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Why do a lot of people blame other people for their own misery & f_cked up life? #stopplayingtheblamegame

I s'pose it's easier to point blame at others (scapegoat), than to do something about it... or even own up to their own actions and take responsibility for themselves? *shrugs*
I agree, though, we should end this sort of mindset. It's difficult though, when the vast majority all feel so miserable and helpless in the world... That sort of mindset is more common to come by and easy to feed off of... But, ultimately, it starts with the mind!
YOU have to decide how you want to look at things, and how you want to be... You have to CHOOSE to overcome that/those thoughts... and, become even GREATER!
*flexes biceps* :P lol

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what (or who) makes your days worthwhile? 🌟

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- My grandparents...
- My BF....
- My Younger brother...
- My H.S. bestie...
- My Work bestie...
- My favorite work boss...
- My text bestie (You know who you are :P)...
- Seeing loyal customers at work, that I haven't seen for awhile!
- Seeing the familiar faces of a local coffee shop, I visit!
- Random texts from people I haven't talked to in awhile :)
- Acts of kindness from strangers... Like, someone opening the door, people "paying it forward", and using their blinker (lol)... that's nice!
ect ect ect :P

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How long do you like to keep your nails? 💅

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
I keep them medium length! My nails tend to reach a certain point, where it kinda "yells" at me to cut them? lol. Is that like, growing pains? Idk? But yeah... Plus, me jerb is very rough handling... So, even if I "wanted" nice nails... they wouldn't last long!
I've attempted to get those long'ish, stick-on nails, just to see how I'd manage in the real world, and I felt totally crippled.... Didn't even last a day, lol. I can FULLY understand Edward Scissorhand's, pain... tbh! xD
I envy those that wear them... But yeah, ya'll have to enjoy my ugly unfinished unlong nails, for the time being! But hey? Look on the brightside... at least they're not nubby nubs! lol. xD

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Has anyone ever told you that you look too sexual? I have recently been told this :)

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Nope, lol.
Is that good thing or a bad thing to be told that you "look too sexual"? I'm trying to determine what that someone meant by that? Like... to them, they think by being around you, you're gonna get them in trouble and swat off the angel on their shoulder? Or? lol
Most people tell me I look like I'm still in highschool or a freshman in college... Which is flattering now, considering I'm 27 and feel like I'm 72!

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When you put your shoes on in the morning, do you shake them upside down to check for scorpions?

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I feel seen! xD lol ...*hides face*... HOW DO YOU KNOW ABOUT THIS, NEO?!?!? Are you that fly on my wall I've been talking to, because I have no friends? :P Buzz buzz???
I haven't had a scorpion come out of my shoe... (yet) *knocks on wood for good measure*.... But I'm not waiting to find one! lol, I "have", however, had one fall out of my laudry basket when I was cleaning my laundry and also one in my bath towel... which, was NOT something I wanted to deal with, without a shoe nearby... Plus, I always worry, like... what if I find a scorpion and then ALSO end up grabbing a shoe WITH a scorpion in it?!?!
So yeahhh... those are things to think about/take into consideration... xD In other news, thanks for listening to my tangent... even if you really didn't have much of a choice on the matter, lol. :P

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Justine it's now 2022, what are your goals for this year?

ianbushell355’s Profile PhotoIan
Pokemian!! :D My #GOALS, hmmm? :P
Letsa' see... *ponders deep in thought in the "Thinking Man" pose* hehe
1. Savor the memories... and make real life moments, important! There's too many times where I choose technology/texting others, over what matters... and I think, living in the moment, in person, can be so refreshing and fun!
2. Get back into art. I keep saying this, because I haven't done it... and I absolutely NEEEEEED to... My inner Le Justine zee wannabe french artist is begging to be let out!!! BONJOUR?!?!?!?
3. Save my money for the bigger thangs'.... I need to manage my money better... not just in regards to gift giving, but in general, especially when it comes to wanting to buy my first house. I assume that I won't be buying it anytime soon, due to this disastrous inflation and californians snagging all the AZ houses... Soooo... in the meantime, might as well save up the best I can! Make smarter choices when it comes to my future... and pay more into my 401k, while I can!
4. Still looking for jerbs, lol. I'm kinda hoping I can at least get one year into the position I'm at now, and move on... But, we shall see... May end up moving up to a department manager, if I "have" to stay where I am... bleh! >.< lol. (Reason I say bleh, is that means more customer complaints "I" will have to deal with over the phone and in person... I'd rather not tbh, but... if the pay is right... meh? haha - still debating this one, as you can tell)
5. Work on my health. That means, less fast food... More treadmill running... more dentist and doctor appointments... More time to take care of me!

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(If you don't celebrate Christmas, just ignore this question 👍) - What’s the earliest you've ever woke up on Christmas Day? 🎄 🎅 🎁 🌰 👍 🙃

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Probably 4 am, lol.
I remember me and my cousin, always tip toeing about in the living room next to the tree, whispering... trying to get a sneak peek on all the stocking stuffer goods. xD The only problem in that was we had to wait till the adults woke up, too... Before we could open them... So we lost sleep over nothing, lol.

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To be safe** xD Whoops What kinda gifts you getting? :O Is there a big one in store?! EXCEPT NOT. You sat on me once and that is all you ever did. And you turned me into an ice cream topping xD Which is worse than just eating me. But you’ve NEVER got me fair and square 😏

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Lol, BIG WOOPS! xD SHEESH!!! *knocks on wood, for good measure, because words are powerful*
Not really sure, tbh? :P Though, I've already received some big gifts... and feel freakin SPOILED AS A CAN OF SPINACH!!! >.< lol. One of my work besties got me this really cool deadpool backpacks... and another got me a reeealllyyyy nice camo sweater/jacket... ugh! xD *hides face*... Wbu?
Well, to be fair, I also had "others" on here "whispering" in my ear to do that to you, lol. I wasn't surrounding me-self with the best folks! xD
And bleeeehhh, someone can't take a loss (or two... or three.. hehe) :P *points at you*

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Once you finally delete Ask.fm, what will three if your top memories made on it?

