To a big extent: no, but you can at least see something from the bus. As I mentioned previously, conversations with people other than guides were very limited, so you have to do a lot of interpretation of what you see.
What I could see was a way lot more smiles than I anticipated. Civility and dignity even when in poverty (we were, of course, not shown the lowest edge of existence in their country, but most of the places were not as rich as Pyongyang). Just normal people doing normal things under abnormal circumstances. Pyongyang life looks pretty Western to me - "a lot" of cars, overcrowded public transportation (including metro), people grabbing beer after work in the beer bars... When I say "a lot" of cars - it is still nothing compared to what we have here, but compared to the rest of the country where are next to no cars, Pyongyang has really a lot. So many that we were stuck in traffic more than once, but still a few that it's safe to run to the middle of the street to take photos.
The one part that really sticks out is that children have no free time at all. I know this is becoming more common in the West as well, but there it is over the top. Until the age of 17 every kid goes to one of many massive extracurricular activities centres after school where they spend hours on end. We saw a performance by the kids of one of the best extracurricular activities centre in Pyongyang and that was beyond amazing - many professionals could learn a lot from those kids. The show included singing, dancing, playing all sorts of instruments and gymnastics; and in our collective opinion it surpassed by far the show we saw in the circus a couple of days before (performed by the international artists as part of April Spring Friendship Art Festival).
Outside the city, children's life is even harder. On the cooperative farms, they have kindergartens where children spend 10 days in kindergarten and then 1 day at home. On some private farms, we would occasionally see a child working alongside the parents, and the kid would be anywhere from 4 to 15.
Another thing that is painfully obvious is that there is an incredible amount of military and they basically do everything. From construction work to scientific research - most (if not all) buildings are made by military; and on the other hand, if you finish a university, your dream is to actually work for the military because that's the best you can do in DPRK.
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