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Would you call yourself a “happy person”?

No, never. Maybe as a momentary fleeting expression or shared feeling.
I'd call myself dark, grounded, yet sagely and stoical.
Realistic, pragmatic yet open to optimism as well.
Being happy, reaching or attaining "happiness" is a common on-going effort. An attempt to hold on to this ideal of what things should be in order for us to be in control, to become/remain successful, secure, safe, satisfied, satiated in most or all aspects of one's life -to know what's up, to be free from harm, to have all that we need.
And the truth is, happiness is kind of a lie.
Happiness is temporary, it comes and goes.
Which is the same for unhappiness.
However, unless depressed, or manic, or managing with some kind of mental health condition, the gauge of feeling happy or unhappy varies.
And, I myself, nor anyone else, should "chase" happiness.
If we chase anything, we reckon ourselves to becoming attached and one-sided to all things good, dismissing and muting all mistakes, misconceptions, misfortunes.
Just let these temporary rapturous, euphoric, ecstatic senses and states of being come, then let them flee.
And let them return once again, and let them go, let them fade once chaos, mayhem, distress, disorientation arises.
We can't bring others up on their feet, in better spirits of well-being if anyone regarded as being "down" and anyone else on the contrary is "up", thinking, believing, "I am happy person".
As if it's all the time, unchanging.
It's not real. Pure fiction.
Not a single being on this planet has ever reached such a utopian inner place.
And, perhaps never to come.

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Hey :) what is your favourite pastime? :)

Gaming, when I can😌
Good gaming to be exact, I don't like wasting my time on poor quality or whack stuff 😓

How do you spend most of your time on the Internet?

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- Google Search especially for defining lots of words, or searching for results based on questions that can't be answered simply
- Google Images
- Youtube
- Articles relating to technology, business, economics
- Social Media sites

what do you expect from this life?

Not a damn thing.
Life for openess in the possibilities of anything to go right or wrong.

Is there such thing as ugly people? What is “ugly” to you?

Marcels_dirty_calculator’s Profile PhotoKay.
Oh, yes. YES, indeed.
There are quite a bunch of ugly peps festering about.
But, no one is born ugly.
There are two types of ugly.
Ugly that someone individually feels within themselves alone -which may or may not be true.
And then there's ugly that is formed by a consensus about others.
To me, ugliness is combination of behaviors, attitudes, use of language, and the overall intent to harm others and one's self physically and psychologically/emotionally.
Bigotry, verbal abuse, physical abuse, unnecessary violence, social/cultural/ethnic discrimination, snobbery, excessive arrogance, sexual harassment, sexual assault or anything of the like, when continued on a ongoing basis, even after being confronted by others of the harm and still no acknowledgment and change is made, to me that is an ugly being until they come to civil, humane senses.
There's no such thing as someone being " ulgy" based solely on their physical features and appearance. That's nonsense to me.
There is such a thing of whether or not someone is attractive to someone, more attractive or less from one person to another person.
Which is really a matter of tastes and preferences conditioned individual-by-individual, through social environments, cultural standards throughout generations, ideals and fixations throughout all media and entertainment.
It's a very tough slope to tread, but unfortunately, biologically, attractiveness is a chain of interpretations. Natural features and appearance that communicate higher chances and qualities of survival and sexual reproduction have always been alluring between being-to-being.
The problem now, especially in our digital age societies, is that as personality, charisma, social status, intelligence, and even some cases socioeconomic status are added in addition to physical appearance and features.
Physically expressed traits are still judged heavily in our reptilian brain areas over not having certain genetic inherences and predispositions.

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What scares you the most about our modern society?

Anthropocentric attitudes, businesses and organizations strangling environments, communities, crops, waters, atmosphere; threatening all life on this tiny floating rock. The 22nd century may be our very last before a global crisis erupts. Mars and other like planets are a sign of hope but still a huge folly if we repeat what we do here. 😓

I have such boring life.. No friends plus no boyfriend. I'm only 24 not even 25 yet.

That's normal these days, don't you worry😌
If you're truly unhappy with this life circumstance, perhaps some considerable actions are needed from you in order to reach where you want to be.
Just a thought

What's the difference between a "film" and a "movie"?

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Movies are understood as as easygoing, and sometimes primarily acclaimed for their special effects, flashy colors/visuals, and/or a cast of well-known celebrities as featured stars of the show in order to attract viewers.
Movies are a lot more prevalent in today's media, a lot more predictable in plot and structure, and serve to entertainment the average audience more than anything.
Films on the other hand is understood not as being overly concerned with high-scale production, traveling to multiple locations, attaining a super-star cast, pulling off amazing SFX and stunts, or any cliches in as seen popular action and drama movies.
Film, in a traditional sense, is crafted with serious intent in mind. Sometimes technical-based with editing, sound, color, scene organization, camera angles and movements in mind. Other times, very poetic or philosophical allowing for a primarily deep, dialogue and/or nonverbal driven performance that not only sounds and looks good, but by the script alone can touch readers immensely.
Creative-focused films can also be jarring provoking, or even disturbing in order to push even more against the fringes of what's accepted by standards built in the past.
Film hinges on its classic roots, to capture things of means rather than to subjugate means in order to fulfill the task of capturing for simple amusement -where "movies" come in.
On the surface, sure, "movies" and "films" are the same thing. There's no need to correct anyone if they believe that.
However, when we look at them critically, separately, in their own reputations, film tends to explore and shift our feelings, thoughts, attitudes, views on anything in the real world, conceptual, hypothetical, you name it.
Movies are nice, they fulfill their purpose to satisfy a wide audience. Well, temporarily until then next installment or kin-installment, or revamp and what have you.
Films are not all meant to satisfy, they can be "out there", and even esoteric.

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What’s one small thing you appreciated today?

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This life. In a city I'm so small. In the world I'm insignificant. In the universe, I don't even register. Objectively, a single lifeform, perhaps just a body that is animate, is meaningless. Unless there are beings who seed concept of care and emotional attention for a subject. Absurd, on a grand macro scale. Yet so beautiful at this micro level
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What is a primary fear that is holding you back?

Failure, really.
I've failed so many things, and neglect so much just so I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I fail. And to not risk losing what I put effort into starting up again. I hate it. Part of it is subconscious habit. But, I gotta shake it.

Do you think someone likes you and if you know for a fact they do ,, do you like them backkkk????

Listen, everyone likes me😅
Well, at least my body, looks, appearance, etc.
I know that much, which is sad but I don't mind. There are advantages.
It would mean a lot if people liked me for my peculiarities and aspects that are unconventional apart everything/everyone else.
As far as if I know anyone who "likes me, likes me"?
Yes.
There are few ladies I know that do.
I don't know about online or anything😅
I chat, play and flirt with ladies when I can, but don't lead to anything further. And, if and whenever I do, it'll be slow.
Women that like me on the surface, or women that "like me, like me" or have some crush, I'm not interested in "chasing".
Now if foxy ladies are eager to pounce on me, I wouldn't mind 😆
But, that's rare
As I've gotten more mature I've unfortunately become more selective and picky.

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