Hi. I need an advice. Is it ok to send a message to the girl who almost wreck my relationship with my boyfriend? Its more than a year, but it keeps on bothering me. I just wanted to know the real story because my bf wont like to share it since he doesnt want to bring that issue again.
You can ask her, i don't really see why not, just be really courteous about it, just ask her what happened and everything, don't hold grudges, because what happened happened and you cant really change it, also your boyfriend should be telling you the truth if he still refuses to he's not being completely honest about the whole thing, tell him that you're gonna ask her if he doesn't speak up. keep him informed and then see how he responds. If he's still hiding then dump him, its just not worth it. if you're going to keep secrets like this. both of you are supposed to be best friends,you've got to have each other's back and trust each other. I'm so sorry i didn't see this earlier. i haven't really had the time. Good luck tho i hope you get your answers and all's good. xoxo - N
