I'll be ok. I mean I've lived 36 years and haven't tried to erase myself yet lol. How is your mental ? Are you doing ok ? Anything you'd like to get off your chest? I'm all ears. And I try to offer good feedback whenever I listen and talk to someone :)
Forehead kisses or hugs from behind?
Why not both at the same time ?
When you look at yourself in the mirror, what do you see?
Someone who used up great opportunities and did nothing with them. Now I'm stuck between having to decide on continuing down the career choice I chose and poured the last 7 years into or possibly having to start over and chose a different profession altogether.
How's your mental ?
Its ok. I feel like I could use someone to talk to that could just listen to what I have to say and give me input on whether its ok for me to feel the way I do sometimes or if I'm being farfetched but I've only ever talked to 1 counselor and 1 or 2 ppl ever about my problems from the past and I felt like they were just telling me shit to get me to shut up and I was told that I needed to get over myself. So its kinda put me in a position where its kinda hard to want to seek help for my problems bc I don't think I can have someone tell me to get over myself and move on with my past trauma when they're not the ones that had to live through what I had to. Kind hard to trust anyone when I feel like I'm being judged whenever I even mention my feelings in any kind of way whatsoever.
Favorite breakfast food? (Cant say bacon)
Strawberry cream cheese pancakes with strawberries and whip cream topping
Clingy partners are great unless they're clingy in a controlling type of way that hampers you having a life outside of them and only them. If thats the case I say distance yourself from that person bc the hurt that you will go through once they decide that they're done playing with your feelings is not worth the extra attention,love, and affection that you are trading for your mental, physical, and emotional health. That's my opinion and I've been through several relationships like this. I thought I wanted clingy and all about me and only me and vice versa I made my entire life about them and they're wants and needs. Ask I ended up with in the end was I wasted 6 years of my life trying to make the wrong person happy when there was someone else who wouldn't been better but I chose to stay with the person who basically only used me as a private ATM machine whenever they needed something. It's good to be clingy in certain situations but you also have to maintain your freedom and control over your own life and what you can do without getting permission from someone who isn't really having your best interest at heart.
Yes, everyday I feel like I'm being made to go back to my corner whenever I try to constructively criticize the person I live with in a positive way thats meant to help but instead I'm always met with aggressive defensive attacks that are meant to hurt my feelings in a way that only someone who knows my deepest personal fears, concerns, and absolutions can hurt me in. You ever feel like you're being judged as a bitch if you talk about your feelings. I'm a male. 36 years old raised in a Hispanic household where feelings weren't real unless you are a chickenshit Pussy.