Ask @Ahmednorthowed:

Very true. But still. Have you seen someone matching your potential?

No one matches my personality. There are many good people here. But I don't know anyone personally. Honestly, I suspect people to be fake and mean, because they are. I haven't seen anyone except my parents who helped and supported me without expecting anything in return for their favors. Such quality is rare among people.

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+1 answer in: “Do you see anyone on Ask who you think can be a potential partner of yours?”

What do you think are the conditions for being in love with someone. I know that love is done without any conditions but even though how would you like that person to be whom you would fall in love with🤔🤔

A mature and real person won't fall in love with someone who's not in his/her reach. I think marriage is a beautiful name of love, it's acceptable and highly liked by Allah Subhan-Tallah. Quran gives some great hadayats and words of wisdom which convey the golden message of love between couples and other family members. I think I can't put that all in words, but a Muslimah will always know how to love her husband. Love is the name of care, trust, compromise, sacrifice, tolerance, faith, muslim-hood relation, obedience, respect, union and a good coordination.

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Ahmed Mac
I know I'm rude, arrogant, bitter, strict and whatnot. I don't like it either, it's not what I wanted to become, but life doesn't always let you choose things, some things are given to us without any second option. I try to change, these things also burn and hurt me from inside, I don't even like myself sometimes, but I have to live and try to be better. Those who leave you at your fall don't deserve you in your good time. Never expect perfection from a human. You don't want others to judge you, but you're the one who judge too fast. Don't make a clear judgement or conclusion about something without consulting or confirming it.
People just show their perfections and not their flaws unlike me. All the preachers and writers share their stuff but not their personality traits or anything related to their personal life. I do share everything, that's why for most of the people I'm a repelling force. But I want people to know that I'm a human just like them, I have emotions and feelings, I commit sins and get sad, I overreact and get angry over things, but I like to think and spread good, I want to improve myself, so accept me as a human. There are many of you who once used to think of me as a good person, but now you don't, maybe because of my cold behavior. I can't always be polite in life, I get angry, do you not? It really saddens me to see people thinking wrong of me, they don't like my strictness, they judge my actions and not the resulting force behind them, but I'm learning to not expect humans to understand things or compromise with you. I just wanted to tell you that I'm a simple human.

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Ahmed Mac
Dear brothers and sisters, we are one nation, we are one race, so let's not divide ourselves, let's not prefer politics over humanity. A human always has humanity which is the composition of compassion, justice, love, harmony and care. We are the citizens of this whole world, this world is given to us so we could live together, it's our home and it's people are our family members. Soon our actions will speak for themselves, so why not send good deeds by our hands. Let's not forget who we are! ❤
#HumanityWithUnity

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Ahmed Mac
I am on internet for the last few years, I have learned that social media and it's users can't just train and educate society but can also form unions and community groups to stand for any kind of humanitarian activities like welfare support and justice. Why not let's start getting united and establish good relations with each other? I have recently spent hours in conveying the idea of my project "humanity with unity" through a large post description and video demonstration, but the disappointing truth is that no one came forward and volunteered for that project, even some students or fresh graduates could start it, they just needed to generate a platform and educate people to sign up there, they could experiment different features into that platform, but as I said no one is willing.
I have run a number of online as well as real-life campaigns, I took small as well as big steps, they all failed, I thought their failure is all onto me, but I was wrong, I actually trusted people that they will collaborate with me, that they will support me, but they didn't. I took steps for those who fear to make decisions, I took the risks and told them that I'm with you, but still no one came out of their comfort zones, it shows how divided we are, that we have no union or compassion for each other.
It's our nature as a human to have compassion and love in our hearts, but most of us have compressed them into it's lowest form. We just think of ourselves, why do we not think for others? Why do we not make this world a liveable place first before settling or living in it? We always clean and mend things before use, why do we not do it to this society and world? I think students these days have a special kind of spirituality, they want to spread change and knowledge. So... (Read the left part of this post via https://www.facebook.com/ahmednorthowed/posts/1702067286579871)

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Ahmed Mac
I want Turkey and Pakistan to be united by all means at worldwide level, because unity is the real strength. I want Islamic nations to recognize their real value and collaborate at all levels possible to emerge humanitarian spirits from each and every corner of every country. Not just that, I want even Non-Muslims to unite with Muslims and live together with other religions from everywhere in peace. But to see that dream come true we'll need to achieve one very important thing, and that's humanity. Because without humanity there's no unity at all! Let's work together to achieve this goal.

