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How to treat mental health problems alone?

Assalamu Alaikum! It's just a reminder for those who are suffering from extreme level of stress, depression, anxiety, panic attacks or related acute illness that I'm here to assist in any way possible In Sha Allah. I'm an independent survivor of such problems for years so far, Alhamdulilah. I'm just a text message or voice note away. Feel free to contact if you want to open up, share or seek professional advice. Salam and Peace! 😊😇
#Anxiety #Depression #PanicAttacks #Stress

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Ahmednorthowed’s Profile PhotoAhmed Mac
Government officials are for nothing but just to brag, criticize, take pictures or take credit for the things which either happen naturally or by someone else. This democratic system is a total failure. Islam doesn't support such a system. Islam supports caliphate system in which the leader is considered a representative of Allah Almighty. He does everything according to what Shariah has prescribed. He doesn't let it get violated in any way.

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Soon, I'm going to reach the age when I won't be able to use social media frequently like I do today. I may have time then too, but you know what, it will feel awkward for someone of my age to act like this; I'll be too old for this stuff. Have to become a role model for my children and wife In Sha Allah. So, I'm either going to receive an active audience soon or I'm never going to. It's this or that, buddies. 🥺

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Writing this confidently because I know that not many people read my content now, and those who read; they won't care to pass a comment easily:
• It's always been my personality to say or write what I feel. I'm not a perfect person but always wanted to be one. Life is too complicated to manage perfectly, that's what I have learned from my years of experience. It's easy to dream or plan but almost impossible to execute that. There are four main topics of this article which I'm writing just to clear off my mind. First, sometimes I believe it's better that I'm not so popular and my content is not read by many. I'm not a very confident or social person, I have serious issues of anxiety, depression, panic attacks and God knows what else. Any of them can get triggered easily. I'm just a middle class person acquiring education in an attempt to secure my future. I have to go to shops and markets like a common person. It would be very difficult for me to face the public if everyone would have known me, or even few thousands or millions did. Maybe that's why Allah didn't allow me to rank well. Only He knows the truth. I have spent years trying to reach a higher stage to do what I aimed for. Maybe He has done me a favor by not allowing me. I'm merely a human so I don't know. But so far, this seems to be one of the advantages of not being able to grow. The other one is related to it as well - the security of me and my family. As I say the truth and try to emphasize on Islamic teachings, it's a threat to the evil forces which exist today. So, if I become an important person today then I'll have serious security issues which I won't be able to manage.
• Second, I miss the people who I knew once. No matter if they were the shopkeepers, school friends or people who used to read my content; I miss them all to the core. I have taken screenshots of hundreds of people who ever supported or encouraged me in life for.. https://www.facebook.com/603741996412411/posts/4189752897811285/

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How to become consistent in life?
There are two things needed in life which help us become consistent in all affairs. One of them is obeying orders, the system or someone's advice. The other one is having someone to instruct us and devise a routine for us. Psychologically, it has been observed that freedom incites corruption, evil and mismanagement of affairs. It seems nice and relaxing at start, but a complete freedom ruins everything. Not everyone's conscience stays healthy for long, so one must never try to take risk and test its limits by overmuch liberalism. Everyone needs an instructor, a moral compass and a set of limits to maintain. That keeps us in the circle and helps us do things which are needed even when we don't like to do them. Humans tend to become lazy, weak and slow with time. They tend to procrastinate. Thus, without a positive pressure we can lose our direction and start being inconsistent in life. We start following the office schedule and class lecture hours easily, why is that? It's because no one asks us to create a suitable timetable for ourselves. They tell us the schedule and it is us who have to abide by it. Everyone needs this.
The excess of freedom and independency of building routine schedules stimulate laziness and procrastination. If we are finding it hard to do something on regular basis then we can try to ask someone sincere around to become our guardian in that aspect and instruct us. Managers do that. Indeed, everyone has management issues and no one is perfect. The reason why the majority of students is unable to study regularly is mainly due to the system, liberalism, anxiety and disobedience of parents. Parents tend to set strict regulations in the household, hence we are always obliged to keep ourselves up accordingly. But when they stop doing that, abnormal roots will start growing. Their parents set.. https://www.facebook.com/603741996412411/posts/4177583642361544/

