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جو کوئی مجھ سے خفا ہے اسے پورا حق ہے اس کا اقرار اور اظہار کرنے کا۔ اگر مجھ سے کوئی خطا سرزد ہوگئی ہے تو آئیں اس دوری کو مٹائیں۔ آخر میں بھی ایک انسان ہوں۔
Whoever is angry with me has the right to confess and express it. If I have made a mistake then let's erase/end this distance. Because I'm a human too.

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Today, Muslims are suffering in ways they can't understand. Allah has a solution for everything. If our nation is falling then there is a far better way to lift it up. Read Quran (3:120). It doesn't matter whether it is an economical issue or war, anything can be corrected by Allah. All we need to do is keep faith and do what He says. If He can create everything then He can control that as well.

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I need counselling and strong opinions:
I joined social media sites in 2012. I started writing and campaigning in about 2014. I took an official turn in 2016. I have written about everything that entered my mind. I have always tried my best to use every single one of my skills and platforms to preach and fight the ignorance. Till now, social media is my topmost area. But in the future, I may become able to get a more reliable platform. There is so much else too that I do or tried to do. I do it because I feel it as my responsibility to help others, preach and become a good human. I try to follow Quran. I'm not so successful in my life. I may be going wrong somewhere. But still, I try to be a good person. Quran is my inspiration and spiritual health. It's my light in darkness & cloudy weather.
I'm an emotional person. I say the truth in a straightforward sense, even if it is against my very own self. But sometimes, I get afraid of doing what I do today. I know my approach is not so vast or firm. But I do my best and yes it is not so easy as it seems to be. But when my father advises me to cease such efforts because bad people are always present to silent people like me, I become sad. I wanted him to appreciate my goodness. People always advise me to focus on myself and not on others. Either all of them are wrong and I'm right, or they all are right and I'm wrong. I don't write to gain audience, I write because this is the only thing that I can do now. Only Allah knows why I try to do this stuff even after so many disappointments.
I try to follow Quran. I believe that as long as I'm doing the right thing, God will take care of me. He will protect me and guide me always. But sometimes, I really get disturbed. Because my life is connected with my family. I do not want to endanger them. I'm a simple Muslim who cannot endure others pain, suffering, ignorance and injustice. I try to.. https://facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2447235595396366&id=603741996412411

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I don't think that Pakistan is going to survive for long. I'm not joking or spreading a rumour. I'm so concerned about what's happening today. See the rate of immorality and injustice. Everyone is fighting with each other. There are talks against Allah everywhere. It doesn't feel like an Islamic state at all. Quran says that such nations are replaced by better nations. So, either Pakistan will improve itself, or it is going to collapse. Allah knows the best and He has given us Quran to know about the old nations and their reasons of destruction. We are almost ready to fall or close to some kind of revolution. I already feared it, I have warned everyone so many times that we are not here in this life without a purpose. But no one wants to pay heed. I try to preach them the realities but they want to stay stubborn. Something big is coming. May Allah protect the righteous and those who have even one drop of goodness in their hearts. Ameen. I feel so sad and disturbed. People are really running towards destruction.

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What's the real purpose of doing Parda?
It is not just about obeying Allah's command. He does not do anything without a purpose. This command has reasons too. One of the great purposes of covering yourself is to add a protection layer, a kind of barrier, between the opposite genders who always have a chance to fall into immoral affairs. But why men were not asked to do that and women were? It must have reasons too. Allah has made men more dominant, but women are created fragile by heart. Men are given more responsibilities than women. Similarly, the duty of upbringing children is put on women because of their natural polite state. The Parda may be commanded to them because they're created more beautiful than men and there are probably more chances of men falling for women as they are created weak in this aspect of nature.
But indeed Allah knows the truth. We are His creation and it is our duty to obey His commands. You are asked to apply Parda when you go outside or are among the public, this highlights the fact that this command is to keep both genders away from each other. But when you are alone, with your spouse or among your Mehrams; you are allowed to lower your Parda but not to an immoral level. Islam feels like a cage to the modern world. But can you see any peace or satisfaction in this modern society? Absolutely not. When you are away from the truth, you will start suffering and you won't be able to intepret the reasons. The world is a great test. The women are given a high rank in this world but some of them disgrace the whole gender by selling their dignity. May Allah guide us and save us against becoming immoral.

