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hwy I'm joining a boarding school for the 11th grade soon. I'm really scared that I wont fit in or that nobody will like me. and I'm scared that I won't like it there :/ help please?

You will fit in :) everyone does! You learn to become independent :) you'll make some awesome friends! Just give it some time in the beginning. Be yourself :) as for you not liking it, in the beginning you will feel homesick, that is sorta inevitable! But the sooner you accept that yes, this is now my home and i need to stay here. The better it is ! Look at it this way, you'll be living with your friends for 2 years and going to school. Almost like college life ;) just have fun and cherish it :) good luck xx - N

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my best friend has suddenly blocked me everywhere and he is telling the whole school that i'm a slut .he said lie to him but its a misunderstanding .i really like him as more than a befriend and he knows it .he hates me .now i feel all suicidal .what should i do ?

Misunderstanding? He just wants an excuse not to talk to you. And he's just stopped liking you. You deserve better. Try to divert your mind. Talk to me maybe? You won't regret it. Okay? NOW SMILE

How to cope up with insecurity?

You're facing insecurity with what? you're going to have to be a little more specific.
in general just try building a positive self image first. start caring about yourself rather than others, view things more objectively, stop focusing only on your negative aspects, find good things about yourself, if you focus on only the negative stuff, you'll end up neglecting your positive qualities. Keep nurturing company. Pay attention to the friends you keep and their attitudes about others, themselves, and you. If you start noticing that the majority of your friends are highly critical, criticizing clothing, body, decisions, speech, or behavior on a daily basis, you may want to seek less judgmental friends.Try instead to find people who have nice things to say about others and are not quick to pass judgement.Have a positive attitude towards life, everything happens for a reason, try changing it if not just accept it and move on, life's too short to burden yourself with worries :) xx - N

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A guy i have been in love for 3 years , just friendzoned me. I'm too depressed. :( what to do? should i move on or wait for him to come back to me?

Aww :/ its okay, it happens, don't go into depression. Its not worth it.
don't keep waiting, move on! Maybe it wasn't meant to be! So try maintaining a distance for a while, make yourself stronger, and when you feel you're over him, you can continue being friends again! Good luck x - N

(contd.) and I lost interest in going for my walks. I din see him for over 3 months and I just saw him y'day and I literally felt my heart jump when I saw him. Is this more than a crush?

Start going for walks again! You might just walk an extra mile unknowingly just by checking him out ;) haha
its just a crush :) nothing more! :) maybe even infatuation :p
why don't you talk to him the next time you see him :) just smile and say hi ! Introduce yourself :)
be confident, don't be a nervous wreck in front of him. You never know in the process you might just end up becoming friends! Don't be too direct about your feelings right away, he might get creeped out :p
become friends, take things slowly x) and keep walking, if not for the guy , you'll definitely get a hot bod ;)
xx - N

Hey :) Okay my problem might sound too weird but I've been crushing on a guy and I dont even know his name. I see him occasionally when I go for walks around my community and seeing him kinda motivated me to go for walks everyday just to see him but then he stopped coming after a while (contd.)

Hahaha aww. This is kinda cute :')
its not weird :) chill.-N

Thakyou so much. But I dnt know there are still a lot of issues, like he gives me expensive gifts and all but obviously i cnt match to his level so i feel bad, I tried to explain him indirectly that i dnt like u spending on me but he is like i love spending on u :(

Tell him directly, that you don't like the fact the he spends so much.! Limit your gifts to each other then! Try putting it in a budget! x -N

Hey.u doing a realy gr8 job. So,The thng s me n my bf r gng out since 4years n its gng pretty gud. Prblm s he is VERY rich n i blong 2 a normal midle clas family.So I'm afraid bout da prblems my family 'll face at da tym of r marige vt pple 'll say dat i m wid him fr money. Which dey say now 2 bt no

thankyouu :) look, no matter what you do in life, the society is going to keep talking, people are very judgmental no matter what you do or say. as long as you both are happy and your families are happy with each other, who gives a flying fuck about what they think.! stop bothering about what the others are going to think! they'll go on talking, they dont know you, so dont let it bother you ! :) good luck x - N

Hey! I'm really confused. My ex. We dated for 2 months and now he's back. Talking to me again and again. One day he called me saying that he loves me. But he just wants to get physical and I don't want to. I don't even want to make out because I'm 15. He's 17. We broke up because of his boards. Now

Dont do anything if you arent mentally prepared for it! if youre not ready for the kissing or physical stuff, then tell him, dont do anything which doesnt make you comfortable! if he tries getting back say no, simple.
good luck x - N

I'm thirteen and I may be extremely addicted to my phone. Dunno what to do. My studies are going down the drain.

hand it over to your parents, limit your usage, you need to focus on studying now! use your phone only when you need it, when its time to study either switch off your phone or keep it anywhere where its not directly visible to you! either the room or your parents room or hall just about anywhere is fine. when yu feel like checking your phone while in the middle of studying, tell yourself "NO. STOP. you need to finish studying, you need to FOCUS." and after youre done studying you can use it! good luck x - N

So a while back I asked this girl I used to like out, just for the hell of it, she said she's not looking for dating. Typical rejection, we're still friends and stuff. Unfortunately, I don't really think I've completely gotten over her yet, and it's been close to 5 years now. What do?

Try maintaining a distance, make new friends, date other girls maybe? try doing different things! 5 years is a really long time man! limit your conversations with this girl, maintain friendship but keep it limited, until you dont get over her, only when you feel that ya i've gotten over her and moved on, then start talking properly with her if you want to! good luck xx :) -N

Hey! I am the girl with horrible nightmares. Even I have exams going on, so I understand. I am not really pissed about your late reply. What I am trying to say is, I didn't call you a dick. I am so sorry that such a nice person will be called a dick. Please understand. Somebody posed as me.

Chill no problem , some people are assholes anyway! - N :)

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