Today I found out my best friend warned one of my closet friends at the beginning of the school year, to look out for me, because I'm "toxic". It hurts, because she didn't say that to hurt me, she said it because she believed it. Am I really that bad ? Am I that much of a burden to her ? Fuck you.
I'm not sure whether that "F you," was directed at me or your best friend, but that's beside the point.
Look, your friend should've worded what she'd said differently. There was no reason to be that blunt about it.
However, you shouldn't just burn your bridges with them. Self-reflection is important, too. You need to think about why she would say what she said. Civilly talk to her about it. After all, communication is key. After you've located the problem, try to fix it.
You're not a burden to anyone, but you should look back on your words and actions.
Damn what did I do?
well maybe in some aspects you are?? idk you or her or any of the situation, but I’m coming from a place of friendly advice that you may not know your own behavior. My boyfriend and I were toxic, and when I would tell my friends shit about it they wouldn’t say anything because “she’s your best friend and your best friends do crazy shit together”. NO. If they truly love you, they’ll call you out on your shit so you can be the best version of yourself. I do think it was wrong of her to not tell you and warn someone else, BUT like I said, there’s all that of “if you bffs imma be in that jail cell with you” rhetoric. So.
Dang that must sting just because she believes it doesn’t mean it’s true u are your own person and that she’s not a real friend if she believes it so I totally understand why your pissed off
Idk you
I'm so sorry this happend to you. I don't know you personally so I can't say much. But I am sorry that your friend did and said this.