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Most of the people do not quit sinning because they feel too impure already and don't believe that there could be a way of their return. Allah does not end our life on our first sin. He has given us time; to sin, to repent, to sin again, and to repent again. He knows we are fragile. He knows we are going to displease Him. But He is patient with our actions. He has given us the time to learn about the realities and stop sinning. If you have been unwise in the past then it doesn't mean that there is no way left for you. Even some murderers became righteous. Change your thinking. If you get a thought in your mind to repent then it means an opportunity, because in Allah's cases; there is always a way for those who believe and become patient. It's alright if you are not confident about yourself anymore, at least don't just lose yourself like that. Try again in good company and with good motivation. You still have time, you are alive!

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If you are suffering from depression, panic attack, anxiety, migraine or anything related then you really need to focus on yourself. Life is not just about learning, earning and working. Life is more than that. It's the name of constant travelling. And during this run, you must have proper luggage and fuel. You earn those things by working for them. But the real cause is travelling. Therefore, I request you to slow down in your lives. You are not a machine and you don't have the capacity to stay on the top always. You can not always stay in a competition with the world. Spend on yourself. You matter a lot, your existence matters. Your mental health is of great value. Do not lose yourself, take your time. Find hope in life. Mental health severely disturbs the physical health. It minimizes your power, energies and progress.
It's alright to not be able to earn much. It's okay to not be able to complete the tasks before the deadline or on time. It's alright to miss a flight. It's okay to not perform well in studies. It's okay to lose a loved one. It's okay to feel bothered by society. You are a human. If you find no one else to talk to then write. Release and express your held volume. Your heart matters. You can't stay the same always. No one does. Except your fate and embrace the change. The best way to go through this life successfully is by putting your trust in God. It's not a myth at all. This life and world were created, and then the way to survive the battlefield was devised; that's religion. It's not a cage. This life is a mirror to why religion is really important in our lives. You don't have to live to prove others wrong. Mental health is not a drill. Please, love yourself.

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I want to be happy. I want to smile and laugh more often. I want to have sincere and good friends. I want to be a better Muslim, as well as a human. I don't want to become impatient. I don't want to be scared of my future. I do not want to worry all the time. I do not want to hurt others. I want to live peacefully. I want to get married to a noble woman. I want to become better. I want to help everyone. I want to do so much. I want to eradicate evil and injustice. I feel so lonely and I want to get rid of such feelings. I want to live and don't want to just survive. I want to help others. I want my life to have a meaning. Life seems impossible. May Allah help, forgive, guide, protect and bless me.

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Without spirituality, life is boring. You lose the taste in life. You lose potential. It feels like a dry life. It takes you nowhere. You don't get enough motivation to eat when you are hungry and sleep when you are tired. It snatches away your power to perform and think. I'm an insect myself; always in search of spirituality, motivation, light and positive energy. Wherever I may be, these things attract me more than anything. I absorb them and they help me become who I am today. But when there is not much inspiration to absorb and feed on, I start losing the choice to work and keep on the smooth ride. It gives you nothing but a pure state of emotionlessness; one of the worst feelings. And when there is not much positive energy to absorb, you start absorbing the evil energies around.
You lose spirituality when you are unable to express for long, you haven't achieved any of your goals for a long period of time, you have lost someone important but became helpless to do anything, you have seen slow progress of losses in your life, and you were unable to save someone even after doing your best etc. It is actually a name of "incomplete sensation" in which you feel lost somewhere and become unable to recover. It removes the tracks of the past and leaves you clueless about the wrong that happened to you or was committed by you. You try to find the reason of this suffering but always stay disappointed. You develop a permanent feeling of guilt and start blaming yourself for all the wrong that happened. You lose the keen to live and you become dead.

