Like almost never? I think in the past year or two I’ve spoiled myself with two whole haircuts lol. Before that it had been at least 3 years since my last haircut.
Sharing personal experiences you’ve had with another person isn’t gossip if it actually happened to the person sharing the experiences imo 🤷♀️ and when numerous people have had the same or similar negative experiences with the same person, that seems pretty unlikely that it’s just gossip imo 🤷♀️ and it’s usually the ones who aren’t actually truly being defamed that throw a public hissy fit imo 🤷♀️
Moreover, if people can post reviews about restaurants and other businesses why can’t we post reviews about people too? As long as it’s not clearly just shitposting or revenge posting, who cares? Could help you find your perfect match for all you know lmao.
Attention/support on a personal level. I’ve gotten a lot better about asking for help or support with like work or stuff around the house but on a personal level if I just need someone to talk to and I’m really struggling I have a really hard time saying that. I’ll go as far as asking if someone is available to hang out and if they’re not I just pretend like that’s fine and I’m not totally dying because they’re the only person I feel comfortable enough to rely on in the few instances where I will admit to needing a shoulder to lean on.
This morning tbh. I haven’t been sleeping well and I think this morning was the first time in well over a week that I slept fairly well, but I walked into the bathroom and had the darkest circles under my eyes. I swear those SOBs take forever to catch up. Like god forbid they show up when I’m actually not sleeping well, no no, they show up when I start catching up on my sleep hahah
At this point in time, just my mom, both my grandfathers, and my mothers oldest aunt.
My mom because she’s my biggest supporter and closest friend and the one person I know I can rely on for anything no matter what. She’s my favorite person.
My mom’s dad because he’s one of the purest souls I’ve ever met and a genuinely good human who loved me more than anything and I regret not giving him more of my time and my love.
My dad’s dad because I think he would be a good one and I’d like to know him in different lives since he passed when I was still young.
My moms aunt because she was genuinely one of the best people I ever knew and I think the world deserves more of her throughout different lives.
Not at this time. None of my actual legit exes I have any interest in, and the one ex fwb I would be super down to have some fun with would go against my personal boundaries so, no lol.
I think I’ve got everything I need, realistically. But I don’t have everything I want. Even realistically lol. I want a house of my own. I want a partner. I want a dog. I want a better paying job. I want a larger circle of close friends and/or a better social life. I want to be happier in general without overthinking everything and over analyzing everything. I don’t have a one size fits all answer to the why/why not but generally it all falls back under the happiness/overall contentedness I feel or want to feel.
Uhhh maybe 3? Snapchat, instagram, Facebook. I’m not sure what else counts as social media from my phone tbh.
I have subtitles/captions on for everything I watch tbh 😅
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My current job is entirely around answering questions tbh. If more people were self reliant I would literally be out of a job haha
