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I dont want to be here, i want to die, nobody understands, i cut all the time, im anorexic but im fat, i hate my life, i can't take it anymore, nobody listens, please help me:'(!

I'll always be here to listen, to help you and to care okay?Don't give up, because, well. What does that solve? Nothing. Cutting doesn't solve anything either. I know this : http://ask.fm/AskAdviceX/answer/19604161374 is just a bunch of links, but read them all carefully. I'm sorry I'm really tired but don't give up on me!
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The second one is about the bullies, and the first about suicide and cutting.
You're not fat, okay? You're b e a u t i f u l! I understand what you say to me. I don't know why I understand, or how because I haven't been through half the stuff I get asked about. But I always manage to find some sort of advice. Maybe it's a gift, I don't know, but you are beautiful, I understand you and I'm always listening. Don't give up! Please, I beg you.
I know this isn't the best thing to tell you. I'm not being harsh or rude but:
Imagine the little 2-6 year olds in Africa etc, living in poverty. Imagine those new born babies catching deadly diseases in the first 12 hours of their life. Imagine those mothers, crying because they know their baby doesn't stand a chance. The amount of people dying from poverty, and other things like cancer etc.
Think of how lucky you are compared to them. You have a house/home? They have a blanket. You have money to get food, drink etc? They have none, at all. You have a family? Chances are that most of their family is dead. But not from accidents, from the water being too dirty, the air too horrid, the conditions so fierce.
I understand EVERYTHING you're going through, but think about them next time you want to cut.
Look at yourself in the mirror EVERY morning and smile. Say "I'm beautiful" and smile again.
I do understand, and the only reason I brought those horrible examples up is because you are lucky compared to them. It wasn't until I realised that, that I (myself) stopped cutting. Wow, this is longer than I thought:L
But I'm deadly serious here, tell me your problems and I'll do the best I can to help. I'll give the best advice I can. Try the butterfly challenge. Try writing 'stay strong' on the place you want to cut. Tell your parents about your suicidal thoughts and let them help you. You don't have to be afraid anymore. You are loved. People understand and please start eating again. And digesting. And keeping it there until you shit it out. Because I hate seeing people an unhealthy weight. Being too skinny is bad, you'll have problems with your body and people will notice. You'll look like a few bones, and that looks bad.
There's no point having skin if you're constantly getting rid of it. Please, don't be anorexic anymore. I beg of you.
Yes, I've sat here for 20 minutes and wrote this for you, because I care about you.
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I'm really upset, my gf isnt replying to anything I send her, and if she does she just acts all blunt, i went on cam with her friend who is with her and she just ignored me. when people ask her stuff on ask she replys with a video response, and she seems all happy, what do i do??

Ask her why she's pissed off. Ask her what's wrong. She's probably unhappy with something you've done by the sounds of it. That probably isn't what you wanted to hear, but it sounds like it.
Ask her, don't worry, hopefully she doesn't bite:L
Hopee it goes well though:)xx-Sash
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yeah thats what my other close friend says she looks for personality more than looks to be honest when i m in school seein her smile and being happy makes my day honestly even getting a hug from her every occasion makes my entire week i ve walked home with her before and i get the butterflies Rav

Aw that's so sweet. Wish the best on both of you:') xx-Sash
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my step mum expects me to look after her children like im their mother and clean them and clear up everything up and she said yesterday that if i wasnt to going to help then i should go home,meaning my mums house, she treats me like shit and my dad doesn't really realise and ive told no one

Tell your dad? That's so horrible, you have to tell someone or else it will never get any better. I really hope everything works out and tell me if it does. I'm sorry I'm not much help tonight.
Tell someone but don't do anything drastic okay?
Everything will work out eventually:)xx -Sasha

wow theres a first you d really date me and yeah i ve got well planned a bit out when i become close friends with her as a friend im gonna ask her to prom then make a move there was that you who asked the question on which on was me on my ask fm curious question thanks anyways for the advice Ravi

