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What gives you immense pleasure?

Simple, kind gestures to perfect strangers that can completely change their outlook on life
It costs nothing to be nice to people: I have gotten so much pleasure from smiling, minding my manners and being generous with those around me.

Excited for anything?

Heading to Mexico this week and then London next week.
Just finalized another visit to Dubai in November and am almost wrapped up on a trip to Mumbai and New Delhi in October.

Do you think getting older (40, 50, 60) is depressing for people or a happy occasion?😶

If you take care of yourself, getting older isn't a huge issue.
In my mid-late 30s, I've never been in better shape, looked/felt healthier, etc. That's from solid lifestyle choices, diet, fitness, sleep and aesthetic care. It takes discipline, but it's not exactly tough when you consider the alternative.
I meet a ton of young gay men, 5-10 years younger than me, who look a lot worse for the wear. If you think a decade of spending nights in smoky bars, pounding down shots and other questionable substances doesn't take it's toll, you're wrong. The same can be said for guys who worship the sun and think that a deep golden glow is 'healthy' and 'sexy.'
Hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it leads to ruining your natural collagen production, skin cancer and premature aging.
Getting older isn't always fun, but you can do it with some grace if you plan a little.

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To the person who asked me about PrEP and things I described on 15MM, I answered the question, but either based on the language in the original question or what I answered with, ASKfm moderated it. They're doing that a lot more lately. My apologies.

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I am actively looking for a better Q&A platform.
This particular service has really become quite useless for honest, no-holds-barred answers.

Tell us about your first time with a guy.

Awkward, but natural feeling. I was a top.
My first time bottoming was actually pretty fun. I dealt with the initial pain and once I got comfortable, it was great.

When you started out as an escort, what's the best piece of advice you got?

'If they're throwing rocks at you Ben, you're doing something right. That's called envy.'
In essence, it was a roundabout way of saying that a thick skin is a great asset in this industry.

How important is money to you?

Money facilitates many things, but overall happiness is not one of them.
I could be broke and happy. I could be rich and happy. The cash isn't what I depend on to get me through my day.

Would you rather get noticed by the hottest person at party or have perfect abs?

I'd rather be the hottest guy at the party with perfect abs

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