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Where are the people who cared for you?

MalikShaheer’s Profile PhotoMuhammad Shaheer
Aik adad haqeeqi qabar k andar aur meri dastars se bohot door..
Aur yakeen karain, poori duniya k log mil kar bhi mujh se mohobbat karne lag jaen, tab bhi us aik insan ki mohobbat-o-shafqat ka koi naim-ul-badal nahi ho ga.
Jo baat un k andaaz main thi, jo fikar un ko meri hoti thi, jis dil k wo maalik the, jis shafqat se wo sir par hath rakhte the, jis mohobbat se unho ne mujhe nawaza tha, jo chamak un ki ankhon main ati thi mujhe dekh kar, jo naik taman'naa'ain wo rakhte the mere liye, jo muqaam unho ne dia tha apni zindagi main, jo sath unho ne dia tha mushkil waqt main, jo khayal wo rakhte the, jo pyaar wo karte the, jo chahat wo rakhte the apne dil main mere liye, jin alfaaz main wo mera zikar karte the, jo achi yaadain unho ne mujhe deen hain, jo sukoon un ko dekh kar mujhe milta tha, jo sukoon mujh ko dekh kar unhe milta tha, un sab cheezon ka koi naim-ul-badal nahi he...

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Rabail I miss u😭

I miss myself as well, esa mehsoos ho raha he jese main kaheen bohot door chali gae hoon, apne aap se, apni zaat se. Apni bohot kami mehsoos ho rahi he mujhe bhi, kyun k masroofi'at ki waja se kaafi arsa ho gaya khud se mulakat kee'ay ho'way. Aur ab jab takh'liyay ki chan'd saa'atain naseeb hoi hain tou apni zaat hi mehsoos nahi ho rahi. Lekin afsos ki baat ye he k mujhe hargiz bhi is baat ka ilm nahi he k apni is khoi hoi zaat ko kahan talaash karna he....
Kher, meri baat alag he, lekin kisi aur insan ko meri kami mehsoos nahi hone chahie, for their own good.... ✨

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Why people like dark more then light.

Because jab andar andhera hota he tou bahar roshni achi nahi lagti.🤷🏻
Jokes apart, as a society, we're not very comfortable in revealing our true inner self struggles due to diff: factors such as judgment, labels, stereotypes and prejudices...
We're afraid to ask for help because we feel like 'what if the other person judges us' and what if the other person feels burdened...?
So in case of any triggering situation, we prefer to either withdraw or isolate ourselves, because the fear of being misunderstood is so much strong k communication initiate hi nahi ki jaa rahi hoti bohot se logon se...
Ab is situation main jo negative thought hota he aur us se associated jo negative emotions ya feelings generate hoti hain, wo sab for the time being isolation aur withdrawal ki waja se suppress tou ho jati hain, but eliminate ya channelize nahi hotin, they're bottled up inside us and because of the lack of support and nurturance from the environment in most of the cases, we're unable to express our true inner selves emotionally atleast....
And these bottled up emotions have a huge impact on how we behave and perceive things....
So all these bottled up emotions, if not channelized, if left untreated, if left unattended, give rise to diff: mental health issues such as depression, anxiety and so on....
And in long run agar ye situation cater nahi ki jaye, ya coping mechanism na ho tou aik "pessimistic thought pattern" develop hona is very easy....
So technically, Light represents optimism, hope, life, openness and opportunities whereas Darkness represents hopelessness, depression, isolation, grief, dead-end, threat and failure.....
That is why, in most of the cases, we're drawn towards darkness because it represents our internal self struggles... 🌼

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What wakes u up at night

Wo tamam tar sochain, jin se hum poora din peecha churaate rahe...
Wo tamam tar baatain jin par hum aaj tak sabar karte rahe....
Wo tamam tar yaadain jin par hum aj tak zabt karte rahe...
Un yaad'on main mojood wo tamam tar log jin se hamara taa'luq ab sirf yaad'on ki hadh tak hi reh gaya he kyun k zindagi se tou wo bohot pehle hi jaa chuke hain...
Wo tamam tar taabay'daar aansoo, jinho ne hamain samjha, aur jinhe hum ne jab'ran ankhon main qaid rakha.
Wo tamam tar baaghi ansoo, jinho ne takhliya mu'yass'sar hote hi, hamain samajhne k ba'jaye shiddat-e-jazbaat main a kar baghawat ki, aur hazaar kism k band baandhne k bawajood bhi aankhon k kinaaron se bahar ki duniya par zaahir ho gae.....
Wo tamam tar jazbaat, jinhe hum ne apne dil k intihai kareeb mehsoos tou kia lekin kabhi zabaan se un ka izhaar nahi kar sake...
Un tamam tar logon ki yaadain jin k zehen main aate hi zehen maflooj ho jata he aur dil ki dharkan kabhi intihai taiz'raftaari ka muza'hira karti he tou kabhi dil band hone ka gum'aan hota he...
Wo tamam tar zakham, hum jin k bhar janay ki jhooti tassali'an apne aap ko din bhar dete rahe, raat hote hi, un khoon me lith'ray hoye zakhmon ka ubhar'na aur dard ki shiddat se kuraah'na..
And most importantly, kuch pending kaam.... 🙃
Tou mil jul kr yehi kuch cheezain hain jo sone nahi detin aksar. 🤷🏻

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My fiance brought a new dress. Asked me how she was looking. I said bas sahi he and now she not talking to me. What should I do.

