take it in my stride. does this help?
oh and that previous qns is a reply to the girl with a gf qns!
haha yes, thank you for being clear. LOVE IT. ok I'll answer the question ^