do u think I am being selfish or a unfit wife cause I can not forgive my husband for repeatedly having an affair with the same woman for the last five years .I am 14 years older and divorced him in 2009 cause of his heavy drinking he beg me to remarry him cause the woman he was seeing would not get
That's quite a situation you have. But all I can say is, forgiveness really matters in this situation. What happened in the past belongs to the past. Yes, it is hard to forgive and forget what your husband did to you but that's what God says - forgive those who sinned against us. But you should ask God to help you forgive your husband because it's not that easy to forgive. He sees your afflictions. This is the time that you need to draw near to Him cause He's the best solution to every problem. He is willing to answer all our prayers, He knows what is best for us (Jeremiah 33:3). I can't totally say that you should accept your husband again, it's all up to you :) but I'll say tha it is better to forgive him. Just ask God for guidance in all your decisions cause He knows what will happen tomorrow. :). Submit and surrender everything to God :). I hope this helps you :), I'm just giving an advice base on what I believe to be the best way to face and handle this type of situation:).