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When you disobey Allah throughout your life and then complain that why He didn't answer your prayers; you should counter-question yourself. A practicing Muslim is superior to a non practicing Muslim. Allah has set standards. Obedient people are His priority. Be obedient and see the results.
جب آپ ساری زندگی اللہ کی نافرمانی کریں اور پھر شکایت کریں کہ اس نے آپ کی دعاؤں کا جواب کیوں نہیں دیا تو آپ کو خود سے جوابی سوال کرنا چاہئے۔ ایک باعمل مسلمان ایک بےعمل مسلمان سے افضل ہے۔ اللہ نے معیارات طے کر دیئے (تشکیل دیئے) ہیں۔ فرمانبردار لوگ اس کی ترجیح ہیں (ان کا تقدم ہے)۔ فرمانبردار بنیں اور (پھر) نتائج دیکھیں۔

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When you hate a part of yourself, like the sinning part, you start hating it in others too. You criticise them as you criticise yourself. Your hate is not always due to a reason, sometimes it's just developed in your personality. As I said before: "If you hate everyone then you don't actually hate them all, you just hate yourself, that's why you think you hate others. Because when you can't love yourself then you can't love anyone." Sometimes, you commit a specific sin and try to correct yourself but become unable to do that. So, when you see something relevant in others, you hate them more; even if they are not actually doing it. It becomes impulsive. #ANaturalFact

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I was reading about the author of Harry Potter. She had an idea and of course she would have faced difficulties in achieving her dreams, but she was credited as a writer. She was acknowledged among her people. But here, a writer has no value. We do not value writers or teachers. There are no opportunities for them. They do not have the environment to think, imagine and write. They face so many difficulties that they eventually stop writing. Whereas in other countries, they recognize the categories and create opportunities. We are not always useless, it may be possible that our environment is not able to offer the required outfit for our values and skills. That's why it is said that one must keep moving, means that one should keep trying at different distances and places. You can't achieve everything in one place. You must explore more ideas and environments. It's a sad fact that our people possess so much talent but lack the chance to perform and operate. And again, government doesn't think about this major disaster in the arena and race of talent; so unfortunate.

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On AskFm, I am unfortunately following so many sisters due to some reasons. I feel so bad about it. Maybe soon, and Insha-Allah, I'll unfollow them. Social media is not a good place at all. Trust me, it just makes you immoral. People use it to stay away from their family's approach; to earn the liberty to perform any deed without any jurisdiction or involvement, usually those deeds which good societies and families do not allow. Most of the youth online take benefit of this approach. There is just immorality everywhere and it's a constant fight to abstain from it by consistent opposition. I, honestly, notice that no guy interacts with me and only women (girls) do, apparently it is not good. No matter how good my intentions are, it is natural for us humans to think wrong and sometimes we also lose control and become unable to control our selves. That's when things go out of control.
I want to be a good Muslim and it demands great sacrifices in return, I'm trying my best. If you notice any flaw in me or have any doubts then you are free to ask me and discuss that issue with me. I always need to improve myself and know more about my personality. It's always okay to have a third person's review, unless it is a mocking movement and effort against your development and self esteem. If we really want to be successful then I think we should start focusing on ourselves too and not just others. We have flaws and we commit sins, we need to understand the degree of consequences and feel the regret. Everything we say and do, it will have a result very soon in both lives. We need to control ourselves and restrain from affairs which lead us away from Allah, Quran says that we must not prefer things for their smaller benefits and greater disadvantages.

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No one will tell you that your hair is pretty or ask you to post a picture of your feet when you are sixty years old. They just satisfy their lust today from your youth, and unfortunately, you are being so helpful in fulfilling their desires. Understand your worth as a Muslim and as a woman. You are not equal to men, you can't be equal to them because you have a separate identity. You can't compare yourself with everything that exists. Recognize your value as Allah destined for you. This message is only for those who are yet immature, not for those who will stay stubborn until they're dead. Religion needs understanding.

