I treat everyone with much respect. I feel like I have spent most my life making others happy and forgot about myself. Should I focus on myself and stop giving my energy to others since ita not getting me anywhere in life but being taken advantage of my kindness??
I don’t think any of us give as much as we think or lack as much from others as we believe. Our perspectives on things like that are untrustworthy.
If you leave a market where three children were throwing fits, you may leave thinking kids today are worse than when you were a kid. The other twenty kids that were quiet and well behaved will not be in your memories, and the possibility that any or all of the loud kids could be suffering from something that has no physical identifiers to let you know they have a mental or emotional disorder.
We are horrible judges of ourselves and human intuition, no matter how strongly we believe it to be great, is awful. Study after study after study has shown that our intuition is awful and that our minds often convince us otherwise by telling us we always knew after we have hindsight to cloud our memories.
If you leave a market where three children were throwing fits, you may leave thinking kids today are worse than when you were a kid. The other twenty kids that were quiet and well behaved will not be in your memories, and the possibility that any or all of the loud kids could be suffering from something that has no physical identifiers to let you know they have a mental or emotional disorder.
We are horrible judges of ourselves and human intuition, no matter how strongly we believe it to be great, is awful. Study after study after study has shown that our intuition is awful and that our minds often convince us otherwise by telling us we always knew after we have hindsight to cloud our memories.
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