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Internalized stigma, as I understand it. One example could be a person with a psychotic mental illness referring to themselves as "psychotic" and seeing the illness as their whole identity.

I think it’s often justified to own the things about us that contribute to or affect who we are, albeit in a non-wholly-consuming way.
For my part, as an example, it took me a long time to accept - physiologically or psychologically, with terrible consequences - that I was so chronically ill I could no longer do any of the myriad things that had previously contributed to defining who I was.
It took an (aborted) attempt at CBT and then a lot of counselling, then time, for me to finally accept my disability (which I did see as a stigma then) and that it was part of who I am now.
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My blood glucose rocketed unexpectedly last night so I’ve been bringing it down to normal with timed extra injections.
Other than that I’m just the usual mix of exhausted and slightly non-specifically anxious 🙂
I’m just resting up in bed at the moment and will maybe head downstairs later if I get the energy.

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Have you ever been in a fake friendship? I have. As in I pretended to be friends with someone even though I didn't genuinely like them, and I'm pretty sure they felt the same way about me. We simply played nice for the sake of other people who were common friends so we kinda felt obligated to.

Well I’m an adult so I’ve had plenty of work colleagues who I wouldn’t have considered ‘friends’ - and occasionally some who I didn’t particularly even like - but got on fairly well with on the surface in order to work effectively with them.
That’s just normal, I think.

If you were thrown into a professional kitchen and were expected to cook, do you think you'd be able to keep up? 🔪🔥(Inspired by this year's student musical I was part of)

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No, I’m unable to cook normally anyway due to my disabilities.
The most I can safely manage is a Pot Pasta (Pot Noodle) using a perching stool, but I’d have to be extra careful walking with it to the stairlift.

Is it always better to be with someone who loves you more than you love them?

I don’t think trying to work out whether someone loves you more than you love them is generally a helpful process.
(Unless you conclude that they’re obviously disinterested in you, in which case dump them.)
Otherwise just get along and enjoy your time together 🙂

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