Look how you LIKE to look. Don't change your style for others, wear what you wanna wear. Do what you wanna do. Be how you wanna be. It's all up to you. And if some girl doesn't see how amazing you are, she's not worth it and she's the one missing out.
You'll find a nice girl eventually, one who likes you as much as you like her and who cares for you and not your looks.
I'm glad I could help. xx-Sasha
This was my exact situation 3 years ago.
You will feel the need to cut, but shrug it off. Make yourself busy, turn the music up loud, just distract yourself. I know how it feels to be called an emo for the music you like. Tell them it doesn't make you an emo. Technically, if you cut you're classed as an emo. So never say "I'm not an emo" in any form. Say "That doesn't make me an emo!" instead?
It doesn't sound stupid to me, not at all<3 My good friend cuts because of that too:/
Count the days you haven't cut for, it will make you feel more proud. Better yet, write them down, in a diary or something.
You'll feel the need to cut for a while, but ignore it. Please, for your family, friends, loved ones. For me?
I love you:") Don't let those silly, judgemental people bring you down, because you are beautiful.
I really hope I could help!xx -Sasha
P.s Every time you cut, an ugly scar comes up, ruining your beauty. Do you want that?
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I know the feeling. That person will come eventually. You will find someone who loves you for you, and not your looks. Don't worry about other people, you just take your time and do what YOU FEEL is right.
I hope I could help!xx -Sasha
Some girls are shallow and only go for looks. It's fine that you haven't had your first kiss or anything yet.
I think it's sweet to be honest. You clearly haven't pretended to be someone you're not just for a girl, or a kiss. I admire that. You should talk to them, the girls you like, if your personality is really nice, become friends with them, then confess your feelings.
I really, really hope that helped!xx -Sasha
Please stop.
I'll say this until the whole world knows! I love you, your family love you, your friends love you. People love you, you are loved.
Every day, wake up and thank your lucky stars that
-You're alive
-You're not deathly ill
-You're not one of those poor children in poverty
-You're beautiful
-You're loved
I understand how addictive cutting is, but you have to stop.
Every morning wake up and look in the mirror. Tell yourself 'I'm beautiful'.
Please stop, okay? Try the butterfly challenge, maybe write 'stay strong' where you want to cut. Please? For me? For your family, friends, future/current lover?
You will get through this<3 xx-Sasha
Thanks<3
I love you too:) xxo
Please please please stop!
Being gay is something to be proud of! I wish I was lesbian, no joke. But I'm not, so that sucks-.-
Anyway, stop it please. If this is because of bullies, fuck them. No-one can make you feel inferior but yourself! Don't let the pathetic, jealous haters bring you down.
Cutting, I used to do it. It's a horrible habit and you should really stop. Try the butterfly challenge? Or maybe write 'stay strong' on your wrists or something. Anything will do. Pinging an elastic band around your wrist everytime you want to cut, it's better than losing blood.
Please don't try suicide again, it's so horrible. Imagine the state your family and friends would be in if you died. They would be a wreck. Everything would be a mess.
You shouldn't hate yourself. I've grown to like myself. I no longer think I'm fat, nor ugly. Because every morning when I wake up, I thank my lucky stars that I'm not one of those kids in Africa, and hope that one day I can help them. I look in the mirror and tell myself I'm beautiful.
Try it.
Confidence is a very good trait, if you don't treat yourself right, who will?
If you don't respect yourself, how do you expect others to?
I know it's hard to stop cutting, I know. It takes a while, but it's worth it.
Does your mum/dad know about your attempt or your cutting? If they don't, imagine how devistated they would be if they found out. If you have a sibling, imagine their reaction.
Please stop? Because you are loved.
I love you, your family love you, your friends love you. And one day, the girl of your dreams will love you. Stay strong and keep your head help high! You're b.e.a.u.t.i.f.u.l!
xx-Sasha
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Tell her that if she tells him you'll never speak to her again. Something like that. If nothing else works, I would tell him everything yourself, before he hears it from her.
I would tell him about your feelings, then the fake account.
