Its nothing really I just want people to be able to have someone to talk to because I know it helps a lot and sometimes if you dont know them it is beter
Hey I have been going through a rough time and I just want to say to anyone that is going through anything that things will get better and you just have to believe in yourself. honestly if you make it day by day you can do it. If anyone needs anything Just message me on here and I will gladly help.
That's very kind of you darling! Everyone take notice and feel free to visit her page if needing someone to speak to x - Emma
If i like a girl and she likes someone else, should I bother asking her out?
Did the girl tell you herself that she likes someone else? Do you know this for sure? Before I give you advice and what is your and her relationship like? x - Emma
I've moved down a year due to depression and anxiety. I have to make new friends. I'm trying so hard to come across as happy and not anxious because I don't want them to think I'm crazy. But they just think I bunk school when I'm too depressed to get out of bed or too anxious. or have to go to appoi
Sorry your question cut off sweetie? Would you like to send it again in separate parts?x - Emma
All my other friends (the "popular" ones) want me to come back and sit with them and I want to sit with them too. I wouldn't want to hurt her feelings though and she wouldn't be able to sit at my old table just because it gets really crowded and they don't know her that well. ...?
Why don't you just explain to your other friends that you're sitting with your friend for a while and explain why and ask if they want to sit with you two? Maybe it'd be a good way for them to get to know your other friend?x - Emma
So at my school I guess I'm considered "popular" and I have a really close friend who isn't really. She got in a fight with her two best friends and I know they won't make up this time. So I started sitting with her at lunch so she wouldn't be alone (she has other friends just not close ones). ...?
Will answer on the next one x
Um hello is anyone there?
Yes, i'm here x - Emma
i was going to ask this girl to homecoming but word got out and i don't thinks she's fully comfortable w a girl asking her to hoco so now im scared i mightve made her too uncomfortable to even want to be around me. how can i approach this subject w her ? im so nervous.
Hello, i'd like to apologise for the delay in answering your questions. The past few months have been a little hectic as started my first job. How did things go? Did you ask her?x - Emma
He lives 2 hours away & I feel like my feelings r fading when im not with him (we're together once a month for 2 days) But when I think bout our good memories I want to stay w him but I know it isn't healthy. Idk what to do & this has been upsetting me for a while bc I dont want to hurt him (part 2)
It was very wrong of him to have cheated on you. It's not okay for him to have hurt or betrayed you like that. I understand that it might be hard for you to lose him because of all that yous have been through together. However, if you feel that your relationship no longer has sparks or you're unhappy with the way things are going, it might mean that you should both take a break. It might be for the better to go your own ways. It's not like yous will be completely throwing each other out of your lives. You can both always still be there to support one another as friends. Honestly, the best thing to do is to talk to him and let out how you're feeling with him. Let him know that you feel a sense of separation between you two. With whatever you decide to do, make sure you are doing it because you know it is what's best for you. ~addy
Hey! So there is this guy right, and he is AMAZING he's sweet, funny, cute and just an all-around great person, and he's one of my best friends. I really like him and he likes me but I want him to ask me out and it's been a little slow, how can I get it to move a little faster?
This can be tricky because it can usually be very nerve wracking for a guy to actually admit to a girl that he likes her. He might be shy and it can be scary to say anything first in fear that he probably thinks you might not feel the same way about him. You can either be a little more patient and give him time to build up the bravery, or you can go ahead and try to make the first move. Give him opportunities to say how he feels about you whenever there's a chance. Maybe even be the one to tell him you like him first. If he knows that you like him too, it'll help him feel less overwhelmed to admitting he has a crush on you also. You can also try spending more time with him and talking more to get to know each other better so he feels more comfortable around you. This way he won't be as nervous to speak to you :) ~addy
Ok so i use to talk to this girl a lot last year and now we barely talk and just avoid eachother. I like her now (you know "like like") and i sorta dont want to message her as I feel it annoys her and she wants to avoid me. What should i do try get us to talk ?
Try finding a good time to maybe "accidentally" run into her when you're at school like in the hall, during lunch, after class, etc (not literally of course). Smile at her or start with a simple hello to start up a conversation with her. I'm sure she won't be annoyed with you if you tried talking to her. Don't avoid her! Try to make it appear as if you do still want to be able to talk to her like before so that she feels like you still care about having a friendship with her. Ask her if she wants to hang out with you some time so yous can catch up. Be sweet to her ad try making it apparent that you like like her. ~addy
I'm scared! I have no confidence and I get extremely nervous in social situations. I often feel really down and lost ?