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Ahmed Mac
People move on but we don't, we hope for the same thing to happen twice, for good to come back again in the same way it was gone, for people to come apologize and be with us again, we believe in simplicity and that good behavior will attract people with love, we are so blind and dreaming so softly, we are so wrong about this world and the animals we live amongst. People just think of their benefit, that's the truth, the majority does it. That's the reality of this society, it's not what we expect it to be, it's better now to learn it than repent upon it later. Our destruction can sometimes be in our own hands. Let's save ourselves!
#RandomFact #RandomThoughts

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Ahmed Mac
(An idea and scheme of how to manage volunteer activities and teams, run cooperative systems and campaigns throughout the country, generate collective funds and support, stand and develop at political level, merge every city's humanitarian activities and more):
This idea came to my mind when I thought that one person can't help each and everyone around the globe, but actually with unity many things can be done. Let's think at country level first; there are hundreds to thousands of public activists and teams in almost every city, like Fixit. Suppose I live in Lahore, I start an online or local volunteer team here, or some students join me to start doing some charitable work together, this thing starts happening in every city and everyone who wants to do some good forms a team, then soon there are operational teams in every city to offer help in any crisis. But something big is required for full cooperation and connection between them. There are political parties and members, there are social workers, there are fundraisers. If we join together, if every social worker from every city creates a sort of connection between their team members, then many problems, like of funding, will be solved and covered together.
Who can create this connection between teams and how to take it to the global level? (The detail is given in the link: https://www.facebook.com/ahmednorthowed/videos/1691148297671770/)
https://youtu.be/j_Kgu2TpVtU

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Ahmed Mac
We all come as one package. Our skills, personality, health, fate, religion, mind capacity, appearance etc are the elements/units of this set/package. So when someone likes you then they will have to accept the whole package and not just few units of it. No package is perfect, there are good as well as bad elements included in it. It often happens that people start admiring your qualities because of your good characteristics, but soon they get to know one of your flaws and they reject/forget you on that basis. We all have flaws, none of us is perfect. You can't select few elements of every package and join them together, so it's better to compromise on different levels as possible. Your own package is not perfect too.

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Ahmed Mac
The affection and love by others will fade away no matter how rich, beautiful or intelligent you are. Don't take anything for granted, neither someone's love nor attention. Believe me you don't actually deserve what you have. You should be thankful all the time to Allah for blessing you all these things. Life is temporary and things can be taken away from you any moment, so learn to appreciate who's there for you, learn to see the sacrifices someone makes for you, they're not going to live and stay with you forever, learn their value, it may not always keep them in your life but maybe they'll stay a little more longer. Don't be rude when the fate is playing a positive role and is being nice in time, things will change soon.

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Ahmed Mac
I have a better living condition than millions Alhamdulilah, but I shouldn't be too proud, I shouldn't say that I deserve it, because of course we all don't deserve the blessings we have, I could take birth in a poor family of Africa or a terrified family in Syria, it is a blessing by Allah that I'm born in a peaceful area and good family, things can change any moment, so I should be thankful for the present and pray for the incoming. We all should know our position as a sinner, we all should be thankful and stay humble.
#OldSelfie #AhmedMac #Sialkot #Random

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Ahmed Mac
We can save money by three ways: by investing in a profitable business, by not using the extra money, and by spending on others (Karma). Whatever you spend on others it will reach you with profit one day, what goes around comes around, whenever you help someone God will help you. It doesn't just give you Ajjar but it also becomes a future investment and saving.

