so I\i'm new to followin your stuff, can i share somethin? i hope it will help u. i had a stepdad too, and i thought he was way tuff on me, i didn't get it until i was 24 and a mom how crazy hard it is to be a parent, my hubs is not my girls dad, but he is the one who is there every single day
he was a different kind of tough on me. I promise.