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I dated a guy who would say i was a slut and make up stories saying I was getting with other guys. if another guy even tweeted at me, I would get yelled at. he would make me feel like horrible if I ever hung out with any friends other than him. was I wrong to break up with him, he said he loved me

I totally believe every girl has been with a guy like that at some point in her life, it's controlling, manipulating, and it is abuse whether the guy believes it or not. He is abusing you with words, and abusing you with controlling you. I've been with guys who were so evil and controlling that if any guy tweeted at me, messaged me, liked my picture or favorited any of my tweets it would be my fault and he would punish me in a way. It's sickening, and I felt stupid because I was so in love with him I didn't see the bigger picture. I look back in disgust with myself for not leaving quicker. This guy is obsessive and seems very jealous, you may be very in love with him and he may treat you good also but that isn't healthy. It really isn't, take it from me. You deserve to be with a guy who trusts you 100% and would never, NEVER even think or consider about calling you a slut or any names of that matter. Be smart, do it for your happiness and your right to have a voice and a say. Who knows what else he could do, he might snap one day. It's hard but think with your heart, people who love you wouldn't want to see you with a guy like that. If you have anything else to ask or say come right to me, because I know what you're going through.

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Just wanted to say thank you, I was getting distracted by my infatuation & I'm going to wait until he says I love you to lose my virginity

You're very welcome, happy to help anytime love! Xoxo

How do you get your hair to stay with a curling iron? Mine stays curly after I use a flat iron and no product, but falls out with a curling iron and hair spray. This is with brand new salon curlers as well.

That is very strange! Maybe try using a before spray on the hair, like hot sets iron glide by redken because its very concentrated and almost sticky in a way but it makes the curls hold incredibly well. If that doesn't work then message me again and I'll try to think of something else !!

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whats the best way to get the knots out of your hair from teasing? my hair literally turns into a birds nest when i tease it and it takes forever and i go through alot of pain to get it out

Hm, if I were you I would buy All Soft hair mask by redken! Before you wash it brush it out as best as you can, then shampoo and towel dry your hair then put this and leave it on for fifteen minutes. After you rinse it out comb through your hair with a wide tooth comb! It should help a lot. But if you do back comb it's just basically putting knots in your hair and you can't help it sometimes, but a good heavy conditioner should make a difference :)

Do you not get any hate or do you but you just don't post it?

Meh, If I get hate I'll usually post it. If I don't its probably because you can't make out what the person is saying or they just sound so ridiculous that I don't even bother. I don't get as much hate as I thought I would, but when I do I don't get affected by it. It's like if people know you're happy and love yourself they hate that, people hate happy people. So I don't take any offense, if anything I just feel bad for that person because they're so unhappy with themselves or their lives that they have to go on a website that is anon and rip on everyone out of jealousy or hate. And lets be honest, people don't have any reason to hate on us who get bullied on ask.fm, it's only out of jealous and hate. I guess I just accepted myself and love myself that people can't use my flaws agains me.

Where do you get your extensions and what's your secrets to blending them? I'm a hair stylist, I haven't seen someone blend extensions so well.

Thank you!! And I get them at hair dressers market, hands down the best place to get them. I also usually but two packs of hair extensions at once because one set isn't enough! It makes it look fuller and more thick and that helps blend them!!

I have lots of questions , first how the hell do you tease and back comb ? And second you say that washing your hair everyday isnt good , so when you go in the shower what do you do with your hair ? Im a bit confused haha

When I shower I put my hair up and put a shower cap around it, it's easy hahah and back combing and teasing are very easy too, look up tutorials on YouTube because explaining it is very difficult!

what does it take to get a date with you?

First impressions are everything to me, I like a simple "hey what's up" or "hey you", a lot of guys message me for the first time with a huge paragraph telling me how beautiful I am and how they'd love to get to know me but I think that's coming on too strong, I like simple things. If you're sarcastic I'll love you, I like when a guy can keep a conversation going and if we click id totally go on a date with him!

Would you rather be choked or have your hair pulled during sexual activities

Fuck that, I hate that shit. Like I want to have sex with the person, not all of that nonsense.
Liked by: Holli Roberts

Come on say your crush :) I wanna see how perfect of a guy it takes to get you!!