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Ahmed Mac
We should live in a society where status doesn't matter, where people are known and appreciated by their personalities and generosity rather than by how much they earn or possess in real life. Today if someone works in a shop or hospital to support his/her educational expenses or family then it shouldn't be considered bad or wrong, that person should not be made to feel less than a person who doesn't earn because of his/her parents' earning. If you have someone earning for you then remember that not everyone has a father like yours, some of them have to earn for themselves by working as a salesman and receptionist, they're not less than you, society should stop giving them an inferiority order. This thing really annoys me a lot, why can't we all keep our hearts clean and let everyone else live in peace? They struggle, they work, are they not better than us, are they not more strong? What if we are forced to work like them for just a little money? Don't mock them or their situation, tables can turn anytime. Fear Allah!

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Ahmed Mac
You earn less and you wish to earn more, you start earning more and you improve your standard of living, you spend all the money on yourself and your family, you intend to settle a good business base as a future investment. One day you start earning less and you feel bad to devolve your living standard. You always feel like you earn less, you always will. Day by day your expenses increase, new items get added to your list; petrol, bills, medical treatment, children, wife, tax, grocery etc. You are so involved in this temporary life, you just think about yourself and not about others' condition. You may get fired one day and remain jobless for years, anything can be taken away any moment. Your degree may become worthless one day and you start seeing no hope for a bright future. Why everyone's life is so distracted into materialistic living? Why everyone just works for themselves and not for others? Why just money is everything in life?
#RandomThoughts

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Ahmed Mac
Human nature:
We should accept our nature as a human and do our best to live with it. It is our nature to get attracted towards beauty and repel from ugliness, it's racism, Islam doesn't allow it, but it is our nature, we always have to act against it in order to obey Islam. It is our nature to be mean and not think of anyone else except ourselves, many of us can overcome this nature and be generous. It is our nature to worry about something and not forget it, it's not always easy to control that feeling. We have to live with ourselves, we don't have another option, but we have to obey Islam all the time, even if it's against our own nature, and maybe that's the real test from Allah, that we are asked to act against our own nature.
We are attracted towards the opposite gender, it is our nature, but Islam doesn't allow us to be with a na-mehram, means we are asked to act against our nature. There are many things, as from liking someone to have feelings about them, which are a part of our human nature but are forbidden by Islam for us. We have to fight with our own-self in order to please Allah. So many of us who think they have gotten a dirty mind; you don't have it, we all have it, you can change it, you can control yourself, we can't be perfect but we can keep trying, let it not go out of control and balance. There are many things I do as a person which aren't appropriate at all, I consider them bad, but sometimes I'm not able to control my nature from acting. So don't feel bad if you get such feelings, it's a test, just don't stop fighting, Allah knows everything, He knows your struggle. Salam and Peace ❤

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Ahmed Mac
Every men's eyes are filled with lust these days. When you go outside, with family or alone, guys start staring at you, means women. I find this totally cheap and annoying. Do these people not have any etiquettes? I really want to slap them hard in the public. I wrote about it before in an old post, but I'm writing this again because many people reading it do it too, this is totally vulgar, stop doing it. If you see someone doing it, harass them, make them feel bad and low, this is the only solution.
https://www.instagram.com/p/BR9WsUUgdN1/

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Ahmed Mac
رمضان کو ہم لوگوں نے مذاق ہی بنالیا ہے۔ سہری تک وقت ضائع کرتے ہیں، سہری کھاکر ظہر کی نماز تک سوئے رہتے ہیں، افطاری کرکے پھر بستر کے مہمان ہوجاتے ہیں۔ رمضان کی برکتوں سے تو ہم کوسوں دور ہیں۔ اور اگر تھوڑا وقت مل بھی جائے تو وہ ہم موبائل، فلموں، گانوں اور انٹرنیٹ پر بات چیت میں گزار دیتے ہیں۔ کیا ہوگیا ہے ہمیں؟
We have made (the month of) Ramzan a joke. We waste time till Sehar, after eating at Sehar we (then) sleep till (the prayer call of) Dhur, after eating Aftaar we become a guest of our bed again. We are far away from the blessings of this (holy month of) Ramadan. And even if we get a little time then we spend it on mobile, (watching) films, (listening) songs and chatting on internet. What has happened to us?

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