The purest love that is all about making the person you love feel elevated and happy. You get hurt a lot and become stronger and able to love the person in every way possible . True love is about bringing smile on the face of your beloved by sacrificing whatever you can. True love is 100% one sided in which you dont need the other person to love you. It's a commitment to love that person no matter what. You cant leave that person . And yes your first and last thought of the day . Obsession is a part of true love.