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I see. Good defense. Personally, I think that kind of relationship is plain and boring. Where's the excitement? Where's the thrill? What's the highest level of love?

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Highest level of love is when both of you thrive to be together in jannah. I've witnessed a lot of excitement and happiness in people who didn't message his partner all the time before any ikatan.
On the other hand, my friends who called and messaged their loved ones on a daily basis mostly ended up being with someone else later on.
It's only plain when you have no purpose in love. It's only boring when you put yourself in a position where your heart is available for everyone.

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Give me reasons girl.

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It honestly depends on the girl. I know some girls who would feel uncomfortable with all the attentions and dominance from you. They don't feel the need to entertain your behaviour of being needy and clingy.
Some of them even interpreted such behaviour as immature although I do acknowledge there are some girls who are the total opposite.
When both of you are not terikat in some ways, I truly believe there's no such need to message him or her on a daily basis asking what she's been doing all day and that shit.

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+3 answers in: “If I have a girl, I'd be needy and clingy with her. I want to monopoly her attention and love. What do you girls think? Good or bad?”