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How to become consistent in life

There are two things needed in life which

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If you want to spend your entire life with someone then you better focus on their average attitude or say middle road of the attitude instead of the extreme points only; the positive or negative edges of the whole line. The middle attitude means the one which is shown while carrying out normal conversations or chores instead of that which is practiced occasionally; like on an event or being alone. Check the normal dealing process and mood. The extreme and peak points are never good as a base of a proper, rational and conclusive judgement. Improve your average (daily life) attitude too for good social benefits. Salam and Peace. ✌🏻

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"Nobody is perfect but everyone is trying."
That is something which everyone should recognize and understand. As a human being we can't become perfect but we can keep on setting small to huge targets to push ourselves to become better. Neither just saying that we can't be perfect to justify our flaws nor expecting us to be perfect in every sense is right. What's right is that we set a standard and try to become perfect, at least it keeps us moving on the right track and helps us cover some distance even if we won't reach the perfect form. We all say stuff like "I wouldn't do that mistake" or like "I will be wise enough to never do it" while seeing flaws in the parenting skills. The truth is, most of the people don't try, but even those who try; they can't become perfect but can improve a lot. Even if we won't repeat those mistakes then we may do some other. Sometimes we can't even control our emotions when we try hard then how can we say that others aren't trying? Compromise plays a major role in finding peace and satisfaction in this life. Keep fighting within and around to survive!

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Nobody is perfect but everyone is trying

That is something which everyone

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Ahmednorthowed’s Profile PhotoAhmed Mac
Faith restored on the fact that hundreds of random men can't assault together a woman in a public place, unless it is preplanned. But the most unfortunate thing which I always knew is that majority in Pakistan is ignorant. There is not even one percent doubt in it. There are several people who I respected a lot, but now even they have disappointed me. They should look at themselves in the mirror now. Every feminist did their best to jeopardize and exaggerate the situation as much as they could. Many even abused their own fathers, brothers and husbands. The truth is "an ignorant person is trash". They created such scenarios and used Islamic references in every disgusting way just to support her; just to prove that she's innocent. All jokes on the stupid people. I can attach screenshots but you can see for yourself what everyone said on Twitter. Astagfirullah. People, act maturely for once?! Don't become victim of public stunts.
Now, everyone is accepting their fault. Just like the last time. They feel like clowns supporting someone who used them. Respecting women is important, but never prioritize them over Allah. I have no confidence in government as they proved always that they have no idea what an Islamic leadership offers. They think liberalism is the foundation of Islam. That's why no strict Islamic regulations and thus all the trash that you can see today in our society. Few things to remember from now on: Never learn religion from a liberal, everything bad that happens is either a trial or a result of something, it's peaceful to not argue with an ignorant and the last most important thing is to never generate sympathy for those liberals who intentionally violate/mold aspects and image of Islam or Muslims. Whether they call themselves feminists or anything, whoever is against Islam is an enemy of Allah and hence of Muslims. Peace.

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Faith restored on the fact that hundreds of random men cant assault together a

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I didn't want to share my thoughts about what happened recently, I still won't take anyone's side as I don't know the full story, but there are few things to be said. I know that society is ruined, but if it's true that 400 men harassed a single lady in a public place then I am completely shocked. A proper investigation needs to be done, fast and emotional judgement is wrong. No person got any right to harass someone even if their dressing was inappropriate. I am a Muslim and I can never take side with injustice. Punishments should be given to those who are guilty. The video, which I haven't observed completely, suggests that many men were actually trying to defend her. So one can't say that everyone was into harassing her. Whoever says that is a liar and must be punished as well. Some can actually be seen trying to get her out of there.
It should also be investigated that why was the mob triggered and what was her role in that. And who counted 400 men? The one who did that should be brought forward as well. Unfortunately, the public is not used to rational and radical judgements, thus they judge abruptly like that; just like in the case of the model who was slapped by a wife who was being cheated upon. But later on, it was proved that everyone was wrong. That shows how mature the society is. Right now, people are suggesting that Qayamat is near after seeing what happened. The answer to it is that why do they not say something similar when they disobey Allah and promote immorality openly? They say that this is not what Islam teaches us. It's true but what about the other things? In short, such people are pseudo Muslims who just follow a little bit of what benefits them in Islam. Such people have no maturity or sanity.
Feminists have started calling every man a r*pist. Such obscene comments are being passed. Such vulgar words and stories are being shared everywhere. Media is.. https://facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=4131676276952281&id=603741996412411