Don't feel afraid to open up to people. Trust me, I understand that it can be hard sometimes to let out your feelings with others perhaps because of fear that they might not understand you or they may judge you. But honestly, if you talk about how you're feeling with someone who you trust, it can really help you become more open and confident. Getting yourself more used to opening up to people will help boost your confidence because you won't feel as nervous talking to others. Whenever you feel anxious about talking in public, take deep breaths and try to relax. Sure it may be something a bit difficult to do at first, but after some time of practicing, you won't feel as overwhelmed to socialize. If you ever get nervous when you're about to do something like deliver a presentation or speak in something publicly, try to practice before you present on your own or in front of a few close friends so that you feel more prepared to talk in front of everyone else. After all, with whatever you do, you shouldn't have fear about what others may think of you. Everyone gets nervous and it's PERFECTLY NORMAL! Don't feel ashamed of this. Remember that you are a beautiful person for who you are no matter what. Remind yourself that you're amazing just the way you are whenever you feel down. :) ~addy
Any date ideas? My boyfriend and me are coming to our one year and still haven't came up with cheap dates. We both don't have a job and we live in small towns (2 hours walking distance, 10-15 mins driving if rides are found).
Theres many different ways you can spend your lovely date! Inexpensive dates can be at places as simple as a nice park. Have a picnic or go out bike riding. Theres a lot ways you can have a good time involving nature. In the end, it shouldnt really matter where you have it but how you spend your time together. I hope yous have a good date. :) ~addy
My friend got drunk and she told me she regrets saying what she said to us. She told us she wants to be anorexic, that she throws up everyday, once cut her veins, hate her family and wants to die. What should i say to her?
You need to be a supportive friend to her. The best you can do is be by her side. Show to her that she does matter to you and her family and friends. Convince to her that what she has done is extremely dangerous and you care about her health. Try to get her to realize how precious life really is. Spend more time with her so she doesnt feel so alone. Try to put yourself in her shoes to understand more of how she might be feeling. Be her shoulder to cry on if she needs it. Support her and help her. Talk to her and always check im on her to see how shes doing. ~addy
idj how to talk to ppl without like totally stuttering and and forgetting what I want to say and it only happens when I want to talk about my problems....... idk what to do
Dont worry, this is very common in many people. It usually just happens as a natural thing when you get nervous. Theres many ways you can overcome this though! Try practicing what youre going to say aloud on your own. Write down what you want to say first and reread it first. Or even just practice reading anything of your interest aloud to help you become a stronger reader and speaker so you can speak more fluently without stuttering. Before you begin to speak, take deep breaths and relax yourself. People usually become nervous because they are worried they may say something wrong or they might be made fun of. Everyone makes mistakes sometimes and in the end, no one will remember whether you did or didnt mess up. I hope I was able to help :) ~addy
I want to put my hair up in a ponytail but when I do it's so thin and short and girls comment about how I don't have like any hair, what should I do
Honestly, if you want to put your hair up, do it! Do what makes you happy and feel comfortable in your own body. You shouldnt care about what others opinions are on your own hair. It's YOUR hair and you can do whatever you want with it. Dont feel ashamed or insecure. Be confident in your body and great qualities! :) If it's something that really bothers you, maybe try something new like experimenting with maybe getting hair extensions? Another thing you can try is maybe curling your hair when it's up in a ponytail so it looks thicker. Or try buying a new shampoo/conditioner for hair thickening. You can also scrunch up your hair on your ponytail with something like gel to get a more wavy/curly shape. It really doesnt matter what others think of your appearance. You should always do what makes you happy. ~addy
So I like this person and we've dated before. Long story short I screwed it up but that was almost a year ago but here I am still trying to date hem again and get them to like me but they don't. I really want to date them and they mean everything to me?? what should I do they don't like me
You have to try to gain back their trust. Its going to be hard considering what's happened before with your relationship. Talk to her and try to get closer with her again. Start off as if it were a fresh new start of your friendship. Then let her see that you've changed by spending time with her and just talking to her in order for her to see that you've actually changed. Theres no guarantee that she will want to pursue in a relationship with you again for sure because of your past together. You can either wait and give her some more time to notice the ways you've changed, or you can just share your feelings with her and be straight forward. Either way that you feel is best for you two. You should try to actually make sure you've changed for the better and dont just say you have to impress her. I hope things work out between you two! ~addy
my sister might be cutting herself,
what should I do ??
