Ask @AshOfTrebond:

What should a real man be able to do?

Idk. What should a real woman be able to do? Or a dog? Or a bear? A "real" man should be able to do whatever the hell makes him happy as long as it doesn't endanger other people or animals. Just cuz I don't agree with a man who chooses to sit at home all day and do nothing, doesn't mean I need to judge his masculinity because he isn't "fit" enough or "competitive" enough or "strong" enough. A real man can be fat. Skinny. A real man can be gay. Bisexual. Christian, atheist, or any other religions or lack there of. A real man can be anyone who treats his mother like a queen or someone who never had his mother in his life. Stop judging men by how "real" they may be. Ask yourself if YOU are real. πŸ‘

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How old were you the first time you fell in love?

I can recall falling in love back in elementary school with this girl named Kiera. I think I was about 8 years old. We were in foster care together and shared the same room. Dark as ebony, super sweet, and she had a little sister. I told her that I liked her, and she liked me back. It was just puppy love. Holding hands, keeping secrets. But that's when I discovered I was bisexual. And then when I left, I never saw her again. It kinda sucked. πŸ’”

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What about mine? πŸ˜‚

I'm going to respect you a little, unlike everyone else, and say that isn't my business to answer. To all of those "friends" of yours who comment on your ass and "play around" about your weight, they aren't real friends. That's degrading, and as a fellow woman, I felt offended for you when I read all of those remarks those people made. If you like showing off your hips and butt, that is your body to do what you please with and I won't judge. Just take in mind, half of your buddies see you more as a piece of meat than a woman, and they make it pretty obvious. Sorry, girly... 😞😢

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Should I go to the pool party? A bunch of guys just called and invited me to their pool party tonight. I never got invited from seniors before

I don't know if that's a good idea... Unless you know these guys personally as real friends. And you should ask your mom/dad.. If they say no, its because it poses as a red flag to them and they are concerned for your safety. I would just listen to them for once in your rebellion years.. πŸ˜“

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