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I didnt want to share my thoughts about what happened recently I still wont

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Just a thought.. 🙂
Most of the women, or should I say "feminists", will hate to accept this but I'll still say it that just like you want freedom of choice and speech; others want it too. Basically it is your right, but we all know that the freedom you seek is actually in areas which are Haram. So, you want to commit Haram openly and then want no one to criticize or judge but even protect you. Unfortunately, Haram has been normalized. You have set the roots of liberalism & secularism. Likewise, the opposite gender that's vulgar also wants to hurt, assault and unjustly deal with others. So, either you both should follow your way or you both need to be punished and stopped. Think well before making a decision. Calling every man "trash" or "dog" is not fruitful or beneficial.
Both genders are creating such an environment in which everyone is free to do whatever they want to. Thus, some are hurting others while others are just sticking to their own damage for now. An important thing to mention here is that the anti Muslim forces are working day and night to weaken the structure of Pakistan. They incite chaos, feminism and gender war like stuff to destabilize us. Don't let them succeed. Use your brains. If you don't obey Allah then some of them won't too. Hence, they will cause harm. In order to stabilize the society, everyone has to come back to the right track and obey Allah. Without Islam, we are nothing more than just wild animals. Think! Salam and Peace. 😊

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I can't stop myself from speaking against the media propaganda that's been started by the west. BBC and CNN are on the top of the list doing it. First, they have started sharing fake and old images, stories and cases etc. Then, they raised Malala's name. Are we stupid enough to believe anything that they have got to say? They are cowards, running away from failures and hurting innocents for the sake of power. May Allah punish all the wrong people. Ameen. Don't pay heed to what they have to show or say, they have always been trying to misguide the public. Use your brain, hate the ones who create chaos. #Afghanistan #Kabul #USA

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I cant stop myself from speaking against the media propaganda thats been

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Took these on this Eid ul Azha (2021) but got busy so couldn't post them. I'm not a photogenic person, never been one. But sometimes I post without thinking about the reactions. Got to accept myself. 😌 By the way, let me know if any of them is better than my current display picture. (The famous Pakistani bulb.. see see!!!!) #AhmedMac
Original posting link: https://facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=4123595061093736&id=603741996412411

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Took these on this Eid ul Azha 2021 but got busy so couldnt post them Im

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Took these selfies few weeks back, wanted to post to keep everyone up to date with my face. 😉😊 Gathered some courage now to upload them. Tried to smile but failed badly. My innocent face. 🤕 Make sure to tell me if any of them are better than my current profile picture, I'll replace it with that one then. 🤗 Make Dua, always needed. #AhmedMac
Original posting link: https://facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=4123522707767638&id=603741996412411

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Took these selfies few weeks back wanted to post to keep everyone up to date

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Ahmednorthowed’s Profile PhotoAhmed Mac
The world is such a mess. Humans are trying to be God, Astagfirullah, while they can't even control the timing of their death. Afghanistan is one of the countries facing that situation. A war between wrong or wrong, right or wrong, or we don't know. Life is so complicated. May Allah Almighty protect all the innocents wherever they are. Ameen. I pray that the Muslims recognize the reality and become united against all evil hood. But they are divided so much that they don't even want to sit together on the same table while eating. As a common citizen of this world, I have no authority except sincere prayers to Allah. So, I'll pray as always. 🥺💔😪🤲🏻
#Afghanistan #Kabul #Taliban #AshrafGhani

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The world is such a mess Humans are trying to be God Astagfirullah while they
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