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What should a guy do if his girlfriend is mad at him?

Talk to her, take her on a date, avoid talking through messages or Facebook in person would be better, sort out whatever happened calmly, don't end up arguing. Buy her a present if you have to :) im sure she'll understand :) good luck xx :)
-N

all right this maybe weird...but i really need help...really, there's this girl i am in love with, she talks nicely and all but i can sense she's not interested, wht shall i do? dont tell me be urself, be nice to her and things, coz THEY DONT WORK plzz help me, i am desperate i love her, i'll die :(

Its not weird chill :) look, try flirting with her, ask her what would you say if someone close asked you out.
flirt in between the lines, otherwise you could just be straight forward and ask her out! If she says yes, then well and good :) if she says no, then ask her why, dont force her into the relationship, you'll end up losing your friendship as well! And things will be awkward for a while, gradually, put this behind your self and start talking as if nothing happend. Good luck xx
-N
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My best friend is a guy and he likes me, and his friends are all saying he's going to ask me out when school starts.the thing is I don't like him like that, but I don't want to lose him as a friend. How can I say no without it being embarrassing for him?

Be really polite about it! Don't make it an issue tell him look "i think we're better off as friends!" " i don't want to get into such kind of commitment because im not ready for it" take him to a private place and talk to him. Don't embarrass him in front of his friends! That will be rude and inappropriate. Tell him him that if you do end up having feelings for him you will let him know! If he asks you out in public, pull him aside privately and all talk! It will obviously end up hurting his feelings but if he starts crying then apologize because there is nothing you could do about it! Things will be awkward for a while. But eventually try putting this behind you and talk normally so at least you'll get your friend back! Good luck x :)
p.s- im really sorry i would have answered earlier but i have exams going on :p

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P.S- i just wanted to know if there are multiple admins on this page fidato

No actually. Just 2, one guy and me (im a girl) they page actually belongs to him! He asked me to use it till his college prep is done :) so basically im a temp :p
-N
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HAHAAA..its not about being more hot.Looks were never important to me and if they were let me tell you my bf looks better than my bestfriend.okay i will call you fidato :P so fidato..its like..it is not to easy to choose.How can I a 16 year old girl who cant even make tea choose ? both are imp to me

Lol fidato? xD sounds like Mexican food xD the name is N :p ok? Come off anon and ill tell you my name :p
so from basically. You're in a flirtationship with your best friend and you're dating your boyfriend. Fyi. A flirtationship is when two people flirt with each other without the need to be committed. They can date. Others and still flirt with you :p you tell me what you want to do then? :) because clearly your boyfriend doesn't like it! and your best friend well. I needn't say anything about him. You decide what you want :) basically you're enjoying the fact that your best friend is flirting with you aren't you xP
ask your best friend to get a girlfriend then. (Not you -.-) that way your boyfriend will also calm down and your best friend will flirt with her :p and you both could still be besties without your boyfriend having a problem :) good luck :) xx
-N

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I have extreme anxiety around people and I've lost a lot of friend's because of it because it's been really bad lately. Now I'm working on it, but I realized that I don't really have any friends left or anyone to even talk to. What can I do? I've tried rebuilding the friendship but it isnt working

Have you got professional help for your anxiety? Have you seen a therapist? Your friends have probably misjudged you and thought you just spark off like that and start to panic without any reason! Some of them may think its because you just want attention. Those poor delusional souls. Just talk to them and tell them about your anxiety problem! Im sure they'll understand! Otherwise try making new friends. I know it will be difficult! But if you do! You'll be overcoming your anxiety issue :) xx
-N

I feel nobody cares about me. It was my birthday and all my friend's have this big thing about wishing each other at 12, and nobody wished me at all throughout the day. My parents are out on work and they didnt even call! No messages, nothing. Is there any way I can accept the fact that I'll always

You're with the wrong set of friends then love. :/ they're douchebags! How could your parents not call you :| that doesn't even make sense. They are your parents!! Tell your mom and dad to take you out for a treat as compensation! Im sure they wont say no :) all of go through this phase love! It wont last forever, trust me! You're gonna make so many new friends when you go to college! You wont even remember these douchebags! Or when you go to the 11th grade its all a big shuffle! You'll make a lot of friends! :) try different things to do! Maybe try out making a new dessert or learn an instrument. ? That way you'll have more time occupied and you wont have to hang out with these people. You can make new friends :)
i care about you ok? :* xx
-N

