Is it natural to desire polygamy for men?
It is natural for a Muslim man to desire polygamy in his life because he knows that Allah has permitted it with only one condition and that is "justice among the women he marries". People today say that it's an impossible condition to be met, but these are just baseless statements. Truth is that polygamy should be promoted. If you can afford to marry twice or thrice then you should. But, you can't just make it about getting rich, taking dowry, or l*st. Most of the men today, or let's just say all of them, want to marry because of the last stated reason. It's all valid and Halal if the condition is fulfilled. Society has made it a taboo. Women today can't accept this fact. Thus, weak men are obliged even when they want to marry more than once.
A few years back, I also wanted to marry 4 women instead of 1. It was because I wanted to shelter and support women who got oppressed in any way; war victims, orphans, etc. Society does not provide for such women. So, if they have Haya intact, you should just marry and protect them. You can also marry widows with their permission and will of course. That was my intent back when I thought the world could become better. Today, I can't even think about marrying 1 after seeing the fights that occur after marriage. 😄✌🏻
A few years back, I also wanted to marry 4 women instead of 1. It was because I wanted to shelter and support women who got oppressed in any way; war victims, orphans, etc. Society does not provide for such women. So, if they have Haya intact, you should just marry and protect them. You can also marry widows with their permission and will of course. That was my intent back when I thought the world could become better. Today, I can't even think about marrying 1 after seeing the fights that occur after marriage. 😄✌🏻