Ahaa, no it wasn't?
But yeah, sounds like a plan. I hope everything goes well. Good luck!:')

thanks but its always me falling for the girl for once i d like to be in control of what happens i want a girl that would fall for me for who i am so far i ve found nobody yet thanks for the advice i just dont know how to make myself stand out and make myself look different to other boys ? xx :)

Look how you LIKE to look. Don't change your style for others, wear what you wanna wear. Do what you wanna do. Be how you wanna be. It's all up to you. And if some girl doesn't see how amazing you are, she's not worth it and she's the one missing out.
You'll find a nice girl eventually, one who likes you as much as you like her and who cares for you and not your looks.
I'm glad I could help. xx-Sasha

My friends call me emo because of the music I listen to. They have no idea but I cut because they make fun of me for that. I know it sounds stupid to cut because someone called you an emo, but it puts me down so much. I've been doing the butterfly program but I still feel the need to cut please help

This was my exact situation 3 years ago.
You will feel the need to cut, but shrug it off. Make yourself busy, turn the music up loud, just distract yourself. I know how it feels to be called an emo for the music you like. Tell them it doesn't make you an emo. Technically, if you cut you're classed as an emo. So never say "I'm not an emo" in any form. Say "That doesn't make me an emo!" instead?
It doesn't sound stupid to me, not at all<3 My good friend cuts because of that too:/
Count the days you haven't cut for, it will make you feel more proud. Better yet, write them down, in a diary or something.
You'll feel the need to cut for a while, but ignore it. Please, for your family, friends, loved ones. For me?
I love you:") Don't let those silly, judgemental people bring you down, because you are beautiful.
I really hope I could help!xx -Sasha
P.s Every time you cut, an ugly scar comes up, ruining your beauty. Do you want that?

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Callum and I are no longer friends and he's decided to give up this page. It's just me (Sasha) now. I'll answer anything and if you need an answer from a boy, I'll ask one of my friends, okay?
I hope you understand<3 xo
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what happens when you first have sex?

I don't get what you mean? Like, how do you do it? Because there are sex guides and stuff on the internet, I don't really know how to explain it.
I'm sorry, that wasn't much help:/ xx-C

how often to boys wank? How long for? What over? Sorry just interested

Depends what kind of guy. I don't, personally.
But some do it every day, for hours, over sexy strippers or porn. And it's only natural for you to be interested:) -C

if me and this dude were best friends for about 2 and a half years and he has just stoped speaking to me and he has gone an asshole to me do you have any advice on what i should do ?

Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Ask him why he all of a sudden became an asshole.
Tell me how it goes yeah?xx Hope I could help you x -S
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I overdosed last night and I don't know what to do. Mom knows and wants to take me to councelling. If she does, I'm not going to say a single word. I'm just going to sit there with my arms folded. Advice?

Don't do suicide. You're probably just going through a rough patch. Things will get better in time. You have to be patient.
If she takes you to councelling, talk to them. Maybe they can help.
I hope I could help.. xxx -S

How do you apply eyeliner

You have the eyeliner pencil, and pull your eye down so you can see the water line. You run the pencil across the lid, and bottom water line.
If that didn't help... Try a youtube tutorial. All your gotta do, is search that question in youtube and it will come up with a bunch of tutorials.
Hope it did help though:) -S
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I hate myself, I'm ugly, hate my personality and my figure is disgusting. I'm the reason my parents broke up, I'm the reason my family are so poor and I'm just one big huge disappointment. At school I'm the third wheel, all I want to do is scream and cry but I haven't got the energy I want to die

Don't give up. Please don't. Because I care.
You're beautiful. I'm sure you're a lovely person, and I bet your figure is fine! Don't blame yourself for your parents' break up. I did that and it just made me feel so low. I looked back and I realised that it wasn't my fault. You're not a disappointment, screaming and crying is fine because it lets everything out. Don't result in self harming or suicide, it's not the way out.
You should stop seeing yourself this way. Sometimes I have doubts about myself, but then I realise that I'm beautiful in my own way and that I should respect myself more. If you don't respect yourself, how do you expect others to respect you? I'm sorry if that sounded harsh to you, it wasn't intentional.
Don't give up. Stay strong, keep your head held high! Chin up beautiful! -S x

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