This guy use to send me good morning texts and goodnight texts, but now we barely talk and it upsets me. We were suppose to go out, but he cancelled and ever since he cancelled we havent been talking to each other like we use to. i like him a lot, but hes a flirt. i wanna talk to him about it but id

Wait what do you mean he cancelled.? Like he said no? Did you ask him or did he ask you? Just give it some time. Talk to other people in the mean time. And then start a perfectly normal conversation with him. Try flirting in between the lines! If he flirts back then that's a good sign! :) im pretty sure he wont bite you :p chill out. Stop getting tensed ok? You send him good morning and good night texts after things are a little more stable :) i guess guys like that kind of attention too :) xx
-N

You think we should give a second chance to a person who hurt you again again ! ? And you always feel liked used up :/

A chance should be given to those who wont repeat the same mistakes over and over. If this person has hurt you several times, then don't bother giving them a chance! And don't feel guilty for not giving them a chance. If they make you feel guilty for something you never did (always happens) just remember the amount of times they've hurt you and they might do it again if you give them the chance !
stay strong xx
- N

My BFF and I like the same guy and she gets really pissed because of that.She told me that I should get a crush of my own and all sorts of mean things.She's a drama queen & is really mean to me most of the time but at the end of the day, she's still my friend so I don't wanna be mean to her!

Well if you care about her more than the guy, then its hoes before bros B|
tell her to stop overacting, you both like a guy and you didn't lose her child so stop making such a huge deal about it, ask her to take a chill pill :p this can be sorted out without the drama, you don't need to be mean to her. Just straight forward. Own crush? What is he a toy? -.- if you want her over the guy then tell her that listen our friendship is more important than he is. If she's a bitch most of the time then, sorry she doesn't care about anyone but herself. You actually care for her. That's good. So bottom line: if you want your friendship with her jut tell her that our friendship means more. Than the guy. xx
- N
p.s - you could still crush on him, just don't tell her. :3
come off and we'll talk. I wont post ok :) good luck x

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I try to make people feel special.My cousins,my friends.I always bake a cake for their b'day and all.Im really nice & polite with them.But they don't even bother wishing me on my birthdays.I think nobody gives a shit about me.idk what to do.

Awww you are special ok :*
hang out with people who love and care for you. :) if they don't care about you, you shouldn't either! They don't know what their missing out on! :) i know this is random but for my birthday last year i went to the orphanage and gave them cake, nothing made me feel better :') no party could have topped it off.
about your cousins, well you cant choose your family :| people do care about you ok :) i know i do :) chill. Just make new friends and before you become close to them make sure you know them completely so you can give them a nice cake for their birthday! Stop expecting from others. Its really not worth your time or energy! Breath it all in, Love it all out :)
much love xxoxox
- N :)

Lol ask him ?rehende :P just give me a better advice because trust me he has already told me all that stuff..like dont reply to his flirts and all. and i swear to God it hardly helps.Plus,my bestie is being that whole epitome of goodness and sacrifice.He is like "i hate your bf but you be with him"

So now you have the hots for both your boyfriend and your bestie? :p well. Im assuming your boyfriend is really possessive. From where i see it, you want your bestie to be your boyfriend. But you don't want to break your boyfriends heart do you? Just pick one. The one you like more. The one who has been there for you like all the time! This kinda sounds like math. But compare good and bad among both of them. Tally it out. See who you want to be more with. And then take any decision. Don't get lured in just because one is hotter than the other. :p (it is going to be difficult) :p make good choices :) xx good luck :)
- N
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But how do i come off. I ain't there on ask.

Well then you could join it :) it takes less than 5 mins :) you could delete your account later on :) but please join and inbox me :) x -N

But thats hurts me. I ain't the least scorer in the class. I just scroll less then them. I ain't a dumb. It hurts alot.

Screw whatever they do ok. You're not dumb im pretty sure! Come off anon we'll talk :) im sorry im getting confused with a few peoples questions. Ill not post anything chill :) stay strong xx - N

Yes, I'm going to eleventh. Thank you so much. :) You're a really nice guy. :) Thanks for helping me out with honesty. You're doing a great job. God bless. :D

Im a girl actually :p the guy who this page belongs to wont be using it for two months so he wants me to use it for him so that i can help you guys out :) thaanks :) always here to help youu xx - N
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My friends don't give me that attention I want. I mean I'm not an attention whore.. But, they never consider me a part of their conversation. It's probably because I get less marks than them.I'm of helping nature so they come to m whenever they are in problem. Never tell my plans about studing. Help

Help them to an extent. Don't let them use you. They're not worth it.