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یہ بات کہنا بہت آسان ہے کہ پیار تو بس ہو جاتا ہے اور اس سے بچنا ممکن نہیں، لیکن حقیقت میں یہ بات قطعی طور پر درست نہیں۔ اللہ تعالی نے ہی مرد اور عورت کے درمیان ایک کشش پیدا کی ہے، پر اسی کے ذریعے ان دونوں کو آزمایا بھی ہے۔ کسی مسلمان کو یہ زیب نہیں دیتا کہ وہ اپنے شریک حیات کے علاوہ کسی کو چاہے۔ یہ اس پر حرام قرار دیا گیا ہے۔ آج کے دور میں لوگ ان سب باتوں اور دینی علوم سے آشنا ہونے کے باوجود ایسے حرام کاموں سے بالکل بھی گریز نہیں کرتے اور نہ ہی ان کو کرتے ہوئے ہچکچاتے ہیں۔ کوئی شخص لفظ "حرام" کے وزن اور قاعدے قانون سے آگاہ ہی نہیں ہے۔ آج تقریبا ہر وہ شخص جو اپنی ایک مسلمان کی حیثیت سے پہچان کرواتا ہے وہ اس طرح کی برائیوں میں عام مست ہے۔ اس کے مطابق اسلام صرف لسانی طور پر اقرار کرنا ہی ہے، قلبی اور عملی طور پر نہیں۔ یہی وجہ ہے کہ دعائیں بے مراد جاتی ہیں اور دل بے سکون رہتے ہیں۔
انسان کا ایمان کمزور ہو تو اس کے من میں ایسی باتوں کا آنا لازم ہے، پر وقت کے ساتھ ساتھ ان جذبات پر قابو پایا جاسکتا ہے۔ مگر یہ بھی صرف اسی صورت میں ممکن ہے اگر بندہ ان سے مسلسل انکاری رویہ اختیار کیے رہے اور اپنی نفس کو باز رکھے۔ اگر دل میں خیال آئے بھی تو نفس کشی کا سہارا لینے سے معاملہ ٹھنڈا پر ہی جاتا ہے۔ اس کا اندازہ اس بات سے بھی لگایا جاسکتا ہے کہ مخالف جنس کے ہم عمر لوگ (اکثر خاندانوں میں) ایک دوسرے کے ساتھ آنکھ مچولی میں پائے جاتے ہیں۔ کہنے کو سب کو معلوم ہوتا ہے کہ کیا غلط اور کیا صحیح ہے، مگر پھر بھی کوئی اس کھلے عام برائی کے اجتناب سے نہیں رکتا۔ جان رکھو کہ ہر معاملے کا ایک انجام ہوتا ہے، اس دنیا میں بھی اور آخرت میں بھی، وہ اللہ کے حکم سے ہی ہونا ہے۔ خدا کی بات کو رد کرکے کبھی کسی نے نہ فلاح پائی اور نہ ہی پائے گا۔ بد کرداروں کی سی روش اختیار مت کرو۔ نصیحت لو۔

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What to do when you lose focus in life and become unable to do anything with interest at all? Things start piling up after that and the burden keeps on increasing. Maybe because you lack energy to channel your focus, maybe you are just so lonely that you don't care at all if you start failing or getting hurt, or maybe you have nothing to excite you in life; maybe you are just lacking fun. It's one of the worst scenarios and it makes you feel ashamed and gives you an anxiety too. Life is not always about work; fun and rest are equally included. But we deprive ourselves of every spiritual element and start stumbling in our lives. We feel like everyone is selfish and hence it adds great loneliness in our fate. I am a victim of it too, because I cannot compromise religion over fun.
I used to have fun by watching movies, singing songs, listening to music, playing games, joking with people around me, producing imaginations, writing, talking with people online and so many other things. But that was in the past. Today, I don't have much ways to achieve satisfaction or do fun in my life. Hence, I always keep on losing focus and the potential to work. I lack consistency and I skip life when I can. There is nothing to be proud about in this case. Your personality contains positive and negative aspects. I didn't use to feel lonely and hadn't built any attachment with my relatives, but now I miss people. I am unable to focus, I try my best, but I'm failing for the last three months. The least I could do is write and post it.

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