Bahaha I don't expect anything to happen with this "crush" of mine, he's just fun to look at. But I can't drop names, I think that would scare him

OUUU WHO'S YOUR CRUSH GIRL <3

Muahah crushes are just little "omg he's so cute" things ya know? But if I told you there wouldn't be any fun in it! Hehe<3

My boyfriend always brings up my past how can I get him to stop, it's super annoying and it's basically ruining our relationship, he always randomly gets rude with me at night and I don't know what to do, I feel annoying. What would you do

I've been in that situation before, if he can't accept that the past is the past then it's very hard to be in a relationship with him. I kicked one of my exes to the curb because of it. Almost as if he isn't mature enough to be in a relationship. He probably only gets mad at you at night because he thinks you're texting other guys, because I've also been in that situation before. If I were you, bring it up to him and ask why he always brings up your past, if he gets defensive and rude than that should be a red flag! If its ruining the relationship and he won't stop then it's probably healthier for the both of you if you weren't in one. Sure you love each other, but is the love enough to keep this from happening or bugging you? Ask yourself if you're truly happy, be honest with yourself. To me he sounds manipulating and controlling in a way, if he uses your past against you that is a type of abuse and he should understand that. Put your happiness before others!

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Do you think you should give advice about how to have healthy hair? Your hair just looks dead

I smell a hater! My hair isn't dead, I do treatments on my hair twice a week, I've gone to school and i've learned about hair and how to keep it healthy, my hair grows perfectly fine and I get it trimmed every four weeks, I also use amazing hair products that keep my hair healthy and growing. I know what I'm talking about. I'm sure you haven't ever touched my hair or even know much about hair to begin with so on that note have a good night and putting other people down over a website isn't going to make you feel any better about yourself. Xoxoxo

What's your least favorite and your favorite part of your body ?

Hm, I love my back dimples, my back, legs, and butt (my butt isn't big or anything but its toned and cute hehe) and my least favorite would probably be my feet because I have dancers feet so I make sure my toes are always painted with glitter to make me love them hahah.

(Continued) but I've never had a relationship like this before, I feel as though he's my everything. But we still have said I love you... I'm not sure if I should go against my younger self & go with my gut, or wait since I've waited this long

I think you would feel a bit of guilt for the rest of your life knowing he didn't say "I love you" before having sex with him. So honestly just wait until he says it, make sure he means it. You may think having sex with him might make him say it but it won't. So make sure he says it before doing anything, that way you'll feel 110% better about it. Stay true to yourself and what you believe in, it isn't bad to want him to tell you that he loves you before having sex it is okay!! So just hold off, you'll feel a lot better after

Hi April I was just hoping for some advice okay so I have liked a guy for a really long time but he doesn't like me back we used to be friends but not anymore he also really likes this girl and I want him to be happy so I don't know if I should try to get him to notice me or just get over him

The way I see it is, if he doesn't like you now, he isn't ever going to. And nothing you do will make him like you. You can't force anyone to like you, it just kind of has to click and there needs to be a connection between you two. If he likes another girl then give him some space and let him be happy with her, yes you may really like this guy but it clearly isn't working out. Even if you get a boob job, new hair, a hot body or money he still isn't going to want you, so be smart, let him go. There are SO many guys out there, guys that are willing to make you there's and want to show you off. Find him!! And let go of this guy no matter how hard it may be

how do you do that pony tail with the poof? any good youtube hair tutorials you recommend?

Um I haven't watched any I kind of taught myself but if you look up some I'm sure you'd find something!! But you basically tease and back comb the top of your hair and brush it back and put it into a high pony!

I think you got a question like this the other day! but the guy I have a thing with says he likes girls who are somewhat "experienced" when it comes to sex, he doesn't know I'm a virgin! do you think he will be annoyed when we do and he realizes I'm not experienced at all?? hahaha

I don't know if he'd be annoyed, but he'd definitely know for sure! I'd just be honest and upfront with him and tell him that you are a virgin and he'll either say "fuck that" and leaves, or he'll be understanding. You never know, and it's better to be honest because everyone knows if they have sex with a virgin because its very obvious! Just be honest, what's the worst that can happen ya know? If he does leave then find another guy who will be honored to take your virginity
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do you wash your hair everyday? if no what're some good hairstyles for second day hair?

NOOO it's not good to wash hair every day, I wash it at least every 3-4 days but I wash my body everyday. Try some dry shampoo if your hair gets oily easily, lucky mine doesn't! Pony tails with a big poof on top are always sexy to wear and good if its your second day after washing it. Or even a waterfall braid, or just tease it and curl it. Dry shampoo makes life better though!

Will you chat while giving a haircut? I need one and figured I misewell get some I your amazing advice in the process :)

Of course! I always give advice to my clients even if I don't know them

I don't even know you, but you seem like an amazing person with a spectacular personality. You seem very non judgmental, compassionate and you're very good at advice, that's rad. Keep doing what you're doing, it's awesome :)

Thank you so much!! Means a lot :) xoxo

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