Mujhe aik baat batain, jis dil ko dukhaya he na-danistagi main, wahan kon rehta he..?
Aap hi rehte hain na..?
Lehaza jahan rehte hain, jahan ap ko tamam tar garm-o-sard halaat se mehfooz kr k rakha gaya he, us jaga ki hifazat karna bhi ap ki hi zimedari he na...?
Agar ap khud apne rehne ki jaga ka khayal nahi rakhain ge tou kon rakhe ga...?
Agar us jaga ko nuksaan hoa tou lazmi taur par ap ko hi rehne me mushkilat hon gi...
Lehaza Agar kisi ne ye sharf bakhsh dia he k apne dil k andar tak ane ki, wahan rukne ki aur phir hamesha k liye rehne ki ijazat de di he, tou thori si mehnat kr k us jaga ka khayal bhi rakh lain, ap hi khushi se rahain ge phir us jaga pr.....
Agar ap k 2 alfaaz zada bol dene se, thora sa nazar utha kar dekh lene se, thori si tareef kar dene se koi khush ho jata he tou us insan ki khushi ka khayaal rakh lena chahie....

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Rabail what exactly are you doing right now ?

So I just made steak, properly. With fries, vegetables and sauce. Banane se pehle I asked my brother 100 times if he wants to eat it or not and everytime he replied "yaar main nahi khaon ga tum apne liye bana lou". Left my steak with him for 10 minutes and he literally ate the whole freakin steak, left 4 bites for me.....
So right now, me intihai shadeed qism k sabar ka muzahira kar rahi hun......
Rabail what exactly are you doing right now

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‘When we slow down and deeply listen, the differences dissolve.’ Have a Nice day💐

But what if they don't. No matter how much we talk, what effective communication strategies we use. There are things that will not change.
In fact why is there a concept of "if we don't like something about someone, it's their responsibility to change, and they should change if they love me" and why not a concept that says "Oh! I don't like this thing about him/her, how about I change my perception and be a bit more understanding towards them because I love them. As in what is their POV or rationale for having this specific trait/behavior/stance"
For example, let's say, you like mangoes and I love apples. Now, you don't have to stop liking mangoes to be accepted by me and I don't have to stop eating apples to be accepted by you or to be in any kind of relationship with you. We can still eat together in a plate with mangoes on your side of plate and apples on my side of plate.
And there will be days when life will not give us any option to choose and we have to deal with a fruitchart kinda situatiom, so you have to build tolerance for apples and I'll be increasing my threshold with mangoes.
Precisely, extremism in any form is not helpful. You can't go around and ask people to change just because you don't like the way they exist and the only time when you will be accepting them, in any setting or relationship is, when they act or do as you say. It's not always the other person who needs to work on them.
And you can also not go around and blame yourself for everything. Know your worth. You do not have to change just to be loved by someone. You are acceptable with your anxieties, you don't have to ask them to love you. Know your self respect & values and do not compromise on them..
We, as humans can exist at the same place, in the same relationship or anywhere, with our differences and can still be at peace.
YOU DON'T ALWAYS HAVE TO CHANGE.
AND...
YOU CAN'T ALWAYS ASK THE OTHER PERSON TO CHANGE..
IT'S OKAY TO HAVE DIFFERENCES, WE DON'T ALWAYS HAVE TO CHANGE THEM

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Something you want back from your past?

Maazi se..?
Mera maazi mujh se itna kuch le ja chuka he k ab shayad wo saari umer bhi laga de tou un cheezon ko wapis nahi lou'ta sakta...
Mera sab kuch maazi main hi tou reh gaya he, haal me tu sirf aik adad be'kaar sa dil, aur meri zaat he.
Main rehti zaroor haal main hun, lekin wo jo aik chakkar maazi ki galion me lagta he na, wo bara takleef'da hota he.
Har raat taki'ye pr sar rakhne k baad jo saa'ye zehen pr lehraate hain, poora din sab se hans kr milne k baad wo jo aik haqeeqat ka ansoo raat main ankh k ki'nare se apni marzi kr k nikal'ta he, wo sab kuch kahin na kahin maazi ki tab'nakion aur maazi k ro'b-o-daab k natee'jay main, abdeed'gi, dil'azaari aur be'rehmi pr aah-o-fugaan kr raha hota he...
Dil pr jab se qaid-o band ki saubaten lagai hain, ye kaafi hadh tak qaboo main rehta he, han aksar apni zid'ain poori na hone k badlay main sans'ain tang krne ki koshish krta he magar wo bhi maaf he... lekin ye jo dimagh kabhi kabhi maazi ki khirkon se jhank'ne ki koshish krta he, us ki is koshish ki waja se hamesha bechara dil ajeeb si kasm'pursii ka shikaar ho jata he.
Ap ka sawal tha 'something we want back from past' ap khud bataen, maazi hamen, takleef k ilawa aur kya de sakta he....?

