Where is connections? I work Sundays, so do they have other nights I can go?
Its on a friday night at 6.30 so feel free to come along! its pretty small but theres food and great people <3 its in the building by mitre ten, down from the whangaparaoa plaza. x
What is the most interesting thing about your family?
They're all fucking crazy
If you could own any building in the world, which one would it be?
my own house x
What church do you recommend?
Connections church!!!x
thoughts on noriel
Aahaha hes cool as, can be a little rude about people im mates with but alg we all can. Hes funny as and is good to talk to, defs hang sometime though x
Should schools offer cash bonuses for good test scores?
I reckon it should all add up till at the end of the year you get that amount of money in any food of your choice
no problem if I have any more I'll ask :)
Sweet as!
alright and thank you so much you're such a kind person and yeah I will read it
Awh im just trying to help, thankyou for asking me questions!
you are so awesome for doing research for me thanks and yeah i'll read that website I was wondering what illicit fantasies are
Its like any kind of sexual fantasy, for example looking at a woman and fantasising about having sex with her. Tbh i did it for you and me. I was curious. Please do read it! Its actually quite good, and do some research of your own if you have time.
what about masturbating is that wrong in god's eye too
Oki, so tbh i didnt know how to answer this, so i did some research; I found this site: www.acts17-11.com/dialogs_masturbation.htmlLooking through this (which i seriously suggest you do) i found that scripture does not actually forbid masturbation but the act of illicit sexual fantasies. Matthew 5:28-29 "but tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart, if your right eye cause you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your wholebody to be thrown in hell." So if you were to masturbate without including illicit fantasies, would that be considered a sin? Some people would say yes and others would say no. Everyone will have there own opinion. On that website it says "and masturbation, never forbidden by God, can be used as one of the ways we 'learn to control our bodies', not by flaming the body with pornography or fantasies so that it can be done too often, but in using it to keep ourselves from dangerous, physical temptation when it can (rarely) be done without sinning in any way."I guess it depends on your self control and whether you agree with this or not.
I will and you're welcome but thank you so much and yeah I know haha :)
Aha alg, anytime
wow that's powerful thanks :)
Thats ok, if you have anymore questions just ask. And thankyou for asking, it really makes me think, ya know?
I see but does the bible say its wrong
If you look at hebrews 13:4, it says "let marriage be held in honour amoung all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous." When i look at this, i take 'sexually immoral' to mean anything sexual, not just sex. God is pure and sexual activity outside of marriage is impure. God commands sex to be contained within marriage because it is so powerful. In fact, it is the glue that holds people together and binds their spirits to each other (cor. 6:16)
true haha I believe in marriage before sex but do you think oral sex is still classified as sex so therefor if you have oral sex before marriage it is wrong?
For me, yeah but thats my personal beliefs
true uhhhh the struggles of life
The world is corrupt, what do you expect?
I will and you don't know me but thanks for the offer though it means a lot and really?
Yeah really. Its all over the internet and anyone can reach it. Anytime hun
that's true I don't know cause honestly I am so nervous to even tell a girl I like she looks pretty so how would I ever build the courage to tell my pastor i'm addicted to porn
Pray about it, if i know you ill gladly go with you. Its more common than you think it is
that is very true but I really don't want anyone knowing you know
Mm i get that but i think you should. It depends if you really want help
yeah it is and really you dont think it could maybe be possibe for me to change by my self
Tbh no, i think that yeah you may stop for a whil but addictions areso hard to beat by yourself.