You can ask her, i don't really see why not, just be really courteous about it, just ask her what happened and everything, don't hold grudges, because what happened happened and you cant really change it, also your boyfriend should be telling you the truth if he still refuses to he's not being completely honest about the whole thing, tell him that you're gonna ask her if he doesn't speak up. keep him informed and then see how he responds. If he's still hiding then dump him, its just not worth it. if you're going to keep secrets like this. both of you are supposed to be best friends,you've got to have each other's back and trust each other. I'm so sorry i didn't see this earlier. i haven't really had the time. Good luck tho i hope you get your answers and all's good. xoxo - N

Tell me - n

Yes it is - N

that's upto both of you to label it what you want, if you both are okay with this relationship and all its standards, then that's your decision, just do what feels right. x - N

have you developed feelings for him? if you have then talk to him about it, tell him how you feel, or you could also just be friends with benefits, see whatever floats your boat. Good luck x - N

lets not go there - N

they might be attracted towards you - N

Well, i have no response to this, people are just assholes irrespective of gender, -_- - N

Not necessarily, you need to have more signs and not just this, if there are more signs then theres a possible chance they maybe attracted towards you, or this is completely platonic -N

I can relate to you because its the same for me. Don't think or underestimate yourself by calling yourself not good enough, You're fabulous, maybe you need to wait for the best, i know third wheeling sucks, but till you are single embrace how you're completely independent and you're not answerable to anyone but yourself, flirt around, have fun, maybe it's taking so long coz you dont deserve fuckboys who cant handle you with all your amazing self. :3 much love x - N