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Ahmed Mac

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"Gender Interaction Barrier"
A righteous woman who covers herself does also know that she has to follow the protocols of gender barrier. No matter the era, the standards of a pious person don't change. A man and a woman have to obey the standards otherwise it will mean that they have started compromising on their morals. Allah has not made it impossible for someone to become a Momin, even today. Whole books can be written on how to uphold such standards. There are many people who start compromising on such morals, and thus they lose themselves afterwards. It's crucial for everyone to recognize the value of gender interaction barrier. It's required to minimize it as you can. You must not give up on your standards if they are set according to the shared wisdom and provided knowledge of Quran. May Allah add His blessings in all the right things and efforts. May Allah help people see this through. Ameen. It's very difficult sometimes to live in this society, honestly. A man has to get involved in order to survive in the end. There is always a risk of exposure. Immorality wants to penetrate into our character and lifestyle. It is a very difficult era for believers.
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Make it a norm to wear old clothes on occasions like Eid, marriage ceremony, etc. There's nothing wrong with being humble. You can wear old clothes in good condition. Many poor people can't buy clothes for their children, and they feel ashamed of it. We can play a part in bringing comfort to their lives by first donating new clothes for their children and then by showing humility in our lives by breaking all such societal customs. If a rich or affording person applies humility in his life, it lowers the inferiority complex of others in society. May Allah Almighty guide us all. Ameen. This life is indeed a trial for everyone.
Make it a norm to wear old clothes on occasions like Eid marriage ceremony

"Allah has not put your healing in that which He has forbidden for you."

Life is a big trial, remember that.
That being said, try to get married around 19-20. Even that's too late. The Internet and media are ruining lives since you reach an age of using the phone.

‎ یہ لوگ فرشتے ہیں؟ خدا ہیں؟ کیا ہیں؟ ان کے معیار پہ کیوں خود کو اتارا جائے ؟

It's all about how strong you are. Most of us know a lot about our wrongdoings. Yet, we don't step up against that. We adjoin with the process. It depends upon how courageous you are. Crush the bad norms of society.

What's the reality of online relationships?

If you want to destroy yourself and your Akhirah, you will pursue such affairs. Else, a real man or woman will always go for Halal Nikaah. It's been more than a decade now since I started using social media. The people here are ready to sacrifice their faith, life, time, etc. for timepass. Those above 20 have already got a record of ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends. If you ask them, then they won't accept it. They'll say, "I never met someone who could understand me. That's why I never got into a relationship." A big LOL, all drama. They have destroyed their character. They can never be loyal to one person now. They don't know how to behave in a Halal relationship. Their expectations are fictional. Such people easily end up getting divorced. Talking to the opposite gender all the time, befriending them, sharing streaks, etc. All fake. It leads to nothing good.
Real gems are those who keep themselves protected against all such evil. Who keep their chastity and Haya intact. They are the best of the best. Those who commit Haram like that can never be trusted. I follow a lot of people online, but I trust none of them when it comes to this. They can not be trusted to be loyal. They will deceive and leave a permanent wound. Dozens of men and women came to me asking for help over the years. All of them suffered the same fate. They lowered their standards so much that they allowed anyone to use them and then discard them after they deemed fit.
I'll say this openly, if you want to be with someone, then approach them in a formal way through their Wali. Send your proposal. That's it. They can choose to accept or reject it.

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Should a guy earning 1 lakh per month, has no car, living in a rented house, think about getting married? He has no other expenses or responsibilities towards parents or siblings. Getting married is expensive as hell these days.

1 lac is not enough anymore if you are a middle class family person. Most of the families want to marry their daughters off to a wealthy bank rather than someone genuine. It's the truth. On one side, there's the concept of dowry (Haram). On the other side, there's this; not giving their daughter's hand to someone struggling or not having enough. You need millions to get married today, unless you are stubborn enough to stand against society and do it the right way.

Jaise sb larke ek jaisa baat karte ho toh kya waise he hum girls be same sound karti hain ?

One of the reasons why I dislike the social media people of Pakistan is because the majority of men here are begging the girls to become their friends (absolutely Haram) and the girls, despite knowing the ulterior motives of the boys, openly engage in conversations with them for time pass and stuff. How can anyone want such a spouse in their life? Someone so cheap!

What gets you excited about life?

I don't know about excited. All I know is that it depresses me that getting married to the right person has become nearly impossible for people like me. How to reach someone good when you don't even interact with someone? 💀 Not saying something Haram. The people of my generation have reached the age of getting married. There's no shame in accepting or announcing that.
Everyone's fake. The people online are fake. Everyone wants someone better than them. Some want money, others want looks. Everyone needs something. I need a lot of things as well. One must refrain from doing charity while selecting a partner. You can help others in different ways but if you donate yourself without considering your personal needs, you will weep and suffer for the rest of your life. That's why, do selection while considering your needs first.

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Very old. But now, all my followers have left Askfm. I'm left with inactive followers. 🥹

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