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I'm kinda taking care of my friend's rabbit these days and I swear I've never been this happy in my life. He's so so so cute OMG like I can die because of his cuteness. Very chipku but 10/10 for being the bestest and smollest boi he is.
Ughhhh, i love him. Mera dil, Meri Jaan. 🥺😩🖤
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Kya pyar krna gunnah he

For the nth time im saying this.
PYAR KARNA GUNAAH NAHI HE.
Gunah aur sawab ka taa'yun insan k amaal karte hain, jab k mohobbat insan k dil main ubharne wala aik adad jazba he.
Ab mohobbat main parhne k baad, us jazbe k tehet ap jo bhi amaal sar'anjaam dain ge wo ap k liye gunaah ya sawab ka taa'yun karain ge.
Ab yahan dekhne ki baat ye he k hum gunnah kis amal ko consider karte hain.... ?
Islamic POV se alag cheezain gunah k criteria main ati hain,
Cultural and societal POV se alag cheezain prohibited hain,
Psychological deviations alag hain relationships ki.
From the above mentioned things, you have to decide as a human what your priorities are and us hisaab se ap pyar ho jane k baad ki manzilain طے karte hain..
Another very important thing here is that har insan ki apni demands, do's and dont's hote hain relationships main which might make sense to them but not to you and vice versa. So just make sure to have someone jis se ap ka value system match krta ho wrna there will be a lot of conflicts, miscommunications, and misunderstandings.
Also, just because your value system is completely different from someone else regarding something, you CANNOT judge them or label them.
Kyun k ap ko duniya main ese bohot se log milen ge jin ki zaroriat ap se bohot mukhtalif hon gi from their relationships and partners, So just learn to tolerate differences. respect their priorities and don't let them disrespect yours. Don't confuse RESPECT with CONFORMITY. Love the way you want to and let them love the way they want to. We all have diff love languages and it's okay to have them..
I hope ap ko ap ka jawab mil gaya, nahi mila tou maaz'rat.....🥺

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How secure or insecure do you tend to be in relationships?

FaaizAli’s Profile PhotoFaaiz Ali.
Yahan ghali'ban relationship se murad ap ka romaan'wi rishta he.
The amount of second hand experience I have from people around me. Shayad shuru'aat main thori si insecure rahun, lekin insecurities ko chupaon gi nahi, communicate kr k deal kar lun gi to make it as secure as possible..
And according to the urdu-dan rooh I have, I guess I'll be very secure.
Ab haqeeqat main ho ga kya, is baat ka ilm mujhe nahi he.
Wese bhi, insan kitne bhi andaze laga le, haqeeqat'an jab waqt parhta he tou bohot si cheezain hamari tawaqu'aat k bar'aks ho rahi hoti hain.
Lehaza zada sochte hi nahi hain is bare main.

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What do you think of society's idea of what a manshould be?

FaaizAli’s Profile PhotoFaaiz Ali.
Let's just not talk about society's idea of what a man should be. It gets very toxic. A man can literally be whatever he wants to be and same goes for the other gender as well tbh. We're a culturally dominating society jo mazhab ko apne matkab ki hadh tak istimal karte hen. lehaza hamari society ki jo definition he of what a 'good man' should be is not even sensible.. Zindagi already bohot mukhtasir hoti he, kuch nahi pata kab saan'sain sath chor jaen, lehaza har wo jaaiz kaam karen jis ki khoahish ap ka dil karta he... Logon ka kya he, un ka tou kaam he kehna. Jab koi hame, hamare tarz-e-zindagi k hawale se kuch kehta he tou wo hame is liye nahi keh raha hota kyun k hamare andar waqai koi khami mojood hoti he, balke wo hame is liye keh raha hota he kyun k wo hame wo sab kuch kehna chahta he, aur us k liye hamari zaat se wabasta kisi bhi cheez ko sahara bana lia jata he. Yakeen karen ap duniya main sab se behtareen shaks bhi hon na, ap ko tab bhi kuch na kuch bola hi jae ga. Lehaza jahan apna zehni sukoon dekhen, us hi taraf chal parhen.

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