im gay should i just come out
first of all, make sure you're sure and confident of yourself. i came out to a few people as pansexual and then realized... not entirely true. ended up being pretty straight, just thought girls were super pretty. (AND THEY ARE!) just a warning because that messed with me. if you're like... yeah. i'm gay, that's fantastic. decide who you're comfortable telling. tell them. if that means everybody, go for it. coming out is always hard because the world is still (for some reason, in 2014!!!) shaky when it comes to LGBT* folks, so just make sure you're in a safe place and have people that can back you up if anything goes down.
ultimately, it's your decision! i've heard so many stories of relief and freedom once folks have come out and there are so, so, so many communities and places that will accept you for who you are and provide answers and support. (if you're in leaside, i recommend the GSA, despite my whole bias, they've backed me up each and every time i've felt down, and we're a fantastic family, everybody's welcome) of course, as a chick that checks out mostly heterosexual, i can't be in your place right now. i don't know exactly how you feel, but if you want to talk to some friends of mine who have also been through the pitfalls and tough stuff, i can get you in touch with some folks.
don't put yourself in danger and keep your brave lil head up. i'm always here if you need anything! lots of warm fuzzies.
ultimately, it's your decision! i've heard so many stories of relief and freedom once folks have come out and there are so, so, so many communities and places that will accept you for who you are and provide answers and support. (if you're in leaside, i recommend the GSA, despite my whole bias, they've backed me up each and every time i've felt down, and we're a fantastic family, everybody's welcome) of course, as a chick that checks out mostly heterosexual, i can't be in your place right now. i don't know exactly how you feel, but if you want to talk to some friends of mine who have also been through the pitfalls and tough stuff, i can get you in touch with some folks.
don't put yourself in danger and keep your brave lil head up. i'm always here if you need anything! lots of warm fuzzies.
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