Talk to her. See what's going on in her life and try to get her to slowly open up her feelings with you. The last thing you want to do is very suddenly begin questioning her to the point where she just shuts down completely. Try to take things at a slow pace so that she becomes more comfortable with telling you about the way she is feeling. Be by her side and protect her. She may be going through a lot right now and having support from your sister is the best thing for to do. ~addy
I am 19 years old
i love someone he is 43 years old ,he is married with 4 children
one of them is older than me and onther is my best friend
i loved him from 4 years ago
and i still love him but he love his family
i can't tell him that i love him ..
plzz don't make fun of my speach
plzz help me
I feel like this is a tough situation you're in considering you're putting a lot of things on the line of risk. If he is married, you should try to respect that. He is already in a happy marriage with four children of his own. Age doesn't always matter because it is just a number. However, he is not an available man, which does matter. You don't want to come in between his relationship and your relationship with your best friend. It really does sound like the best thing for you to do is not to think of him anymore. Keep your distance from him to stop you from liking him anymore. It is not a right thing to do if you came in between his marriage. It's not fair to his family or yourself. You deserve to be happy with someone who will be devoted towards you and makes you happy who shows loyalty. ~addy
Our student council this year is horrible, we all fight and pretty much hate each other and then there's some members who think only they matter and only their ideas are good.
Any advice on to 1, get along and 2 not strangle each other that I can share with the team?
I'm sorry for the late reply to your question! I feel like both managing to get along and not hurt each other while doing it correlate to one another. For instance, there is no way that one will be able to get along with someone what if they're constantly putting down that person's ideas. A way for you all to be able to work better together is if you try to do some building relationships exercises. There are a few little games you can do to get to know each other a bit more. One way is by playing a game called the human knot. Have an even number of people form a circle facing inwards. Each person should grab a different person's hand across from them so that you're all sort of tangled up together. Then find a way to all work together and unfold this "knot" without letting go of each other's hands. This is an activity that will help with not only getting closer by bonding, but it will help you all by working together more. There's many other games you can try to play as a whole. Once this is accomplished, find better ways to make improvement on how the meetings are held so they're more productive. Have each person bring their own ideas to the table and go around taking turns explaining their opinions. It's important to make sure you are all being respectful of what each person has to say. This way, there will be no hatred towards anyone within the student council group. I hope I was able to help and hopefully all goes well. ~addy
I'm so sorry about that. As it seems that no one really gets online anymore which i don't really know why but as for me i've been busy lately with some personal issues of my own so i apologized. i'll try as much as i can though to get online and answer questions and hopefully the other admins will get online soon maybe. i'm terribly sorry again but be sure that we do our best and maybe i don't come here as often but i'm almost always on my kik if anyone needs me. i'm sorry one more time for any inefficiency x »Diemon«
My hair is so thin and short and I can't go anywhere without thinking everyone is noticing. In so self conscious and I've tried doing everything and taking biotin. Should I be thinking about it so much?
you probably shouldn't be thinking about it that much. i'm sure it's nothing serious i hope unless you got bald spots on your head that are like visible it's probably fine and treatable. and trust me no one notices really you think they do but truth is no one does no one will ever stop what they're doing and think like "oh that girl/boy has some thin hair" no really people don't give it much thought so you shouldn't either. you can search up some home remedies or ask in a pharmacy for some vitamins. it could be just your hair type by the way and it's not that thin just the way you see it. not everyone has lots and lots of hair. you could do check with a dermatologist it could be a scalp problem or even a problem from the inside, many body parts affects hair growth somehow so they'd be able to diagnose it better than anyone and give you the best treatment because if it's from the inside you should treat that first before trying to grow it more. it could be that you need more of certain vitamins and nutritions, or something in your blood you should make some tests and go to a dermatologist. and also take care of your diet try to make it healthy and beneficial because food plays an important role in hair growth, you can search up what certain foods help the hair to grow like walnuts, almonds, oatmeal, oysters, salmon, eggs, chicken, cinnamon also two spoons of fish oil a day helps alot. garlic also is good you can also rub it on your scalp or make a paste and put it on your hair but wash it after because of the smell. massaging your scalp daily is also great you can spend 10-15 a day massaging your scalp even by just brushing it helps with blood circulation, there are so many things you can try so don't give up and also don't put that much effort or thought into it, i'm sure your hair is gorgeous and it's beautiful and fabulous the way it is and i'm sure atleast one person has walked by you and said "i wish i have her/his hair" so be confident in yourself because your hair is great for sure but if you want to try to make it thicker that's absolutely fine. these also maybe helpful: http://m.wikihow.com/Make-Your-Hair-Thicker http://m.wikihow.com/Grow-Long-Thick-Hair http://m.wikihow.com/Grow-Your-Hair-Thicker-Naturally »Diemon«