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Please answer my questions! -oneC

Hi, dear! ? So sorry! I'll get back to them when I can. I'm rather busy now. D: The busiest season of the year has already started for me D: i'm involved in lots of charity events, academic endeavors and research projects (plus campaign plans) at the moment. Life is good, but I do have to sacrifice some social media page updates (even my blog isn't updated yet).
To everyone else, I ran through your questions already and I promise to answer all of them! *flying kisses to all of you* ??? Please bear with me! ??

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Cute ng instagram feed mo! Bakit nagshare na kayo ng account?

Courtney Co
Thank you! Nagiging food blog na nga e. hahaha. Well, ganun talaga. Alexis is part of the population of men who aren't fond of social media. He has access to my accounts so it's been a shared account for quite a while anyway =)) We just made it official because he learned how to finally use instagram! Although hindi kasya names namin sa character limit kaya ganun yung spacing :D Besides, we'll need the account to document our trips too! Hihi. #teamalwayshungry and #teamalwaystravellingkami hahaha

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See? Ang perfect mo pa din. Even if I say bad things about you, you're still pleasant. Kahit sabihin mong you get riled up easily kapag napprovoke, madali ka din naman magpatawad and you give people endless chances. Hindi ko kaya yun. I hate people randomly. Ang sama kong tao. Salamat sa prayers.

Hmm.. Hate is a strong word and if you feel that randomly, I'm worried about you. :( i don't even know why you are saying these things on my page of all places but I think the anonymity gives you comfort and you are just trying to make sense of yourself (and that's not a bad thing!). Just don't compare yourself to me. :) if you want someone to talk to, you can reach me through any of my sites. I'd be glad to help. :) don't give up on yourself. You're not as bad as you think! Love yourself! You're capable of so much in life. :) I believe in you :)

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What qualities do you value the most in your friends?

Loyalty ❤️ I'm very picky with who I trust that's why there are very limited people close to me that I've kept since grade school. I'm an INFJ so I pick friends as if I'm looking for a soulmate ? I'm guilty of cutting friendships in their infancy whenever I feel that we won't get along in the long run. ? for me to consider you a friend, you must be loyal :) I'm the type who will risk my life for you and I'm even prone to blind loyalty (those closest to me know what I mean) so I expect loyalty as well. :)

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They call your answers lengthy and detailed. I call them generous. It says a lot about yourself too. :D You always give more than the bare minimum :D Keep on making people smile with your infectious energy and unselfishness. :D PS girlcrush kita.

Yiiee kinilig ako haha ❤️❤️❤️ sino ka po? Baka girlcrush din kita! Hahaha ? you are too kind. Thank you for your kind words ?

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What's the weirdest deja-vu experience you've encountered?

My entire life is a déjà vu ? I'm kidding of course, but those closest to me would know what I mean. ? I experience it quite a lot, but the weirdest is probably my high school graduation. The feeling and the place made me feel so much familiarity. Like I've graduated in that same place before. ? it was weird but it was also emotional for me. Maybe it explains my attachment to the place ❤️

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I have thought of hating you for the longest time and the worst part is hindi ko kaya. When I look closely at the things I hate about you, envy lang abg lumilitaw. Bakit kasi sobrang bait at perfect mong tao?

Huhu. Bakit ganon? Don't hate. and Don't envy. D: well, not to encourage you to hate me, pero hindi po ako sobrang mabait D: hahaha. Seryoso. ? I can get riled up real fast when provoked. ??? I say harsh words when that happens (and twitter is almost always my channel for that, backread kang konti doon lalo na sa rage account ko ???) so hindi po ako perfect na tao :) once you get that thought out of your mind, baka makatulong. :) wag mo na po akong pag-isipang i-hate. ?? I will pray for your peace of mind, my dear.

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Fan ako ng detailed answers mo! Your personality comes across and just emanates good vibes. You're such a gem. The more I get to know you, the more I discover why my brother loves you. Who wouldn't? =) I don't know what even went in his head thinking of going with the other girl. Comedy talaga. =))

Waaaaaaaaaaa. Ate??? Bakit nasa ask.fm ka? (Bawal?hahaha) Naconscious ako bigla! Mygasss!!! ??? wait lang teka hinga muna ko hahahahaha. Wooo. Thank you po for reading my answers ? Nako ate actually mas comedy that the girl went for him hahahahah (I know youre reading this. joke lang, b!???) anyway, I think you'd have liked her din naman :)

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Hi, Patricia! Which communities and institutions are you connected with?

Kiara Maurice Tendencia
Hi, Kim! Most of them are just around the Metro. The causes I support are very dear to my heart (mostly related to my past and my passion) and I don't like broadcasting my contributions on the web. :) I can send the names of the institutions to you in private. :)
And this goes out to everyone reading this answer, I encourage you all to contribute to causes you are passionate about. If you think it's worth fighting for, fight for it. There's no better person to do it but you. :D You don't need social media exposure to validate your efforts. Anything done wholeheartedly is a generous endeavor no matter how small you start with :) Thanks for the question, btw, Kim! :)

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What's the perfect birthday celebration for you?

Birthdays are supposed to be celebrations of life and the years that have passed. :) Through the years, I've learned that good food with good people is not enough. It's my special day, so I make sure that I make it count by supporting good causes :) I prefer spending it by giving back to the communities and charitable institutions I'm connected with. :)

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Do you believe that love is blind?

No :) I don't believe that we search our whole lives for someone who will blind us to their imperfections. It's quite sad to think that the love of your life will render you sightless. But infatuation? (i've compared love with infatuation in one of the previous questions too) That, I believe, is blind. Infatuation is blind and deaf and often mute and it is something that fools you with a sense that it is everything you’ve been looking for… everything that Disney promised you in a rush of strings and percussion. :))) But love? I read somewhere that love is the complete opposite of blind, and I agree. It is all-seeing and accepting. Love is seeing the flaws, blemishes, bad habits, mannerisms, and accepting all of them. Love is recognizing all the fears and insecurities, and knowing your role is to comfort. Love is working through all the challenges and painful times. That’s what I strive for, what I yearn for, and what I believe in with all my heart. A love that opens its eyes wide and takes in every imperfection alongside my strengths. A love that says “That? I can live with that” even when I think he can’t. That’s what real love is. That’s what we all, deep down, really deserve, not just the temporary giddiness from infatuation. :) /*Okay, ang layo na ng narating, but you should be familiar with my lengthy answers by now. Hahaha*/

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Who were you named after?

Oh I wasn't particularly named after a deceased relative or my parent's favorite singer or something. But my gosh they had a lot of choices for my name. Wait! Frantically calls my parents for the story... Dadddyyyyyyyy!!! Mommmyyyyyyy!! ??? Janina Patricia (so my brother and I will have the same initials) then Bianca Patricia (ugh dunno why), Alexandra Marie (thank goodness they didn't choose this. I don't want AM for my initials. And Alexis and I will both be Alex! Haha), Patricia Alexa (i mean srsly mom), Bianca Maria (whew), Angela Patricia (not bad), Patricia Marie (getting there), but eventually my big bro called the shots and chose Mae =)))) it's a fairly common name. I met 11 Patricia Mae's in my entire school life, and we all love our name! ❤️??

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Do you keep a journal?

Yes, I do. :) I have an e-journal haha. It's a private blog which I update regularly. But I also have a journal where I write things down on paper from time to time, just not as often as I update the blog. :) Typing is easier, but I also need the pen-paper connection as it does therapeutic wonders for me when I need it. ?❤️ That way, the written entries are special too. ✒️?

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