If your ex bf dumped you,he moved in and got married afterwards and you did to,but you’re not over him and stalk him,his wife,and their kids /family/friends. Then try to play victim. That person needs help don’t you think?! To still stalk the one who dumped her 11 years ago?
Not only because of that, also because that person didn’t move. Instead she got married with someone that probably she doesn’t love.