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Benjamin Nicholas

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is everyone in Miami lo IQ? Just drive here and you will get that impression

You go to Miami for many things, but intellect is not one of them.
It's a culture that values objects and the assumption of wealth over almost everything.
Not one of my favorite cities.

You said you came out later in life? How did your family react? Do they know what you do for work now?

Family was fine. I was raised by intellectuals and artists.
Yes, they all know. They've known since the beginning.

Why are r@cist people some of the nicest country folk? Like they will help you out anytime you need it

There is nothing 'nice' about a racist.
Quit humanizing these assholes.

If you're someone who has colored their hair blonde or a color that requires bleaching, how do you maintain the color? My hair grows relatively fast and is dark. In order to keep the blonde, I would have to bleach it constantly, which would severely damage it.Getting constant treatments is expensive

Learn to do it yourself. It's not difficult.
Understand the differences between developer strength and invest in good powdered bleach.
Touch up your roots bi-weekly and research what high-lift toner will work best to keep your hair free of orange tones. Use the Olaplex system (or the Sally's cheaper equivalent).
I'm a natural ginger who goes platinum frequently. My hair remains healthy. It takes work, but fuck if I'm going to pay a salon a ton of money to do it for me.

I find it so refreshing how unapologetic you are about yourself! You’re unapologetically sexy, intelligent, and gay? Did it take you time to get this way or were you always? Specifically the gay part, did you always know you were gay and proud of it or did it take time?

I'm honest, that's for sure.
I spent a considerable amount of time trying to be too many things to too many people. I was good at it, but it was fucking tiring and difficult to keep up. I knew that had to change if I wanted to keep working in this business.
Now, what you see is what you get.
I came out a little later in life, having spent a good deal of time dating/fucking girls. Not a gold-star gay here. Not even close.
Proud? I guess. It's not something I really wear on my sleeve, so it's neither here nor there when it comes to feeling 'proud' about being gay. It's a small part of my life, not my entire personality and reason for being.

Do you limit how many clients you see and are you taking on new ones?

Yes. I have a limit and a client group I tend to keep at specific numbers.
New clients for me are dependent on if I think we'll click.
I'm at a point in all of this of always wanting to enjoy my time and never having to feel like I'm working.
If this isn't fun, I'm not into it.

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