This is gonna be more vague, than you're wanting, and I'm sorry for that! But... there's just too much that goes on here, to specifically identify a memory... At least for me, personally it is... Sorry in advance, Anon!
1. All the amazing friendships/beautiful souls I've crossed paths with and connected with :)
2. Having a space, to just express myself... But also, reading others posts, and connecting to what they have to say, too! I've always found it really cool to sort of all relate, no matter our cultures/beliefs/different opinions and preferences and the distance... We can all be very opposite/different from each other... But on the same coin, be so similar! There's always going to be SOMETHING, that connects us as human beings... That allows us, to better understand each other, where we come from :)
3. Remembering the old Ask.fm... I know, I know, we shan't be stuck in the past... But that's what got me on here, to begin with! You know how you watch a show in your childhood... it just has such a reminiscent feel to it... and then modern day tries to bring it back, but it's not the same? Idk, I miss the old Ask.fm days, because it had sorta a magical feel to it... People "wanted" to get to know people... They weren't looking for a specific answer that matched their own... There weren't ulterior motives/intentions... They wanted to get to know others, because... why not? JUST ASK!

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describe your taste in music?

It's... all over the place, lol.
I used to have it down to one, maybe two, genres.. and now... I don't even know! xD I like just about anything and everything, as long as it's tasteful to my own ears... and connects to my being, in some way, shape or form... I find a lot of times, the songs I didn't cherish then... I cherish now... and have a better understanding for what the lyrics mean? Or the way something sounds? It's just... I feel like you have to go through things in your own life... mature a little... to get it? *shrugs*
Lately, though, I've been into a lotto' more "galactic" synthwave/retrowave, 80's-ish sounding, music... I kinda feel like traveling through space in a rocketship... or a UFO, lol. Idk why, that's just where my being is at, right now :P
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I dooo. But I’m not around people until next week just tombs safe. So we doing just a couple Christmas. Should be fun! Just to dust up and check on the place, duhhh. What’s reverse psychology? Like telling you yo;l never eat me again because you can’t catch this? *insert can’t touch this song*

gingerbreadguy2’s Profile PhotoGingy
Tombs safe.... lol. I hope there's no TOMB INVOLVED?!?!?!? :O
Sounds like a fun time! I mean, Christmas can be whenever you want it :P As long as you're surrounded by the ones that you care about/love, that's what matters!
#DEAD... *insert skull emoji here*... I've caught you PLENTY of times :P And you KNOW it!!! *sticks tongue out*

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when was the last time you had a sleepover at a friend or relative’s place? 🌃😴

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Was scrolling through my phones camera roll, because couldn't remember, lol.
It looks like the last time it was in March! I remember, because I got a flat tire on the way to my besties house, for some sleepover fun! xD SHEESH... Glad I made it to house before it fully flattened... and had a spare tire... AND had some men, to help a non-car saavy gal, like meself!

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(If you don't celebrate Christmas, just ignore this question 👍) - Do you have a favourite Christmas carol? If so, what is it? 🎶 🎄 🎅 🎁 🌰 👍 🙃

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Pentatonix - Dance of the Sugar Plum Fairy
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I like Christmas songs that generally don't require words/lyrics... I like to let the instruments do the talking (or rather random noises like capella, do the talking, lol :P)... That why I don't have to memorize the song, and find out I'm singing the wrong lyrics, lol! xD

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(If you don't celebrate Christmas, just ignore this question 👍) - Who are you with on a typical Christmas Day? 🎄 🎅 🎁 🌰 👍 🙃

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- My grandma, grandpa, 3 brothers, and boyfriend (usually :P - it changes every year!)
Sometimes my uncle and cousin will come over to visit, as well, and maybe my mom (haven't had a christmas with her in years, though)... Just depends on how everyone is feeling!

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Well glad you’re here! Always fun to catch you in the moment! Thanks! Tomorrow supposedly I am not contagious anymore! Ohh do post a picture! And LOL your stomach is like my abandoned vacation home at this point xD What would you do I asked to visit? ;P

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Indeed, it is! :P Just like the good ol' askfm days! hehe
Oh wow! That will be a wonderful victory!! You probably miss going out/human connection huh? :P
If you "wanted" to visit... That's #sus, lol. >.> So, I obvi wouldn't give you entry! lol. That's why you shoulda used reverse psychology! :P

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Justine my question is, how random can you be?

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You’re on at a weird time! I’ve been feeling better. Super big headache today, but not much of a cough thankfully. Did you build me a gingerbread house out of pity? Lolol

gingerbreadguy2’s Profile PhotoGingy
Yeah, I have some time to crunch! :P Got the day off... so meh, why not? Let's check on Ask.fm ;D
I'm glad to hear you're feeling better today... and can BREATHE... Sorry about the headache, though! :O I remember having mine when I had covid... felt like my eyeballs were going to pop out!! O__O
No gingy-bread house... But maybe build one tomorrow :P
Bf had bought us a kit to do! I'll post you a pic, when it's finished! I'll make sure the inside looks like my stomache, so you feel RIGHT at HOME >:) ehehehe

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Say you were the grinch, how'd you personally choose to try to ruin Christmas for everyone? 😈🎄🎁

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Lol, I'd probably sparkle bomb peoples gifts... So, they'd have sparkles for 365 dayssss, till the next christmas! hehe >:)
Then, probably gift them thangs they don't like or never asked for (probably regifts of stuff I found in their house, lol)... for sh*ts n giggles, lol.

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