Try and think about why you are doing it and talk to a friend about it, it always helps to let it out. If you dot feel comfortable talking about it you could write it down. Try to stop slowly, use an elastic ban for example and ping it against your skin, it will leave a Mark but not scar. Also get rid of anything you use to harm yourself. You could always try the butterfly challenge. Also think about your friends and family, what j mean by this is they will be hurting knowing that you are hurting yourself! It's the worst feeling knowing that a friend is cutting! No-one deserves to cut! Stay strong and good luck! Come back here any time you need<3
That's one thing i struggle at because when I like someone, I like them alot and for a long time! But I think the best way is to delete old conversations, not avoid them but try to distance yourself, try not to speak to them or think about them, go out with friends or do something else, listen to music or something. hope this helps a bit<3
Not right now as I've only just started and don't get many questions but once the questions start coming in more then i might! <3
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I'm not too sure about the numbers about what your mean to be but your only 13 and still developing and maturing so it's not a good idea to diet, just eat healthily and exercise regularly and you'll Be fine! <3
If you feel you are too thin then you could but you are young and as long as you have a healthy diet then you should be ok<3
That's not good! He should never hit you no matter what. If he is a violent person and he would so that again my advice would be to not go back out with him and try to move on. I know that's hard but it would be for the best! <3
What's the reason you broke upbwith him? It may still get in the way If yous try again. But if it's meant to be then it will workout! It's sometimes better if you stay close friends rather that going back out? Stay positive! <3
No problem! Could you share me aswell please? <3
That's possibly slightly underweight? Burbled not the numbers that necessarily matter<3
Just tell them straight, that's the best thing! If they're your real friends it won't change anything! They'll stick by you. Good luck! <3
I'm not too sure about the numbers and stuff of weights, but if your happy in yourself then that's all that matters! <3
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Yeah! One in particular I can always go to and I know my secrets are safe! <3
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I'm so sorry to hear about this! I also have self harmed. I know its easy to say try and stop, but please, try and stop...I have a friend that self harms and he is my best friend and it hurts me so much knowing he's hurting, and I'm sure there's people that hurt knowing you hurt too. its such a horrible feeling. you should talk to someone about why you do it and if you want I'm here to listen! you should possibly think about professional help too because its been going on for so long? also ive heard the butterfly challenge works? you could try that to see if it helps. also you could try stopping slowly, so try with an elastic band and ping it against yourself, it will leave a mark but it will fade so you wont have scars. I hope this has helped! and please keep me informed and feel free to come back on here to ask anything or speak to me if you want to! <3
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A pet! Or for the guy I like to like me back:3 <3
I've already had a few offers for admins but as I'm new I haven't got many questions however I may need if I get more questions!<3
That would be great, how old are you? <3
It's never good arguing with siblings! But why do you argue? Maybe try talking to her. Or maybe you could not talk to herbdor a few days and let things settle for a bit. Try and work it out with them because it's important to have your sisters close they are often the best people to talk to about problems!<3
Can you? Please do! <3