i fancy a dude, and he fancy's me back but hes not ready for a relationship, should i ask him out or let him ask me out?
Wait for him to ask you,if he's not ready then he will be:). Just keep talking to him so he knows you're still interested. And occasionally bring it up:)
Yes, I'm on ur 'bbm'; stay even moor strong in the future(y), it will get more worse before it gets better; and glad to hear that u n phe are fighting strong for love(y)
Yeah,I think phe's close to giving up,but I'm not gonna let hero:)& what u mean 'bbm'?:L
No. You're the fucking worthless thing. A dead rat that's rotted away&decomposed is more friggen useful than you. So do me&phe a massive favour&curl up&fucking die. I honestly don't care what anyone thinks of me. If u say this about my girlfriend? I want u dead. Do u understand?:).
Omg&i will dw..howphe struggling? U don't have to reply but im a really seinstive person but act like i don't care&im heartless? I read thru her ask.fm and she seems like mex
You should talk to her,I'm sure she'd like that:)!&im like that,I think its cos we've all been hurt so much,it just doesn't show. But when it does,it hurts more than ever Btw,do I know u?x
I meant ur relationship and haw everythink has affected u&phoebe? How did u both come out as bisexual and stuffx
Ohhhh Its. Affected phe a lot,but I think the fact that me&her are together has helped her loads. She gets through it,phe's strong&she doesn't realise how strong she really is,until its the only choice she actually has. Then there's me who's heartless&doesnt care what they think,but sometimes,like some days it can be to much for me? When I'm pissed off&someone says 'eww u lesbian' that seriously windes me up://. I think phe's struggleing more than she's letting on. But I've been bullied most my life,so I guess I'm used to it? But together,its fine,I mean obviously we have our arguments,but I dont think we intend on splitting up,ever,nmw happens.&thats good enough for me tbh,so all the hate?just makes us stronger:). I come out in a argument,even tho most people already knew cos they'd ask&i'd be honest. In the argument I was sticking up for phe (before we got together,we was also bestmates) and I got called a lesbian. So I said 'no,actually I'm bisexual.'She shutup for a second&said 'ur bisexual?' I said yeah. But as it was a argument,we was surrounded by people&they all took the piss:LL. Buttttt,at least I came out I guess.&phe come out cos she got with me:). I guess u want me to tell u when I found out I was bi? It was actually in primary,I had a crush on a teacher:LL! But told noone cos I just thought it was a phase. But it wasn't. Watch who u tell hun,it could spread faster than u want it toox
Just posted it hun,if u need me I'm here?&if u wanna know anything else,just ask?
What to expect,what we've been through,what to do when people make comments etc.---btw,that's to remind me,cos my memory is seriously like a fricken fish:L
When people say things?it hurts,it always will. But you seriously get to a point that you think. Wtf? They're judgeing me..cos I'm bisexual? But you also need to remember that you're not the only one going through it. What kept me going,was when people told us how much courage we had to come out&thats what made me realise. There's how many people in your school? And you're different. But don't be ashamed,cos differents awesome!normals boring! Yeah,you will get hate,but it'll die down,sometimes it takes longer than u think,but don't tell some people the truth and others a lie. Tell them all about how you are then ur being true to not only them,but to urself. Always put urself first.&even,sometimes u might fancy the same gender?but that's okay! We're not all gonna be the same are we? Me&phe both decided to be together nmw&ignore the gossip. Honestly,its been hard to ignore the hate! But if ur happy how you are,why should u care? But you also find out who ur true friends are. And tbh you'd be suprised! Me&phe have been through so much. Hate,rumours,physical abuse,abuse even outside of school. Why? Because we're true to ourselves&others can't do that. It takes a lot of courage to tell one person,let alone come out to everyone. When they say things,ignore them,just laugh or say 'whatever',never show it gets to u,no matter how hard it is. Anyone going through this? You have my full respect&i know you have phe's too,well done&stay strong.