I'm sorry if that wasn't much help:/xx -Sasha
Sure?:)
I'm not really sure to be honest, I haven't done it yet:/ xx-Sasha
Well it's not really painful, more pleasurable to be honest. It feels good, but it might feel weird after.
If you've ever worn a tampon, it's like putting those in, over and over.
Sorry, that wasn't much help:/ Good luck though, and sorry I couldn't answer this earlier. xx-Sasha
There's nothing I can really do but give my opinion/advice and hope for the best and hope the person is helped.
I'll sure as hell try though<3
I think you should just ask her. Dude, you can do it:)
Seriously though, maybe write it inside a poem or something. I'm sure she'll like you back.
I hope I could help xx-Sasha
I'm so sorry I haven't read this earlier, I hope you haven't done committed:/
I noticed you said 'used to'. Would they now? They love you, okay? I'm sure you're overreacting? I love you, that's for sure. You're not waste, sum, a failure! You're a special, individual human being and you deserve to live on this Earth just as any other living thing. Please please please don't kill yourself.
It won't solve anything. That's a promise.
The person stopped you because they love you and don't want to let you go, not because they want to see you suffer. Failing school is bad, I admit, but you can still get jobs. You can keep trying to get into College. My auntie wasn't allowed in either, but she rang them up every single day until she got in.
Please, I beg of you, don't kill yourself. You should try, maybe, seeing things from a different angle.
That person saved you because they love you.
Your family may have hit you so you embrace pain for the future and won't get hurt so easily. Because they love you.
You have people you can talk to, friends, I'm sure? At least one?
I love you.
Please, if you ever need to talk, just send me a question and I will be your friends, okay? Please, don't do it. Please. </3
xx-Sasha
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That's not weird. Don't let anyone tell you it is. Because it's good that you're not sex craved. I think, personally, it's a good thing:) xx-Sasha
I don't really know to be honest, it's probably to do with the chemicals being released or their hormones? It could just be that men can cope better. xx-Sasha
I don't think I do to be honest? I'm really sorry, search it in Google?
Google has the answer to everything ;L
Sorry again:/xx -Sasha
I don't think you do. It's normal for a growing 'teenager' to go through that stuff.
I still do shit like that and I'm 15. It's because your body is developing and your hormones are constantly changing. I used to cry for no reason at all, I would just burst into tears. It's perfectly normal in my opinion.
I don't think you should jump to conclusions unless it's still like that in about 10 years to be honest.
I hope I could help?xx -Sasha
Callum and I are no longer friends and he's decided to give up this page. It's just me (Sasha) now. I'll answer anything and if you need an answer from a boy, I'll ask one of my friends, okay?
I hope you understand<3 xo
Sure?
I don't know, I think maybe you should. If you don't have feelings for him, it's not really a relationship.
If he's really your friend he won't say it because of that, he'll be concered that you're not happy.
xxx
How long have you been dating?
If you don't love him, there's nothing really you can do about it. You can't force yourself to love him, and it sounds like he's head over heels for you. <3
If it's only the beginning of the relationship, give it a bit more time. But if it's, like, a year into it I would say that you've falled out of love with him?
I hope I could help, and I hope it works out for the best. xx -S
No.
You're beautiful and people love you. You're better than them, show them that you won't give in.
Please don't give up, I love you!<3 xx-S
I don't get what you mean? Like, how do you do it? Because there are sex guides and stuff on the internet, I don't really know how to explain it.
I'm sorry, that wasn't much help:/ xx-C
Confront him. Tell him how it's making you feel, that you don't want to lose him, but most importantly: Ask him why he's doing it. Don't be afraid. Because if you don't, things MAY get worse, and you MAY end up losing him. Which is what you don't want.
Also, please stop self-harming. It's not good for you</3
Did you tell him why you self harm? Because he might think it's because he's a bad boyfriend or something and is taking it out on you?
I don't really know,because I don't know him personally, but confront him. Nothing's going to get better until you sort things out.
Stay strong! I love you! Head held high xx-S