Hey. I'm the one who sent you the question about my friends not considering me. But, it's been so long since we've been friends. And it's very difficult to find new friends all of a sudden. I feel lonely in school. I still have 2 years of school to go. How do I survive? Thanks. You're really good.

Im assuming you're in the 10th and you're going to the 11th! You are going to have so many new friends in 11th trust me. Its whole new life! Stay in touch with your old friends but don't completely give yourself away to them like that! They're not worth it! 11th is going to be a blast :) you'll meet so many new people.you'll survive ;) and if youre stuck with the old ones well thats going to suck but concentrate on your studies, because these 2 years will change your life! Good luck xx :) thankyouu :) always here to help :)
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I seriously thank you for helping people this way :) I respect you :)

Ah no worries love :) come off anon and we'll talk :) i wont post :) and thanks. :3
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Thankyou <3. I will surely look forward towards my life , my happiness. Thanks love.

You're welcome :) stay strong stay happy ^_^
xx
-N

In teenage life , frnds generally ditch us easily , come to us when they need us, changes frnds very often , do backstabbing n more that u also might be knwing.Same happens with me. And on all this i get angry n despressed as well a hell much. Please tell something on how should i improve myself.

Start finding happiness in yourself and be contended with what you have. Love yourself. Stop expecting from people! That's how the world is! Do things that make you happy! Hang out with people that love and care for you! Don't have regrets about whatever you do! Everything happens for a reason. Cheer up and smile because you are fabulous and super awesome B) xx
-N
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My friends don't give me that attention I want. I mean I'm not an attention whore.. But, they never consider me a part of their conversation. It's probably because I get better marks.. They taunt me about studying all the time and come up to me for notes. But, I don't wanna lose them. Help please.

Im sorry love, but they aren't your friends. They're assholes who are using you just because you score really well and you help them all the time. Have they ever helped you in anyway? Do they call you so that you hangout with them? Do they awkwardly go silent when you try and join a conversation? If the answer is no. No. And yes. Respectively for the above 3 questions. Then they are simply using you. They don't like you ok. You're like a resource to them. You deserve better sweetheart. Make new friends, start standing up for yourself. Im sorry for putting it this harshly but there is no other way i can put it. Hang out with people who will actually have your back when you need them to! I know its going to be a little lonely and difficult but its for the best ok? And anytime you want to talk about this, come off and we will ok? :) xx

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I have a crush on my classmate, we became friends and exchanged numbers too. but he is the type of guy who prefers studying and is a scholar. We are in 12th now. I love him a lot, Probably he loves me too, but he doesn't tell me. After I told what I feel for him, he asked to be friends. Please help

He doesn't want to get into a relationship right now! He's very focused about what he wants. Or maybe he has this fear that what if things don't work out between the two of you! He'll end up losing your friendship as well! Maybe that's why he doesn't want to have a relationship right now! Or he may have his own reasons!!Give it some time maybe and give it another shot, if he still says no, then ask him. Don't nag him though. Anyone will get annoyed if you do that! Good luck xx :)
-N
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"Okay. So I'm in love with my boyfriend, it's been 4 months...." THIS QUESTION this is like exactly my situation and when i say this i mean like even the "4 months" thing is the same. I recently talked to my bf regarding this using the same phrases. i have this gut feeling that he sent that. OMG :3

Hahaha :) ask him and let me know x)
-N

I have started feeling sort of lonely because all my friends have boyfriends. I know that their commitments mean a lot too, but I can't help feel alone. They now want to get me a boyfriend, saying that I need one. What do I do??

What they say doesn't matter! I understand that you feel lonely! But don't get a boyfriend just because they say you need one! You have to be mentally prepared to get into that kind of commitment. If you feel that yes you need a boyfriend, then its fine, talk to guys, become friends first, please don't portray yourself as needy, they'll get the wrong impression. Get into a relationship because you want to and not because others want you to! Make more friends! Do different activities so you don't feel so lonely anymore! Even if you're going to date someone! Think before you take every step! And make sure you've taken the right decision! If you want a fling well, then its your call! Either way, make good choices and good luck xx
-N

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